A Christian Directory
§. 9. Direct. 6. Think what a foolish audacious thing it is, to set yourselves against your God and Judge. Will you accuse him of evil, because men do evil? Are you fit to judge him? Are guilty Worms either Wise or Just enough for such an attempt, or strong enough to bear it out? What do you but set your faces against Heaven, and profess Rebellion against God, when you blame his Laws and Government, and think the obeying and serving him to be evil?
§. 10. Direct. 7. Consider what cruelty it is to yourselves, to turn the saults of others to your ruin, which should be your warning to avoid the like. If another man sin, will you not only do so too, but be the more averse to Repentance and Reformation? Will you cut your throat, because another cut his finger, or did so before you? Why should you do yourselves such mischief?
§. 11. Direct. 8. Remember that this was the design of the Devil in tempting religious people to sin, not only to destroy them, but to undo you and others by their falls. If he can make you think the worse of Religion, he hath his design and will: He hath killed many at a blow. Ye • , perhaps the sinner may Repent and be forgiven, when you that are driven from Repentance and Godliness by the scandal may be damned. And will you so far gratify the Devil, in the willful destruction of yourselves? Sin is contagious: And this is your catching of the infection, if it prevail to drive you further from God? And thus this Plague devoureth multitudes.
§. 12. Direct. 9. He that will think ill of Godliness for men's sins, shall never want occasion of such offense, nor such temptations to fly from God. If you are so foolish or malignant as to pick quarrels with God and godliness for men's faults (which nothing but God and Godliness can reform) you may set up your standard of defiance against Heaven, and see what you will get by it in the end. For God will not remove all occasion of your scandal. There ever have been, and will be Hypocrites in the Church on earth. Noah's Ark had a Cham: Abraham's family had an Ishmael, and Isaac's an Esau, and David's an Absalom, and Christ's a Judas. The falls of good men are cited in Scripture, to admonish you to take heed. Noah, Lot, David, Joseph's Brethren, &c. have left a mark behind them where they fell, that you may take a safer way. If you will make all such the occasion of your malignity, you turn your medicine into your poison, and choose Hell because some others choose it, or because some stumbled in the way to Heaven.
§. 13. AND for those who are emboldened in sin because they see their superiors or religious men commit it, or read that David, Noah, Peter, &c. fell, let them consider,
Direct. 1. That it is Rule and not example that you must chiefly live by. Do the Laws of God by which you must be judged, allow of sin? If they do, then fear it not.
§. 14. Direct. 2. Is not the example of Christ much better than a sinners? If you will follow examples, follow the best, even that which was given you purposely to imitate. The greatest and most learned man is fallible, and the most religious is not wholly free from sin: Sincerity writeth after a perfect Copy, though it cannot reach it.
§. 15. Direct. 3. Consider that sin is not the better but the worse, for being committed by a Religious, a Gre • t or a Learned man. Their place, their knowledge and profession aggravateth it. And shall that embolden you which God most hateth?
§. 16. Direct. 4. And consider that when he that falleth by a surprise, doth rise again by Repentance and is pardoned, those that are hereby emboldened to sin deliberately and impenitently shall be condemned. You may sin with David or Peter when you will, but you cannot rise with them by true Repentance, without that Grace which you willfully resist and forfeit.
§. 17. Direct. 5. Lastly, Consider that the best men and the greatest are the most dangerous tempters, when they mislead us. A David was a stronger temptation to Bathsheba, than another man could have been. A Peter might sooner mislead Barnabas and others, into a sinful dissimulation and separation, than another could have done. Therefore do not think that where your danger is greatest, your venturousness should be most.
Practical Directions against Offence and burt by others.
§. 18. Direct. 1. Lay well your foundation, and understand the nature and reasons of Religion: and then you will be so far from disliking it for the errors and falls of others, that it will be written upon your minds, as with a beam of the Sun, that There can be no reason against obeying God, and against the careful securing of our salvation. This will be the first and undoubted Principle, which nothing in the world can make you question. What ever scandals, persecutions or sufferings, may attend a holy life, you will still be past doubt, that there is no other way? No other eligible, no other tolerable, no other rational, or that will lead to happiness. What ever falls out in the world, if the most great, or learned, or religious fall away, it will not make you question, Whether a man be a living creature, nor whether the Sun be light, nor whether two and two be four. No more should it make you question, Whether God be better than the Creature, Heaven than earth, or a life of Holiness than a life of sin. You will say as Peter, Lord whither should we go? thou hast the words of eternal life. John 6. What ever scandals are given, or what ever befall the Church, or if all the Disciples of Christ forsake him, this remaineth as sure as that the earth is under us, that there is no other way than Holiness, for a wise man once to take into his thoughts.
§. 19. Direct. 2. Get once a sincere Love to God and a holy life, and then no scandals will make you jealous of it, nor think of looking any other way. It is want of true and hearty Love, that maketh you so easily taken off.
§. 20. Direct. 3. To this end, know Religion by experience: and this will put you past all doubt of its goodness. He that never tasted Sugar, may be persuaded by argument that it is not sweet, or may think it bitter when he seeth another spit it out: And he that knoweth Godliness but by looking on, or hearsay, may thus be drawn to think it bad: But so will not he that hath truly tried it: I mean not only to try what it is to hear, and read, and pray; but what it is to be humble, holy and heavenly, both in heart and life.
§. 21. Direct. 4. When you see any man sin, be sure you do that duty which it calls you to. Every fall that you see of others doth call you to see the odiousness of sin (as you will do when you see a drunkard spewing, or a Thief at the Whipping-post.) And it calleth you to search for, and lament the root of such sin in yourselves; and to set your watch more strictly upon such a warning: And it calls you to compassionate the sinner, and if you have hope and opportunity, to endeavor his recovery. If you will conscionably do this duty which is your own, you will be the less in danger of hurt by scandal. Its Duty that must help to prevent infection.
§. 22. Direct. 5. Be watchful among all men, High and Low, Learned or unlearned, Good and Bad. Venture not blindly upon the singular opinion of any men whatsoever; nor into any new unproved way. Remember that all men are a temptation to others: And therefore be armed and watch against such temptation. Know well what it is that is the peculiar temptation, which the quality of those that you have to do with, layeth before you: Spend no day or hour in any company good or bad, without a wise and careful vigilancy.
§. 23. Direct. 6. Be as little as you can i • scandalous and tempting company. Presume not to touch pitch, and promise yourselves to scape defilement. Especially fly from two sorts of scandals: 1. The discourses and societies of Heretical or Schismatical men; who speak perverse things to draw away disciples after them, Acts 20. 30. Those that presume to run into such snares, and think their own understanding and stability, is sufficient to preserve them, do show by their pride that they are near a fall, 1 Cor. 10. 2. The company of sensual persons, at Stage-plays, Gaming, inordinate plays, and wanton dalliance: For this is to bring your Tinder and Gunpowder to the fire: And the less you fear it, the greater is your danger.
§. 24. Direct. 7. Look more at the good that is in others, than at their faults and falls. The Flye that will fall on none but the galled ulcerous place, doth feed accordingly. Is a professor of Religion, Covetous, Drunk, or other ways scandalous? Remember that it is his Covetousness or drunkenness that is bad; Reprove that and fly from it and spare not: But Religion is good: Let that therefore be commended and imitated. Leave the Carrion to Dogs and Crows to feast upon: But do you choose out the things that are commendable, and mind and mention and imitate those.
§. 25. Direct. 8. Lastly, Think and speak as much against the sin and danger of taking-scandal, as against the sin and danger of giving it. When others cry out, These are your religious people; Do you cry out as much against their malignity and madness, who will dislike or reproach Religion for men's sins? Which is to blame the the Law-makers or Laws, because they are broken; or to fall out with Health, because many that once were in health, fall sick: or to find fault with eating because some are lean, or with clothing, because some are cold. Open to yourselves and others, what a wicked and perilous thing this is, to fall out with Godliness, because some are ungodly, that seemed godly. Many cry out against Scandal, Scandal, that never think, what a heinous sin it is to be scandalized, or to suffer men's sins to be a scandal to you; and to be the worse because that others are so bad. No one must differ from them in an opinion, or a fashion of apparel, or in a mode or form of Worship, but some are presently scandalized: Not knowing that it is a greater sin in them to be scandalized, than in the other by such means (supposing them to be faulty,) to give them the occasion. Do you know what it is to be scandalized or offended in the Scripture sense? It is not merely to be displeased, or to dislike another's actions (as is before said). But it is to be drawn into some sin, or hindered from some duty, or stopped in the course of Religion, or to think the worse of truth, or duty, or a godly life, because of other men's words or actions. And do you think him a good Christian, and a faithful or constant friend to godliness, who is so easily brought to quarrel with it? Or is so easily turned from it, or hindered in it? Some peevish childish persons are like sick stomachs, that no meat can please; you cannot dress it so curiously, but they complain that it is naught, or this ayleth it, or that ayleth it; when the fault is in themselves: Or like children, or sick persons that can scarce be touched, but they are hurt: Do you think that this sickliness or curiosity in Religion is a credit to you? This is not the tenderness of Conscience which God requireth, to be easily hurt by other men's differences or faults: As it is the shame of many Ladies and Gentlewomen, to be so curious and troublesomely neat, that no servant knoweth how to please them; so is it in Religion, a sign of your childish folly and worse, to be guilty of such proud curiosity, that none can please you who are not exactly of your mind and way: All men must follow your humors in gestures, fashions, opinions, formalities and modes, or else you are troubled, and offended, and scandalized: As if all the world were made to please and humor you! Or you were wise enough, and great and good enough, to be the rule of all about you? Desire and spare not, that yourselves and all men should please God as exactly as is possible! But if the want of that exactness in doubtful things, or a difference in things disputable and doubtful among true Christians, do thereupon abate or hinder your Love or estimation of your brethren, or communion with them, or any other Christian duty, or tempt you into censoriousness or contempt of your brethren, or to Schism, Persecution or any other sin, it is you that are the great offenders, and you that are like to be the sufferers; and have cause to lament that sinful aptness to be thus scandalized.
CHAP. XIV. Directions against soul-murder, and partaking of other men's sins.
THE special Directions given Part 3. Ch. 22. to Parents and Masters, will in this case, be of great use to all others; But because it is here seasonable to speak of it further, under the sixth Commandment, and the matter is of greatest consequence, I shall, 1. Tell you how men are guilty of soul-murder. 2. And then give you some General Directions for the furthering of men's salvation. 3. And next give you some special Directions for Christian Exhortation and Reproofs.
§. 1. 1. Men are guilty of soul-murder by all these ways: 1. By preaching false soul-murdering doctrine: such as denieth any necessary point of faith, or holy living: such as is opposite to a holy life, or to any particular necessary duty: such as maketh sin to be no sin; which call good evil, and evil good; wich putteth darkness for light, and light for darkness.
§. 2. 2. By false application of true doctrine, indirectly reflecting upon and disgracing that holiness of life, which in terms they preach for: By prevarication undermining that cause which their office is appointed to promote. As they do, who purposely so describe any vice, that the hearers may be drawn to think that strict and Godly practices, are either that sin itself, or but a Cloak to hide it.
§. 3. 3. By bringing the persons of the most religious into hatred, by such false applications, reflections, or secret insinuations, or open calumnies: Making men believe that they are all but Hypocrites, or Schismatics, or seditious, or fanatical self-conceited persons! Which is usually done either by impudent slanders raised against some particular men, and so reflected on the rest; or by the advantage of factions, controversies or Civil Wars; or by the falls of any professors, or the crimes of Hypocrites: whereupon they would make the World believe, that they are all alike; As if all Christ's family were to be judged of by Peters fall, or Judas falsehood. And the odious representation of Godly men doth greatly prevail to keep others from Godliness, and is one of the Devils most successful means, for the damnation of multitudes of souls.
§. 4. 4. The disgrace of the persons of the Preachers of the Gospel, doth greatly further men's damnation. For when the people think their Teachers to be Hypocrites, Covetous, Proud, and secretly as bad as others, they are very like to think accordingly of their doctrine, and that all strict Religion is but hypocrisy, or at least to refuse their help and counsels. Even Plutarch noted, that [ It so comes to pass, that we entertain not virtue, nor are • apt into a desire of imitating it, unless we highly honor and love the person in whom it is discerned. ] And if they see or think the Preacher to be himself of a loose and careless and licentious life, they will think that the like is very excusable in themselves; and that his doctrine is but a form of speech, which his office bindeth him to say; but is no more to be regarded by them, than by himself.
Two ways is men's damnation thus promoted: 1. By the ill lives of hypocritical ungodly preachers, who actually bring their own persons into disgrace, and thereby also the persons of others, and consequently their sacred work and function: 2. By wicked Preachers and people, who, through a malignant hatred of those that are abler, and better than themselves, and an envy of their reputation, do labor to make the most zealous and faithful Preachers of the Gospel, to be thought to be the most hypocritical, or erroneous, or factious and schismatical.
§. 5. 5. The neglect of Ministerial duties is a common cause of sin, and of men's damnation. When they that take the charge of souls are either unable or unwilling to do their office: when they teach them too seldom, or too unskilfully; in an unsuitable manner; not choosing that doctrine which they most need; or not opening it plainly and methodically in a fitness to their capacities: or not applying it with necessary seriousness and urgency to the hearers state: When men preach to the ungodly who are near to damnation, in a formal pase, like a School-boy saying his lesson, or in a drowsy reading tone, as if they came to preach them all asleep, or were afraid of wakening them: When they speak of sin and misery and Christ, of Heaven and Hell, as if by the manner they came to contradict the matter, and to persuade men that there are no such things.
The same mischief followeth the neglect of private personal inspection: When Ministers think that they have done all, when they have said a Sermon, and never make conscience of laboring personally to convince the ungodly, and reclaim offenders, and draw sinners to God, and confirm the weak. And the omission (much more the perversion and abuse) of sacred Discipline, hath the like effects. When the Keys of the Church are used to shut out the good, or not used when they ought, to rebuke or to shut out the impenitent wicked ones; nor to difference between the precious and the vile, it hardeneth multitudes in their ungodliness, and persuadeth them that they are really of the same family of Christ as the Godly are, and have their sins forgiven, because they are partakers of the same Holy Sacraments. (Not knowing the difference between the Church mystical and visible, nor between the judgment of ministers and of Christ himself. )
§. 6. 6. Parents neglect of instructing Children, and other parts of holy education, is one of the greatest causes of the perdition of mankind, in all the World: But of this elsewhere.
§. 7. 7. Magistrates persecution or opposition to Religion, or discountenancing those that preach it, or most seriously practice it, tendeth to deceive some, who over-reverence the judgment of superiors, and to affright others from the obedience of God.
§. 8. 8. Yea the negligence of Magistrates, Masters and other Superiors, omitting the due rebuke of sinners, and due correction of the offenders, and the due encouragement of the good, is a great cause of the wickedness and damnation of the World.
§. 9. 9. But above all, when they make Laws for sin, or for the contempt, or dishonor or suppression of Religion, or the serious practice of it, this buildeth up Satan's Kingdom most effectually, and turneth God's Ordinance against himself: Thousands under Infidel and ungodly Princes, are conducted by Obedience to damnation; and their Rulers damn them as honourably as the Physician killed his Patients, who boasted that he did it secundum artem, according to the rules of art.
§. 10. 10. The vulgar example of the multitude of the ungodly, is a great cause of men's impiety and damnation. They must be well resolved for God and holiness, who will not yield to the major Vote, nor be carried down the common stream, nor run with the rabble to excess of riot. When Christianity is a Sect which is everywhere spoken against, it proveth so narrow a way that few have a mind to walk in it. Men think that they are at least excusable, for not being wiser and better than the multitude. Singularity in honor or riches or strength or health, is accounted no crime; but singularity in godliness is, at least thought unnecessary. [What! will you be wiser, than all the Town, or than such and such superiors?] is thought a good reprehension of Godliness, where it is rare; Even by them who hereby conclude their superiors, or all the Town to be wiser than God.
§. 11. 11. Also the vulgars scorning and deriding Godliness, is a common cause of Murdering souls: Because the Devil knoweth, that there cannot one Word of solid Reason, be brought against the Reason of God, and so against a Holy life, he therefore teacheth men to use such weapons as they have! A Dog hath teeth, and an Adder hath a sting, though they have not the Weapons of a man: A fool can laugh, and jeer and rail; and there is no great wit or learning necessary, to smile, or grin, or call a man a Puritan, or precisian, or Heretic or Schismatic, or any name which the malice of the age shall newly coin. Mr. Robert Bolton largely showeth how much the malignity of his age, did vent itself against Godliness, by the reproachful use of the word, Puritan. When Reason can be bribed to take the Devils part (either natural or literate reason) he will hire it at any rate: But when it cannot, he will make use of such as he can get! Barking or hissing may serve turn, where talking and disputing cannot be procured. Drum and Trumpets in an Army, serve the turn instead of Oratory, to animate cowards, and drown the noise of dying men's complaints and groans. Thousands have been mocked out of their Religion and salvation at once, and jeered into Hell; who now know whether a scorn, or the fire of Hell, be the greater suffering. As Tyrants think that the Greatest and Ablest and wisest men, must either be drawn over to their party or destroyed; so the Tyrant of Hell who ruleth in the Children of disobedience, doth think that if Reason, Learning and wit cannot be hired to dispute for him against God, they are to be suppressed, silenced and disgraced; which the noise of rude clamours, and foolish jeers is fit enough to perform.
§. 12. 12. Also idle senseless prating against Religion as a needless thing, doth serve turn to deceive the simple: Ignorant people who converse with no wiser men, are ordinarily taken with the silly cavils of a drunken sot, who hath but a little more volubility or looseness of tongue than his companions. It would make ones head and heart to ache, to hear with what reverend non-sense, one of them will talk against the doctrines or practices of Godliness, and how submissively the tractable herd receiveth and consenteth to his documents!
§. 13. 13. Also it tendeth much to the helping of Satan, and mudering of souls, to keep up the reputation of the most ungodly, and to keep down the reputation of the good. The Devil knoweth that sin itself is such a thing as few men can love bare-faced, or commend: And that Goodness or Holiness is such a thing, as few men can hate, or at least condemn, in its proper name and colors. Therefore he seeketh to make the reputation of the Persons serve, to promote or hinder the Cause which he is for or against. He that is ashamed to say of Drunkenness or Whoredom, that they are good and honest practices, dare yet say of Drunkards and Whoremongers [ They are very honest men]: And by their reputation, take off some of the odiousness of the sin, and reconcile the hearers to it. And he that cannot for shame say, of the forbearing of sin, and living a holy life, in Heavenly contemplation, prayer and obedience, that [ These are hypocrisy, schism or sedition, covetousness, deceit and pride. ] Yet dare say of the person who practiseth them, that [He is as Covetous, deceitful, proud, hypocritical, schismatical or seditious, as any others who make no profession of religion.] And the Devil knoweth, that though good doctrine hath no mixture of Evil, nor Christ himself any blemish or spot, yet the best persons are so faulty or defectible, that an ill report of them, is less incredible, there being too much matter to raise a suspicion on. And through their sides, it is easiest to wound the doctrine or holiness which they profess.
§. 14. 14. Also persuading sinners to do evil, and dissuading them from a Godly life, is another way of murdering souls. The Devils Temptations are most by instruments. He hath his Preachers as well as Christ: And it were well if they did not overgoe us in earnestness, frequency and constancy. Where is there a poor soul, that is moved by God to Turn and Live, but the devil hath some at hand to drive them from it? by persuading them that it is needless, and that all is well with them, and telling them some dismal stories of a holy life.
§. 15. 15. Another way of soul murder, is by laying baits of deceit and sin, before the sinner: As men destroy Rats and Mice by baits and sweetened poison, or catch Fishes or Birds, by covering their death with something which they most love: So doth the Devil and his instruments destroy souls, the baits of a pleasant cup, or pleasant company, or pleasant meats, or pleasant sports, or Plays, or Games: A Feast, a Tavern, an Ale-house, a Whore, a Stage-play, a Romance, a pair of Cards or Dice, can do the deed. If he can possibly he will prove it a thing lawful; If he cannot he will prove it a venial sin: If that cannot be, he will drown consideration, and stop the mouth of Reason, and Conscience, and cry, Drive on. Some have yet higher baits than these; Lordships and Lands, Dominion and Honor, to choke their souls.
§. 16. 16. Also an honest name for sin, and a dishonest name for duty to God, doth serve the turn for many men's perdition. To call drunkenness [ good fellowship, or to take a Cup, ] and Gluttony [ good house keeping, ] and voluptuousness [ recreation or pastime; ] and pride [ the maintaining of their honor; ] and worldliness [ good husbandry; ] and prodigality [ liberality; ] and lust and whoredom, [ Love, and having a Mistress, ] and oppression [ the seeking of their due; ] and perfidious dissimulation [ Courtship; ] and jeering [ Wittiness; ] These and more such are traps for souls. And of the same use is the calling of duties by names of vice, which tend to make them odious or contemptible.
§. 17. 17. Also the flattering of sinners, and praising them in their sin, is a soul murdering encouragement to them in ill doing: And great sinners seldom want such enemies.
§. 18. 18 An obedient readiness to all that wicked Superiors command, is an encouragement to them to proceed in mischief. If Parents or Masters command their inferiors to spend the Lord's Day in dancing or other unlawful exercises; or bid them steal, or lie, or forbid them to worship God; those that obey them, do harden them in their sin: As Daniel and the three Witnesses had done the King, if they had obeyed him.
§. 19. 19. Also when those that have power to hinder sin, and further godliness, do not do it. When they either give men leave to sin, or forbear their duty when they should restrain it. He that stands by, and seeth his neighbor robbed or murdered, and doth not what he can to save him, is guilty of the sin, and the sufferers hurt.
§. 20. 20. Silence when we are obliged to reprove a sinner, or to instruct the ignorant, or exhort the obstinate, or any way speak for men's salvation, is injurious to their souls, and maketh us partakers of their sin. Soul murder may be done by bare omissions.
§. 21. 21. Opposing Magistrates, Ministers, or any others, in the discharge of their duty for godliness or against sin, is an act of hostility against God and men's salvation.
§. 22. 22. An unnecessary occasioning of sin, or doing that needlessly, which we may foresee that by accident another will destroy himself by, is to be guilty of his sin and destruction: As he is that would sell poison to him that he might forsee would kill himself with it; or lend fire to his neighbor, who he knoweth will burn his house with it. But of this before, in the Chapter of Scandal.
§. 23. 23. They that are guilty of Schisms or Church-divisions, or murderers of souls: By depriving them of that means (the concord and harmony of believers) which God hath appointed for men's conviction and salvation: and by setting up before them the greatest scandal, to bring Religion into contempt, and debilitate the godly.
§. 24. 24. Those also that mourn not for the sins of the times, and confess them not to God, and pray not against them, and pray not for the sinners when they ought, are thus guilty.
§. 25. 25. And so are they that secretly rejoice in sin, or consent to it, or approve it, when it is done: which if they manifest, it is pernicious to others also.
§. 26. 26. Lastly, A coldness or indifferency in the doing of our duty against sin, without just zeal, and pity to the sinner, and reverence to the truth, is a way of guilt, and hurteth others: To reprove sin as Eli did his sons; or to speak against it lightly, as between jest and earnest, is the way to make the sinner think, that it is a small or jesting matter. To persuade men to conversion or a godly life, without a melting love and pity to their souls, and without the reverence of God, and seriousness of mind, which the nature and weight of the thing requireth, is the way to harden them in their sin and misery. All these ways may a man be guilty, 1. Of the sin; and 2. The perdition of another.
§. 27. But here (on the Negative part) take notice of these things following.
1. That properly no man doth partake of the same formal numerical sin, which is another's: Noxa caput sequitur. The sin is individuated and informed by the individual will of the offender. It is not possible that another man's sin should be properly and formally mine, unless I were individually and formally that same man and not another. If two men set their hands to the same evil deed, they are distinct causes and subjects of the distinct formal guilt; though Con-causes, and partial causes of the effect: So that it is only by multiplication, that we make the sin or guilt of another, to become the matter of sin to us, the form resulting from ourselves.
§. 28. 2. All men that are guilty of the sin and damnation of other men, are not equally guilty: Not only as some are pardoned upon repentance, and some remain impenitent and unpardoned: But as some contribute willfully to the mischief, and with delight, and in a greater measure; and some only in a small degree, by an oversight, or small omission, or weak performance of a duty, by mere infirmity or surprise.
§. 29. 3. All that do not hinder sin, or reprove it, are not guilty of it: No more than all that do not punish it: But those only that have power and opportunity, and so are called by God to do it.
§. 30. 4. If another man will sin and destroy his soul, by the occasion of my necessary duty, I must not cease my duty to prevent such men's sin or hurt: Else one or other will by their perverseness, excuse me from almost all the duty which I should do: I must not cease praying, hearing, Sacraments, nor withdraw from Church-communion, because another will turn it to his sin. Else Satan should use the sin of others to frustrate all God's worship. Yet I must add, that many things cease to be a duty, when another will be so hurt by them.
§. 31. 5. I am not guilty of all men's sins, which are committed in my presence; no though I know before hand that they will sin. For my calling or duty may lead me into the presence of those that I may • ore know will sin: Wicked men sin in all that they do: And yet it followeth not that I must have nothing to do with them. Many a failing which is his sin, may a Minister or Church be guilty of, even in that public Worship of God, which yet I am bound to be present at.
But of all these somewhat is said before Chap. 12.
CHAP. XV. General Directions for the furthering of the salvation of others.
THE great Means which we must use for the salvation of our Neighbors are,
§. 1. Direct. 1. S • und Doctrine: Let those who are their instructors, inculcate the wholesome Principles of Godliness; which are, Self-denial, Mortification, the Love of God and man, the Hopes of Heaven, universal absolute obedience to God; and all this by faith in Jesus Christ, according to the Holy Scriptures.
Instead of Novelties or vain janglings, and perverse disputings, teach them these Principles here briefly named, over and over an hundred times: Open these plainly, till they are well understood: These are the necessary saving things: This is the doctrine which is according to godliness: which will make sound Christians, of sound judgments, sound hearts, sound conversations, and sound consciences! God sanctifieth his chosen ones by these Truths.
§. 2. Direct. 2. Therefore do your best to help others to the benefit of able and faithful Pastors and Instructers. A fruitful soil is not better for your seed; nor a good pasture for your Horse or Cattle, nor wholesome diet for yourselves, than such instructors are for your neighbors souls. If you love them, you should be more desirous, to help them to good Teachers, or plant them under a sound and powerful Ministry, than to procure them any worldly benefits. One time or other the Word may prevail with them: It is hopeful to be still in mercies way.
§. 3. Direct. 3. The concord of their Teachers among themselves is a great help to the saving of the flock: John 17. 21, 25. That they all may be One, as thou Father art in me, and I in thee, that they also may be one in us; that the world may believe that thou hast sent me. Concord much furthereth reverence and belief; and consequently men's salvation; (so it be a holy concord. )
§. 4. Direct. 4. The Concord also of godly private Christians hath the same effect: When the ignorant see here a Sect and there a Sect, and hear them condemning one another it teacheth them to contemn them all, and think contemptibly of piety itself: But concord layeth an awe upon them.
§. 5. Direct. 5. The blameless, humble, loving, heavenly lives of Christians, is a powerful means of winning souls. Preach therefore everyone of you, by such a conversation, to all your neighbors, whom you desire to save.
§. 6. Direct. 6. Keep those whom you would save, in a humble, patient, learning posture▪ and keep them from proud wranglings, and running after novelties and Sects. The humble Learner takes root downward, and silently groweth up to wisdom: But if once they grow self conceited, they turn to wranglings, and place their Religion in espoused singular Opinions, and in being on this or that side, or Church; and fall into divided Congregations, where the business is to build up souls by destroying Charity, and teaching Sectaries to overvalue themselves, and despise dissenters. Till at last they run themselves out of breath, and perhaps fall out with all true Religion.
§. 7. Direct. 7. Do what you can to place them in good families, and when they are to be ma •• ied to join them to such as are fit to be their helpers. In families and relations of that sort people are so near together, and in such constant converse, that it will be very much of the help or hindrance of their salvation.
§. 8. Direct. 8. Keep them also as much as is possible in good company, and out of bad seducing company: Especially those that are to be their familiars. The worlds experience telleth us what power Company hath, to make men better or worse. And what a great advantage it is, to work anything on men's minds, to have interest in them, and intimacy with them: Especially with those that are yet to receive their deepest impressions.
§. 9. Direct. 9. Keep them from the most dangerous baits, opportunities and temptations to sensuality. Withdraw the Tinder and Gunpowder from the fire. There is no curing a drunkard ordinarily in an Ale-house or Tavern, or a Fornicator while he is near the objects of his lust, nor a Glutton at a full enticing table: Set them at a farther distance from the danger, if you would have them safe. Nemo diu tutus periculo proximus. Senec.
§. 10. Direct. 10. Take the advantage of their personal afflictions, or any other notable warnings that are near them. Keep them oft in the house of mourning, where death may be as in their sight: And keep them out of the house of foolish mirth. The time of sickness is an awakening time, and powerfully openeth the ear to counsel. The fight of the dead or dying persons, the hearing of sick men's wishes and complaints, the sight of Graves and dead men's bones (if not too oft to make it customary) doth often force the most foolish and obstinate, to some man-like profitable thoughts. When the noise of foolish mirth and sports, at rabble meetings, and Stage-plays, and May-games, and ryotings, or immoderate, rude or tempting Plays, do kill all sober saving motions, and undispose the mind to all thats good. Though seasonable and useful delights are lawful, yet such as are unseasonable, immoderate, ensnaring, scandalous, or unprofitable, are pernicious and poison to the soul.
§. 11. Direct. 11. Engage them in the reading of the holy Scriptures, and of such Books of practical Divinity, as do at once most plainly acquaint them with the Principles of Religion, and piercingly set them home upon the conscience: that judgment and affection, head and heart may be edified at once. Such suitable Books may be daily their companions; and it is a great advantage to them, that they may have a powerful Sermon when they please, and read over the same things as oft as the frailty of their memories do require. Such private innocent companions have saved many a soul.
§. 12. Direct. 12. Engage them in a constant course of prayer (whether it be with a Book or form, or without, according to the parts and condition of the person). For the often approaching to God in so holy a work, will affright or shame a man from sin, and stir him up to serious thoughts of his salvation, and engage him to a godly life.
§. 13. Direct. 13. If you would have all these means effectual to men's conversion and salvation show them all hearty love and kindness, and do them all the good you can. Men are naturally more easily sensible of the good of their bodies than of their souls: And a kindness to the body is thankfully received, and may prepare them to receive a greater benefit. What you are unable to do for them yourselves, solicit those that are able to do: Or if you cannot do that neither, at least show your pity and good will: Love is the most powerful Preacher in the world.
§. 14. Direct. 14. Be sure that you have no fallings-out or quarrels with any that you would do good upon! And to that end, usually it is the best way, to have as little to do with them in buying and selling, or any worldly matters, where Mine and Thine may come into competition, as possibly as you can: Or if you cannot avoid it, you must be content to part with somewhat of your right, and suffer some wrongs for fear of hurt to your neighbors soul. Even godly persons, yea, Parents and Children, Brethren and Sisters usually fall out about Mine and Thine! And when self-interest hath bred the quarrel, they usually think ill of the person who is supposed to injure them: And then they are made uncapable of receiving any spiritual good by him: And if he seem Religious, they are oft alienated from Religion for his sake. And all unconverted persons are selfish, and usually look that you should fulfill their desires, and suit yourselves to their interest, without respect to right or wrong, or to your own sufferings! Yet such as these must be pitied and helped: And therefore it is usually best, to avoid all chaffering or worldly dealings with them, left you lose them. And when that cannot be, you must judge a little departing from your own right, to be a very cheap price to procure the good of a neighbors soul.
§. 15. Direct. 15. See that in matters of Religion you neither run too far from such men in things lawful, nor yet do anything sinful in compliance with them. By concurring with them in any sin, you will harden them, and hinder their conversion: And so you will by singular or violent opposition in things indifferent. Those persons are quite mistaken, who think that Godly men must go as far from the ungodly as ever they can, in lawful things: and say, The ungodly do thus, and therefore we must do otherwise! Paul was of another mind and practice, when he circumcised Timothy, and became all things to all men to save some. To place Religion in things indifferent, and to cry out against lawful things as sinful, or to fly from others by needless singularities, is a great cause of the hardening and perdition of multitudes, turning their hearts against Religion, and making them think that it is but unnecessary scruple, and that Religious persons are but self-conceited brainsick people, that make to themselves a duty of their superstition, and condemn all that be not as humorous as they. Lay not such stumbling blocks before any whose souls you desire to save.
CHAP. XVI. Special Directions for Christian Conference, Exhortation and Reproof.
Tit. 1. Motives to Christian Conference and Exhortation.
THE right use of Speech being a duty of so great importance, as I have before shown about the Government of the Tongue, and it being a way of Communication by which we are all obliged to exercise our Love to one another, even in the greatest matter, the saving of souls, I shall first endeavor to persuade them to this duty who make too little conscience of it: and that by these following considerations.
§. 1. Mot. 1. Consider that it is the exercise of our Humanity: Reason and Speech do difference us from Bruites. If by being Reasonable we are men, then by using Reason we live as men: And the first communicative use of Reason is by speech: By thinking, we exercise Reason for ourselves: By speaking, we exercise it (first) for others. Therefore if our Reason be given us for the highest uses to ourselves, (to know God and eternal life, and the Means thereto), then certainly our Speech is also given us, for the same highest uses, by way of Communication unto others. Use therefore your tongues to those nobles Ends, for which they were given you. Use them as the tongues of men, to the Ends which human nature is created for.
§. 2. Mot. 2. There is no subject so sublime and honorable, for the Tongue of man to be employed about, as the matters of God and life eternal. Children will talk of childish toys; and Countrymen talk of their Corn and Cattle, and Princes and Statesmen look down on these with contemptuous smiles, as much below them: But Crowns and Kingdoms are incomparably more below the business of a holy soul! The higher subjects Philosophers treat of, the more honorable (if well done,) are their discourses. But none is so high as God and glory.
§. 3. Mot. 3. It is the most profitable subject to the hearers: A discourse of Riches at the most can but direct them how to grow rich: A discourse of Honors usually puffeth up the minds of the ambitious: And if it could advance the auditors to Honor, the fruit would be a vanity little to be desired. But a discourse of God, and Heaven, and Holiness, doth tend to change the hearers minds, into the nature of the things discourst of: It hath been the means of converting and sanctifying many a thousand souls. As learned discourses tend to make men learned in the things discourst off; so holy discourses tend to make men holy: For as natural Generation begetteth not Gold or Kingdoms, but a Man; so speech is not made to communicate to others (directly) the wealth, or health, or honors, or any extrinsical things which the speaker hath; but to communicate those Mental Excellencies which he is possessed of. Prov. 16. 21, 22. The sweetness of the lips increaseth learning: Understanding is a well-spring of life to him that hath it. Prov. 10. 13, 21. In the lips of him that hath understanding wisdom is found—The lips of the righteous feed many. Prov. 15. 7. The lips of the wise disperse knowledge; but the heart of the foolish doth not so. Prov. 20. 15. There is Gold and a multitude of Rubies: but the lips of knowledge are a precious Jewel. Prov. 10. 20. The tongue of the just is as choice Silver: the heart of the wicked is little worth.
§. 4. Mot. 4. Holy discourse is also most profitable to the speaker himself. Grace increaseth by the exercise. Even in instructing others and opening truth, we are oft times more powerfully led up to further truth ourselves, than by solitary studies: For Speech doth awaken the intellectual faculty, and keepeth on the thoughts in order, and one truth oft inferreth others, to a thus excited and prepared mind. And the tongue hath a power of moving own our hearts: When we blow the fire to warm another, both the exercise and the fire warm ourselves: It kindleth the flames of holy love in us, to declare the praise of God to others: It increaseth a hatred of sin in us, to open its odiousness to others. We starve ourselves, when we starve the souls which we should cherish.
§. 5. Mot. 5. Holy and Heavenly discourse is the most delectable. I mean in its own aptitude, and to a mind that is not diseased by corruption. That which is most Great, and Good, and Necessary, is most delectable. What should best please us, but that which is best for us? And best for others? And best in itself? The excellency of the subject maketh it delightful! And so doth the exercise of our Graces upon it: And serious conference doth help down the truth into our hearts, where it is most sweet. Besides that Nature and Charity make it pleasant to do good to others. It can be nothing better than a subversion of the appetite by carnality and wickedness, that maketh any one think idle jeasts, or tales, or plays, to be more pleasant than spiritual Heavenly conference; and the talking of Riches, or Sports or Lusts, to be sweeter than to talk of God, and Christ and grace and glory. A holy mind hath a continual feast in itself in meditating on these things; and the communicating of such thoughts to others, is a more Common and so a more pleasant feast.
§. 6. Mot. 6. Our faithfulness to God obligeth us to speak his praise, and to promote his truth, •• d plead his cause against iniquity. Hath he given us tongues to magnify his name, and set before us the admirable frame of all the World, to declare his Glory in? And shall we be backward to so sweet and great a work? How precious and useful is all his holy word? What light and life and comfort may it cause? And shall we bury it in silence? What company can we come into almost, where either the bare-faced committing of sin, or the defending it, or the opposition of truth or Godliness or the frigidity of men's hearts towards God, and supine neglect of holy things, do not call to us, if we are the servants of God, to take his part; and if we are the Children of light, to bear our testimony against the darkness of the World, and if we love God and truth and the souls of men, to sh • w it by our prudent seasonable speech? Is he true to God and to his cause, that will not open his mouth to speak for him?
§ 7. Mot. 7. And how precious a thing is an immortal soul, and therefore not to be neglected. Did Christ think souls to be worth his Mediation, by such strange condescension, even to a shameful death? Did he think them worth his coming into flesh, to be their teacher? And will you not think them worth the speaking to?
§. 8. Mot. 8. See also the greatness of your sin, in the negligence of unfaithful Ministers. It is easy to see the odiousness of their sin, who preach not the Gospel, or do no more than by an hours dry and dead discourse, shift off the serious work which they should do; and think they may be excused from all personal oversight and helping of the people's souls, all the Week after. And why should you not perceive that a dumb private Christian is also to be condemned, as well as a dumb Minister? Is not profitable conference your duty, as well as profitable preaching is his? How many persons condemn themselves, while they speak against unfaithful Pastors? being themselves as unfaithful to Families and Neighbors, as the other are to the flock?
§. 9. Mot. 9. And consider how the cheapness of the means, doth aggravate the sin of your neglect? and show much unmercifulness to souls. Words cost you little. Indeed alone, without the company of good works, they are too cheap for God to accept of. But if an Hypocrite may bring so cheap a sacrifice, who is rejected, what doth he deserve that thinketh it too dear? What will that man do for God or for his Neighbors soul, who will not open his mouth to speak for them? He seemeth to have less love than that man in Hell, Luk. 16. who would so fain have had a messenger sent from another World, to have warned his brethren, and saved them from that place of torment.
§. 10. Mot. 10. Your fruitful conference is a needful help to the ministerial work. When the Preacher hath publicly delivered the Word of God to the Assembly, if you would so far second him, as in your daily converse, to set it home on the hearts of those that you have opportunity to discourse with, how great an assistance would it be to his success? Though he must teach them publicly and from house to house, yet is it not possible for him to be so frequent and familiar in daily conference with all the ignorant of the place, as those that are still with them may be. You are many and he is but one, and can be but in one place at once. Your business bringeth you into their company, when he cannot be there. Oh Happy is that Minister, who hath such a people, who will daily preach over the matter of his public Sermons, in their private conference with one another? Many hands make quick work. This would most effectually prevail against the powers of darkness, and cast out Satan from multitudes of miserable souls.
§. 11. Mot. 11. Yea when Ministers are wanting, through scarcity, persecution, or un • aithfulness and negligence, the people's holy profitable conference, would do much towards the supplying of that want. There have few places and ages of the World been so happy, but that learned, able, faithful Pastors have been so few, that we had need to pray to the Lord of the Harvest to send forth more: And it is nothing unusual to have those few silenced or hindered from the Preaching of the Gospel, by the factions or the malignity of the World! And it is yet more common to have ignorant or ungodly persons in that office, who betray the people's souls by their usurpation, impiety or slothfulness. But if in all such wants, the people that fear God, would do their part in private conference, it would be an excellent supply. Ministers may be silenced from public preaching, when you cannot be silenced from profitable discourse.
§. 12. Mot. 12. It is a duty that hath many great advantages for success. 1. You may choose your season: If one time be not fit you may take another. 2. You may choose the person, whom you find to have the greatest necessity or capacity, and where your labor is likeliest to take. 3. You may choose your subject, and speak of that which you find most suitable. There is no restraint nor imposition upon you, to hinder your liberty in this. 4. You may choose your arguments by which you would enforce it. 5. Interlocutory conference keepeth your auditors attentive, and carrieth them on along with you as you go. And it maketh the application much more easy, by their nearness and the familiarity of the discourse: when Sermons are usually heard but as an insignificant sound, or words of course. 6. You may at your pleasure go back and repeat those things which the hearer doth not understand or doth forget: which a Preacher in the Pulpit cannot do without the censure of the more curious auditors. 7. You may perceive by the answers of them whom you speak to, what particulars you need most to insist on, and what objections you should most carefully resolve: and when you have satisfied them, and may proceed: all which it is hard for a Minister to do in public Preaching. And is it not a great sin to neglect such an advantageous duty?
§. 13. Mot. 13. And it should somewhat encourage you to it, that it is an unquestionable duty, when many other are brought into Controversy. Ministers Preach under the regulation of human Laws and Canons, and it is a great Controversy with many, whether they should Preach when they are silenced or forbidden by their superiors: But whether you may speak for God and for men's salvation in your familiar conference, no man questioneth, nor doth any Law forbid it.
§. 14. Mot. 14. Hath not the fruitful conference of others in the days of your ignorance done good to you? Have you not been instructed, convinced, persuaded and comforted by it? What had become of you, if all men had let you alone, and past you by, and left you to yourselves? And doth not Justice require that you do good to others, as others have done to you; in the use of such a tried means?
§. 15. Mot. 15. Consider how forward the Devils servants are to plead his cause! How readily and fiercely will an ignorant drunken sot pour out his reproaches and scorns against Religion? and speak evil of the things which he never understood? How zealously will a Papist or Heretic or Schismatic promote the interest of his sect, and labor to proselyte others to his party? And shall we be less zealous and serviceable for Christ, than the Devils servants are for him? and do less to save souls, than they will do to damn them?
§. 16. Mot. 16. Nay in the time of your sin and ignorance, if you have not spoken against Religion, nor taught others to curse or swear or speak in ribbald filthy language, yet at least you have spent many an hour in idle fruitless talk? And doth not this now oblige you, to show your Repentance by more fruitful conference? Will you since your Conversion, speak as unprofitably as you did before?
§. 17. Mot. 17. Holy conference will prevent the guilt of foolish idle talk. Men will not be long silent, but will talk of somewhat: And if they have not profitable things to talk of, they will prate of vanity. All the foolish chat, and frothy jeasts, and scurrilous ribbaldry, and envious backbiting, which taketh up men's time, and poisoneth the hearers, is caused by their want of edifying discourse, which should keep it out. The rankest wits and tongues will have most weeds if they be not cultivated and taught to bear a better crop.
§. 18. Mot. 18. Your tongues will be instrumental to public good, or public hurt: When filthy vain and impious language is grown common, it will bring down common plagues and judgments? And if you cross not the custom, you seem to be consenters, and harden men in their sin. But holy conference may at least show that some partake not of the evil, and may free them from the Plague, if they prevail not with others so far as to prevent it. Mal. 3. 16, 17, 18. Then they that feared the Lord spake often one to another, and the Lord hearkened and heard it: and a book of remembrance was written before him for them, that feared the Lord and thought upon his name. And they shall be mine saith the Lord of Hosts in that day when I make up my jewels, and I will spare them as a man spareth his own Son that serveth him.
§. 19. Mot. 19. Consider what great necessity there is everywhere of fruitful edifying speech. 1. In the multitude of the ignorant: and the greatness of their ignorance. 2. The numbers of the sensual and obstinate. 3. The power of blindness, and of every sin: What root it hath taken in the most of men. 4. The multitude of baits which are everywhere before them. 5. The subtlety of Satan and his instruments in tempting. 6. The weakness and inconstancy of man, that hath need of constant solicitation. 7. The want of holy faithful Pastors, which maketh private men's diligence the more necessary. And in such necessity to shut up our mouths, is to shut up the bowels of our compassion, when we see our brothers need: And how then doth the Love of God dwell in us? 1 John. 3. 17. To withhold our exhortation, is as the withholding of Corn from the poor in a time of famine, which procureth a Curse, Prov. 11. 26. And though in this case men are insensible of their want, and take it not ill to be past by, yet Christ that died for them will take it ill.
§. 20. Mot. 20. Lastly consider how short a time you are like to speak; and how long you must be silent. Death will quickly stop your breath, and lay you in the dark, and tell you that all your opportunities are at an end. Speak now, for you have not long to speak. Your Neighbors lives are hasting to an end, and so are yours: They are dying and must hear no more, (till they hear their doom) and you are dying and must speak no more: And they will be lost forever if they have not help: Pity them then, and call on them to foresee the final day: Warm them now; for it must be now or never: There is no instructing or admonishing in the grave. Those sculls which you see cast up, had once tongues which should have praised their Creator and Redeemer, and have helped to save each others souls: but now they are tongueless. It is a great grief to us that are now here silenced, that we used not our Ministry more laboriously and zealously while we had time: And will it not be so with you, when death shall silence you, that you spake not for God while you had a tongue to speak?
Let all these Considerations stir up all that God hath taught a holy language, to use it for their Masters service while they may, and to repent of sinful silence.
Tit. 2. Directions for Christian Conference and Edifying speech.
§. 1. Direct. 1. THE most necessary direction, for a fruitful tongue, is to get a well-furnished mind and a holy heart, and to walk with God in holiness yourselves: For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth will speak: That which you are fullest of, is readiest to come forth: 1. Spare for no study or labor to get understanding in the things of God: It is a weariness to hear men talk foolishly of any thing: but nowhere so much as about Divine and Heavenly things. A wise Christian instructed to the Kingdom of God, hath a treasury in his mind, out of which he can bring forth things new and old: Mat. 13. 52. Prov. 14. 7. Go from the presence of a foolish man, when thou perceivest not in him the lips of knowledge. 2. Get all that holiness, in yourselves to which you would persuade another. There is a strange communicating power in the course of nature, for everything to produce its like. Learning and good utterance is very helpful: But it is holiness that is aptest to beget holiness in others. Words which proceed from the Love of God, and a truly Heavenly mind do most powerfully tend to breed in others, that Love of God and Heavenly-mindedness. 3. Live in the practice of that which you would draw your Neighbor to practice. A man that cometh warm from holy meditation, or fervent prayer, doth bring upon his heart, a fullness of matter, and an earnest desire, and a fitness to communicate that good to others, which he himself hath felt.
§. 2. Direct. 2. Especially see that you soundly Believe yourselves what you are to speak to others. He that hath secret infidelity at his heart, and is himself unsatisfied whether there be a Heaven and Hell, and whether sin be so bad, and holiness so necessary as the Scripture speaks, will speak but heartlessly of them to another. But if we believe these things as if we saw them with our eyes, how heartily shall we discourse of them?
§. 3. Direct. 3. Keep a compassionate sense of the misery, of ignorant ungodly impenitent souls. Think what a miserable bondage of darkness and sensuality they are in: and that it is light that must recover them: Think oft how quickly they must die, and what an appearance they must make before the Lord; and how miserable they must be forever, if now they be not convinced and sanctified? And sure this will stir up your bowels to pity them, and make you speak.
§. 4. Direct. 4. Subdue foolish shame or bashfulness, and get a holy fortitude of mind. Remember what a sin it is to be ashamed of such a master, and such a cause and work, which all would be glad to own at last? And that when the wicked are not ashamed of the service of the Devil, and the basest works. And remember that threatening, Mark. 8. 38. Whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, in this adulterous and sinful generation, of him also shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he cometh in the Glory of his Father with the holy Angels.
§. 5. Direct. 5. Be always furnished with those particular truths which may be most useful in this service. Study to do your work (in your degree) as Ministers study to do theirs: Who are not contented with the habitual furniture of their minds, but they also make particular prepartions, for their particular work. If you are to go into the field to your labor, you will take those tools with you by which it must be done: so do when you go abroad among any that you may do good to, and be not unfurnished for edifying discourse.
§. 6. Direct. 6. Speak most of the greatest things, (the folly of sin, the vanity of the World, the certainty and nearness of death and judgment, the overwhelming weight of Eternity, the necessity of Holiness, the work of Redemption, &c. ); and choose not the smaller matters of Religion to spend your time upon, (unless upon some special reason.) Among good men that will not lose their time on vanity, the Devil too oft prevaileth, to make them lose it by such religious conference, as is little to edification, that greater matters may be thereby thrust out: such as Paul calleth vain janglings, and doting about questions which engender strife, and not Godly edifying: As about their several opinions, or parties, or comparing one Preacher or person with another, or such things as tend but little to make the hearers more wise or holy or Heavenly.
§. 7. Direct. 7. Suit all your discourse to the quality of your Auditors: That which is best in itself, may not be best for every hearer. You must vary both your subject and manner of discourse, 1. According to the variety of men's knowledge: The wise and the foolish must not be spoken to alike. 2. According to the variety of their moral qualities: One may be very pious, and another weak in grace, and another only teachable and tractable, and another wicked and impenitent, and another obstinate and scornful: These must not be talked to with the same manner of discourse. 3. According to the variety of particular sins which they are inclined to: which in some is pride, in some sensuality, lust or idleness, in some covetousness, and in some an erroneous zeal against the Church and cause of Christ! Every wise Physician will vary his remedies, not only according to the kind of the disease, but according to its various accidents, and the complexion also of the patient.
§. 8. Direct. 8. Be sure to do most where you have most authority and obligation: He that will neglect and slight his Family, Relations, Children and Servants who are under him and always with him, and yet be zealous for the Conversion of strangers, doth discover much hypocrisy, and showeth that it is something else than the love of souls or sense of duty, which carrieth him on.
§. 9. Direct. 9. Never speak of holy things but with the greatest reverence and seriousness you can: The manner as well as the matter is needful to the effect: To talk of sin, and conversion, of God and eternity, in a common, running, careless manner, as you speak of the men and the matters of the world, is much worse than silence, and tendeth but to debauch the hearers, and bring them to a contempt of God and holiness. I remember myself that when I was young, I had sometime the company of one ancient godly Minister, who was of weaker parts than many others, but yet did profit me more than most; because he would never in prayer or conference, speak of God or the life to come, but with such marvelous seriousness and reverence, as if he had seen the Majesty and Glory which he talked of.
§. 10. Direct. 10. Take heed of inconsiderate imprudent passages, which may mar all the rest, and give malignant auditors advantage of contempt and scorn. Many honest Christians through their ignorance, thus greatly wrong the cause they manage (I would I might not say, Many Ministers). Too few words is not so bad, as one such imprudent foolish word too much.
§. 11. Direct. 11. Condescend to the weak, and bear with their infirmity: If they give you foolish answers, be not angry and impatient with them: yea, or if they perversely cavil and contradict: For the servant of the Lord must not strive, but be gentle to all men, apt to teach, patient, in meekness instructing opposers, if God peradventure will give them repentance to the acknowledging of the truth, 2 Tim. 2. 24, 25. He is a foolish Physician that cannot bear the words of a phrenetick or delirant Patient.
§. 12. Direct. 12. When you are among those that can teach you, be not so forward to teach as to learn. Be not eager to vent what you have to say, but desirous to hear what your betters have to say. Questions in such a case should be most of your part. It requireth great skill and diligence to draw that out of others which may profit you: And be not impatient if they cross your opinions, or open your ignorance. Yea, those that you can teach in other things, yet in some things may be able to add much to your knowledge.
Tit. 3. Special Directions for Reproof and Exhortation for the Good of Others.
THis duty is so great that Satan hindereth it with all his power, and so hard that most men quite omit it (unless an angry reproach may go for Christian Exhortation): And some spoil it in the management: And some proud censorious persons mistake the exercise of their pride and passion, for the exercise of a charitable Christian duty: and seem to be more sensible of their neighbors sin and misery, than of their own. Therefore that you miscarry not in so needful a work, I shall add these following Directions.
§. 1. Direct. 1. Be sure first that your reproof have a right end; and then let the manner be suited to that end. If it be to convince and convert a soul, it must be done in a manner likely to prevail: If it be only to bear down the arguments of a deceiver, to preserve the standers by, to vindicate the honor of God and godliness, and to dishonor sin, and to disgrace an obstinate factor for the Devil, then another course is fit. Therefore resolve first, by the quality of the cause and person, what must be your end.
§. 2. Direct. 2. Be sure that you reprove not that as a sin, which is no sin; either by mistaking the Law or the fact. To make duties and sins of our own opinions and inventions, and then to lay out our zeal on these, and censure or reprove all that think as hardly of such things as we; this is to make ourselves the objects of the hearers pity, and not to exercise just pity towards others! Such reproofs deserve reproof! For they discover great ignorance, and pride, and self-conceitedness, and very much harden sinners in their way; and make them think that all reproof is but the vanity of fantastical hypocrites: In some cases with a child, or servant, or private friend, or for prevention, we may speak of faults upon hearsay or suspicion: But it must be as of things uncertain: and as a warning rather than a reproof. In ordinary Reproof, you must understand the case before you speak. It is a shame to say after, I thought it had been otherwise: Such an erroneous reproof is worse than none.
§. 3. Direct. 3. Choose not the smallest sins to reprove, nor the smallest duties to exhort them to. For that will make them think that all your zeal is taken up with little matters, and that there is no great necessity of regarding you: and conscience will be but little moved by your speech: when greater things will greatly and more easily affect men.
§. 4. Direct. 4. Stop not ( with unregenerate men ) in the mention of particular sins or duties; but make use of particulars to convince them of a state of sin and misery. It is easy to convince a man that he is a sinner; and when that is done, he is never the more humbled or converted: For he will tell you, that All are sinners; and therefore he hopeth to speed as well as you. But you must make him discern his sinful state; and show him the difference between a penitent sinner and an impenitent; a converted sinner and an unconverted; a justified pardoned sinner, and an unjustified, unpardoned one: or else you will do him but little good.
§. 5. Direct. 5. Suit the manner of your reproof to the quality of the person: It is seldom that a Parent, Master, or Superior must be reproved by a private inferior: And when it is done, it must be done with great submission and respect. An angry peevish person must be dealt with tenderly, as you handle thorns: but a duller sottish person must be more earnestly and warmly dealt with. So also a greater sin must be roughly handled, or with greater detestation, than a less.
§. 6. Direct. 6. Take a fit season: Not when a man is in drink, or passion, or among others where the disgrace will vex and harden him: but in secret between him and you (if his conversion be your end).
§. 7. Direct. 7. Do all in love and tender pity: If you convince not the hearer that you do it in unfeigned love, you must (usually) expect to lose your labor; because you make not advantage of his self-love, to promote your exhortations: Therefore the exhorting way should be more frequent than the reproving way: For reproof disgraceth and exasperateth, when the same thing contrived into an exhortation may prevail.
§. 8. Direct. 8. Therefore be as much or more in showing the Good which you would draw them to, as the evil which you would turn them from. For they are never savingly converted till they are won to the Love of God and Holiness. Therefore the opening of the riches of the Gospel, and the Love of God, and the Joyes of Heaven, must be the greatest part of your treaty with a sinner.
§. 9. Direct. 9. And labor so to help him to a true understanding of the nature of Religion, that he may perceive that it is not only a necessary, but a pleasant thing. All love delights: It is the slander and misrepresentation of godliness by the Devil, the World and the Flesh, which maketh mistaken sinners shun it: The way to convert them, and win their hearts to it, is to make them know how good and pleasant it is: and to confute those calumnies.
§. 10. Direct. 10. Yet always insert the remembrance of death, and judgment, and of Hell. For the drowsy mind hath need to be awakened; and Love worketh best, when fear subserveth it. Its hard to procure a serious audience and consideration of things, from hardened hearts, if the sight of death and Hell do not help to make them serious. Danger which must be escaped, must be known and thought on. These things put weight and power into your speech.
§. 11. Direct. 11. Do all as with Divine authority: and therefore have ready some plain Texts of Scripture for the duty, and against the sin you speak of. Shew them where God himself hath said it.
§. 12. Direct. 12. Seasonable expostulations, putting themselves to judge themselves in their answer, hath a convincing and engaging force: As when you show them Scripture, ask them, [Is not this the Word of God? Do you not believe that its true? Do you think he that wrote this, knoweth not better than you or I? &c. ]
§. 13. Direct. 13. Put them on speedy practice, and prudently engage them to it by their promise. As if you speak to a drunkard, draw him to promise you to come no more (at least of so long time,) into an Ale-house? Or not drink Ale or Wine, but by the consent of his Wife, or some sober household friend who may watch over him: Engage the voluptuous, the unchaste, and gamester, to forsake the company which ensnareth them? Engage the ungodly to read the Scripture, to frequent good company, to pray morning and night (with a Book or without, as they are best able): Their promise may bring them to such a present change of practice, as may prepare for more.
§. 14. Direct. 14. If you know any near you who are much fitter than yourselves, and liker to prevail, procure them to attempt that which you cannot do succesifully. At least when sinners perceive that it is not only one man's opinion, it may somewhat move them to reverence the reproof.
§. 15. Direct. 15. Put some good Book into their hands, which is fittest to the work which you would have done: And get them to promise you seriously to read it over, and consider it: As if it be for the conversion of a careless sinner, Mr. Whateleys, or Mr. Swinnocks Treatise of Regeneration; or some other Treatise of Repentance and Conversion. If it be for one that is prejudiced against a strict Religious life, Mr. Allens Vindication of Godliness: If it be an idle voluptuous person, who wasteth precious Time in Plays or needless recreations, in gaming or an idle life, Mr. Whateleys Sermon, called The Redemption of Time: If it be a prayerless person, Dr. Prestons Saints Daily Exercise: If it be a drunkard, Mr. Harris Drunkards Cup: And for many reigning particular sins, a Book called, Solomon's Prescription against the Plague: For directions in the daily practice of Godliness, The Practice of Piety, or Mr. Thomas Gouges Directions, &c. Such Books may speak more pertinently than you can; and be as constant food to their sober thoughts; and so may further what you have begun.
§. 16. Direct. 16. When you cannot speak, or where your speaking prevaileth not, mourn for them, and earnestly pray for their recovery. A sad countenance of Nehemiah remembered Artaxerxes of his duty. A sigh or a tear for a miserable sinner, may move his heart, when exhortation will not. He hath a heart of stone, who will have no sense of his condition, when he seeth another weeping for him.
§. 17. Quest. But it is always a duty to reprove or exhort a sinner? How shall I know when it is my duty, and when it is not?
Answ. It is no duty in any of these cases following. 1. In general, When you have sufficient reason to judge, that it will do more harm than good, and will not attain its proper end: For God hath not appointed us to do hurt under pretence of duty: It is no Means, which doth cross the end which it should attain. As prayer and preaching may be a sin, when they are like to cross their proper end, so also may reproof be.
2. Therefore it must not be used when it apparently hindereth a greater good. As we may not pray or preach when we should be quenching a fire in the Town, or saving a man's life: So when reproof doth exclude some greater duty or benefit, it is unseasonable and no duty at that time. Christ alloweth us to forbear the casting of pearls before Swine, or giving that which is holy to Dogs, because of these two Reasons forementioned, It is no means to the contemptuous, and they will turn again and all to rend us. Much more, if it be some potent enemy of the Church, who will not only rend us, but the Church itself if he be so provoked; Reproving him then is not our duty.
3. Particularly, When a man is in a passion or drunk, usually it is no season to reprove him.
4. Nor when you are among others, who should not be witnesses of the fault or the reproof; or whose presence will shame him and offend him (except it be only the shaming of an incorrigible or malicious sinner which you intend).
5. Nor when you are uncertain of the fact which you would reprove, or uncertain whether it be a sin.
6. Or when you have no witness of it, (though you are privately certain,) with some that will take advantage against you as slanderers, a reproof may be omitted.
7. And when the offenders are so much your superiors, that you are like to have no better success than to be accounted arrogant: A groan or tears is then the best reproof.
8. When you are so utterly unable to manage a reproof, that imprudence or want of convincing reason, is like to make it a means of greater hurt than good.
9. When you foresee a more advantageous season if you delay.
10. When another may be procured to do it with much more advantage, which your doing it may rather hinder. In all these cases, that may be a sin, which at another time may be a duty.
§. 18. But still remember, 1. That pride, and passion, and slothfulness is wont to pretend such reasons falsely, upon some sleight conjectures, to put by a duty. 2. That no man must account another a Dog or Swine, to excuse him from this duty, without cogent evidence: And it is not every wrangling opposition, nor reproach and scorn, which will warrant us to give a man up as remediless, and speak to him no more: but only such, 1. As showeth a heart utterly obdurate after long means. 2. Or will procure more suffering to the reprover, than good to the offender. 3. That when the thing is ordinarily a duty, the reasons of our omission must be clear and sure, before they will excuse us.
§. 19. Quest. Must we reprove Infidels or Heathens? What have we to do to judge them that are without?
Answ. Not to the ends of excommunication; because they are not capable of it: which is meant 1 Cor. 5. But we must reprove them, 1. In common compassion to their souls: What were the Apostles and other Preachers sent for, but to call all men from their sins to God? 2. And for the defense of truth and godliness against their words or ill examples.
CHAP. XVII. Directions for keeping Peace with all men.
§. 1. PEace is so amiable to Nature itself, that the greatest destroyers of it do commend it; and those persons in all times and places, who are the cause that the world cannot enjoy it, will yet speak well of it, and exclaim against others as the enemies of peace: as if there were no other name but their Own, sufficient to make their adversaries odious. As they desire salvation, so do the ungodly desire Peace; which is with a double error; one about the Nature of it, and another about the Conditions and other Means. By Peace they mean, the quiet undisturbed enjoyment of their honors, wealth and pleasures; that they may have their lusts and will without any contradiction: And the Conditions on which they would have it are, the compliance of all others with their opinions and wills, and humble submission to their domination, passions, or desires. But Peace is another thing, and otherwise to be desired and sought. Peace in the mind is the delightful effect of its internal harmony, as Peace in the body is nothing but its pleasant health, in the natural position, state, action and concord of all the parts, the humors and spirits: And Peace in Families, Neighbourhoods, Churches, Kingdoms, or other Societies, is the quietness, and pleasure of their order and harmony; and must be attained and preserved by these following means.
§. 2. Direct. 1. Get your own hearts into a humble frame; and abhor all the motions of Pride and self exalting. A humble man hath no high expectations from another; and therefore is easily pleased or quieted! He can bow and yield to the pride and violence of others, as the Willow to the impetuous winds. His language will be submissive; his patience great; he is content that others go before him! He is not offended that another is preferred. A low mind is pleased in a low condition. But Pride is the Gun-powder of the mind, the family, the Church and State: It maketh men ambitious, and setteth them on striving who shall be the greatest; A proud man's Opinion must always go for truth, and his will must be a Law to others, and to be slighted or crossed seemeth to him an unsufferable wrong. And he must be a man of wonderful compliance, or an excellent artificer in manpleasing and fl • ttery, that shall not be taken as an injurious undervaluer of him: He that overvalueth himself, will take it ill of all that do not also overvalue him. If you (forgetfully) go before him, or overlook him, or neglect a complement, or deny him something which he expected, or speak not honourably of him, much more if you reprove him, and tell him of his faults, you have put fire to the Gun-powder; you have broke his peace, and he will break yours if he can. Pride broke the Peace between God and the apostate Angels; but nothing unpeaceable must be in Heaven; and therefore by self-ex • lting they descended into darkness: And Christ by self-humbling ascended unto Glory. It is a matter of very great difficulty to live peaceably in family, Church or any society with any one that is very Proud. They expect so much of you, that you can never answer all their expectations, but will displease them by your omissions, though you never speak or do anything to displease them. What is it but the lust of Pride which causeth most of the wars and bloodshed, throughout the World. The Pride of two or three men, must cost many thousands of their subjects, the loss of their Peace, Estates and Lives. Delirant Reges, plectuntur Achivi. What were the Conquests of those Emperors, Alexander, Caesar, Tamerlane, Machumet, &c. but the pernicious effects of their infamous Pride? Which like Gun-powder taking fire in their breasts, did blow up so many Cities and Kingdoms, and call their Villanies by the name of Valour, and their Murders and Robberies by the name of War. If one man's Pride do swell so big, that his own Kingdom cannot contain it, the Peace of as much of the World as he can conquer, is taken to be but a reasonable sacrifice, to this infernal vice: The lives of thousands both Subjects and Neighbors (called enemies by this malignant spirit), must be cast away merely to make this one man the Ruler of the rest, and subdue the persons of others to his will. Who perhaps when he hath done, will say that he is no Tyrant, but maketh the Bonum publicum, his end; and is kind to men against their wills; and killeth and burneth and depopulateth Countries, for men's corporal well-fare; as the Papists poison and burn and butcher men for the saving of souls. Cuncta ferit dum cuncta timet, desaevit in omnes. They are the turbines, the Herricanes or Whirlwinds of the World, whose work is to overturn and ruin. Tantum ut noceat cupit esse potens —Whether they burn and kill by right or wrong, is little of their enquiry; but How many are killed? and how many have submitted to their pride and wills: As when Q. Flavius complained that he suffered innocently, Valerius answered him, Non sua re interesse, dummodo periret! That was nothing to his business or concernment so he did but perish. Which was plainer dealing than these glorious Conquerors used, but no whit worse. He that cannot command the putrid humors out of his Veins, nor the Worms out of his bowels, nor will be able shortly to forbid them to crawl or feed upon his face, will now damn his soul and shed men's blood, to obtain the predomination of his will. And when he hath conquered many, he hath but made him many enemies, and may find, that in tot populis vix una fides. A quiet man can scarce with all his wit tell how, to find a place where he may live in peace, where pride and cruelty will not pursue him, or the flames of War will not follow him and find him out: And perhaps he may be put to say as Cicero of Pompey and Caesar, Quem sugiam s • io; quem sequar nescio. And if they succeed by Conquest, they become to their Subjects almost as terrible as to their Enemies. So that he that would approach them with a petition for justice, must do it as Augustus spake to a fearful petitioner, as if he did assem dare Elephanto; Or as if they dwelt in the inaccessible light, and must be served as God with tear and trembling. And those that flatter them as glorious Conquerors, do but stir up the fire of their pride, to make more ruins and calamities in the Earth, and do the work of a raging Pestilence. As an Athenian Orator said to the men of Athens, when they would have numbered Alexander with the God's, Cavete ne dum Coelum liberaliter donetis, terram & domicilia propria amittatis: Take heed while you so liberally give him Heaven, lest he take away your part of Earth. And when their Pride hath consumed and banished Peace; What have they got by it? That which a Themist • cles after trial, would prefer a grave to, Si una via ad solium duceret, altera ad sepulchrum —That which Demosthenes preferred banishment before: That which the wisest Philosophers refused at Athens, The great trouble of Government. Inexpertus ambit; expertus odit. Cyneas asked Pyrrhus when he was preparing to invade the Romans, What shall we do when we have Conquered the Romans? He answered, We will go next to Sicily? And what shall when we do when Sicily is Conquered? said he: Pyrrhus said, We will go next to Africa: And what shall we do next, said the other? Why then said he, We will be quiet and merry and take our ease: And said Cyneas, If that be last and best, Why may we not do so now? It is for quietness and peace that such pretend to fight and break peace: But they usually die before they obtain it! (as Pyrrhus did): And might better have permitted Peace to stand, than pull it down to build it better. As one asked an old man at Athens, Why they called themselves Philosophers? who answered, Because we seek after Wisdom: Saith he, If you are but seeking it at this age, when do you think to find it? So I may say, to the proud Warriers of the World, If so many men must be killed, and so many Conquered in seeking peace, when will it, that way, be found? But perhaps they think that their wisdom and goodness is so great, that the World cannot be happy unless they govern it: But what could have persuaded them to think so, but their pride? Nihil magis aegris prodest, quam ab eo curari à quo voluerint, saith Seneca! Patients must choose their own Physicians. Men use to give them but little thanks, who drench them with such benefits, and bring them the potion of peace so hot, as that the touch of the Cup must burn their lips, and who in their goodness cut the throats of one part, that their Government may be a blessing to the survivers. In a word, it is Pride that is the great incendiary of the World, whether it be found in high or low. It will permit no Kingdom, family or Church to enjoy the pleasant fruits of peace.
§. 3. Direct. 2. If you would be Peaceable, be not covetous lovers of the World, but be contented with your daily bread. Hungry Dogs have seldom so great plenty of meat, as to content them all, and keep them from falling out about it. If you overlove the World, you will never want occasions of discord: Either your neighbor s • ll • th too dear, or buyeth too cheap of you, or over-reacheth you, or gets before you, or some way or other doth you wrong: as long as he hath anything which you desire, or doth not satisfy all your expectations. Ambitious and Covetous men must have so much room, that the World is not wide enough for many of them: And yet (alas) too many of them there are: And therefore they are still together by the ears, like Boys in the Winter nights, when the B • d clothes are too narrow to cover them: One pulleth, and another pulleth, and all complain: You must be sure that you trespass not in the smallest measure, not encroach on the least of his commodity, that you demand not your own, nor deny him anything which he desireth, nor get anything which he would have himself, no nor ever give over feeding his greedy expectations, and enduring his injustice and abuse, if you will live peaceably with a worldly-minded man.
§. 4. Direct. 3. If you will be Peaceable, Love your neighbors as yourselves. Love neither imagineth nor speaketh, nor worketh any hurt to others: It covereth infirmities: It hopeth all things: It endureth all things: 1 Cor. 13. Selfishness and want of Love to others, causeth all the contentions in the World. You can bear with great faults in yourselves, and never fall out with yourselves for them: But with your Neighbors you are quarrelling for those that are less! Do you fall out with another because he hath spoken dishonourably or slightly of you, or slandered you, or some way done you wrong? You have done a thousand times worse than all that against yourselves, and yet can bear too patiently with yourselves? If another speak evil of you, he doth not make you evil: It's worse to make you bad, than to call you so: And this you do against yourselves. Doth your Neighbor wrong you in your honor or Estate? But he endangereth not your soul: He doth not forfeit your salvation! He doth not deserve damnation for you, nor make your soul displeasing to God: But all this you do against yourselves (even more than all the Devils in Hell do,) and yet you are too little offended with yourselves: see here the power of blind self-love! If you loved your Neighbors as yourselves, you would agree as peaceably with your Neighbors almost as with yourselves. Love them more, and you will bear more with them, and provoke them less.
§. 5. Direct. 4. Compose your minds to Christian gentleness and meekness, and suffer not Passion to make you either turbulent and unquiet to others, or impatient and troublesome to yourselves. A gentle and quiet mind hath a gentle quiet tongue. It can bear as much wrong, as another can do (according to its measure): It is not in the power of Satan: He cannot at his pleasure send his Emissary, and by injuries or foul words, procure it to sin: But a Passionate person is frequently provoking or provoked. A little thing maketh him injurious to others; and a little injury from others, disquieteth himself. He is daily troubling others or himself, or both. Coals of fire go from his lips: It is his very desire to provoke and vex those that he is angry with: His Neighbors Peace and his own are the fuel of his anger, which he consumeth in a moment. To converse with him and not provoke him, is a task for such as are eminently meek and self-denying: He is as the leaves of the Asp tree, that never rest, unless the day be very calm. The smallest breath of an angry tongue, can shake him out of his tranquility, and turn him into an Ague of disquietness. The Sails of the Windmill are scarce more at the winds command, than his heart and tongue is at the command of Satan: He can move him almost when he please. Bid but a Neighbor speak some hard speeches of him, or one of his Family neglect or cross him, and he is presently like the raging Sea, whose waves cast up the mire and dirt. An impatient man hath no security of his own peace for an hour: Any enemy or angry person, can take it from him when they please. And being troubled, he is troublesome to all about him. If you do not in your patience possess your souls, they will be at the mercy of everyone that hath a mind to vex you. Remember then that no peace can be expected without Patience; nor patience without a meek and gentle mind: Remember that the ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, is of great price in the sight of God, 1 Pet. 3. 4. And that the wisdom from above is first pure and then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be entreated, Jam. 3. 17. And that the eternal wisdom from above, hath bid you learn of him to be meek and lowly in spirit as ever you would find rest to your souls, Matth. 11. 28, 29. And he that loseth his own peace, is likest to break the peace of others.
§. 6. Direct. 5. Be careful to maintain that order of Government and obedience, which is appointed of God for the preservation of Peace, in families, Churches and Common-wealths. If you will break this vessel, peace will flow out and be all quickly spilled. What peace in Schools but by the authority of the Schoolmaster? Or in Armies but by the authority of the General? If an unwise and ungodly Governor, do himself violate the foundations and boundaries of peace, and either weakly or willfully make dividing Laws, no wonder if such wounds do spend the vital blood and spirits of that society; It being more in the power of the Governors than of the Subject to destroy Peace or to preserve it. And if the Subjects make not conscience of their duty to their Superiors, the banks of peace will soon be broken down, and all will be overwhelmed in tumult and confusion. Take heed therefore of anything which tendeth to subvert or weaken Government: Disobedience or Rebellion seldom wanteth a fair pretence: but it more seldom answereth the agents expectation. It usually pretendeth, the weaknesses, miscarriages, or injurious dealings of superiors: But it as usually mendeth an inconvenience with a mischief. It setteth fire on the house to burn up the Rats and Mice that troubled it. It must be indeed a grievous malady, that shall need such a mischief for its remedy. Certainly it is no means of God's appointment. Take heed therefore of anything which would dissolve these bonds. Entertain not dishonorable thoughts of your Governors, and receive not, nor utter not any dishonorable words against them: If they be faulty, open not their shame: Their honor is their interest, and the people's too: Without it they will be disabled for effectual Government. When subjects, or servants, or children are saucily censorious of superiors, and make themselves Judges of all their actions, even those which they do not understand, and when they presume to defame them, and with petulant tongues to cast contempt upon them, the fire is begun, and the sacred bonds of peace are loosed. When superiors rule with Piety, Justice and true love to their subjects, and Inferiors keep their place and rank, and all conspire the public good, then Peace will fourish, and not till then.
§ 7. Direct. 6. Avoid all revengeful and provoking words. When the poison of Asps is under men's lips, ( Rom. 3. 13.) no wonder if the hearers minds that are not sufficiently antidoted against it, fester. Death and life are in the power of the tongue: Prov. 18. 21. When the tongue is as a Sword, yea, a sharp sword, ( Psal. 57. 4.) and when it is purposely whetted, ( Psal. 64. 3.) But no marvel if it pierce, and wound them that are unarmed. But by long forbearing a Prince is persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone, Prov. 25. 15. A railer is numbered with those that a Christian must not eat with, 1 Cor. 5. For Christianity is so much for Peace, that it abhorreth all that is against it. Our Lord when he was reviled, reviled not again, and in this was our example, 1 Pet. 2. 21, 23. A scorning, railing, reproachful tongue, is set (as James saith 3. 6.) on fire of Hell, and it setteth on fire the course of nature, even persons, families, Churches and Common-wealths. Many a a ruined society may say by experience, Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth. James 3. 5.
§ 8. Direct. 7. Engage not yourselves too forwardly or eagerly in disputes, nor at any time without necessity: And when necessity calleth you, set an extraordinary watch upon your passions. Though disputing is lawful, and sometime necessary, to defend the truth, yet it is seldom the way of doing good to those whom you dispute with: It engageth men in partiality and passionate provoking words before they are aware: And while they think they are only pleading for the truth, they are militating for the honor of their own understandings. They that will not stoop to hear you as learners, while you orderly open the truth in its coherent parts; will hardly ever profit by your contendings; when you engage a proud person, to bend all his wit and words against you. The servant of the Lord must not strive, but be gentle to all men, apt to teach, &c. 2 Tim. 2. 24.
§. 9. Direct. 8. Have as little to do with men, in matters which their commodity is concerned in as you can: As in chaffering or any other thing where Mine and Thine is much concerned: For few men are so just, as not to expect that which others account unjust: And the nearest friends have been alienated hereby.
§. 10. Direct. 9. Buy peace at the price of anything which is not better than it. Not with the loss of the favor of God, or of our innocence, or true peace of conscience, or with the loss of the Gospel, or the ruin of men's souls: But you must often part with your Right for peace, and put up wrongs in word or deed. Money must not be thought too dear to buy it, when the loss of it will be worse than the loss of money, to yourselves or those that you contend with. If a soul be endangered by it, or societies ruined by it, it will be dear bought money, which is got or saved by such means. He is no true friend of Peace, that will not have it, except when it is cheap.
§. 11. Direct. 10. Avoid Censoriousness: which is the judging of men or matters that you have no call to meddle with, and the making of matters worse than sufficient proof will warrant you. Be neither busy-bodies, meddling with other men's matters, nor peevish aggravaters of all men's faults. Judge not that ye be not judged; for with what measure you mete, it shall be measured to you again, Matth. 7. 1, 2. You shall be censured, if you will censure: And if Christ be a true discerner of minds, it is they that have beams in their own eyes, who are the quickest perceivers of the motes in others: Censorious persons are the great dividers of the Church, and everywhere adversaries to peace; while they open their mouths wide against their neighbor, to make the worst of all that they say and do, and thus sow the seeds of discord amongst all.
§. 12. Direct. 11. Neither talk against men behind their backs, nor patiently hearken to them that use it. Though the detecting of a dangerous enemy, or the prevention of another's hurt, may sometimes make it a duty to blame them that are absent; yet this case which is rare, is no excuse to the backbiters sin. If you have anything to say against your neighbor, tell it him in a friendly manner to his face, that he may be the better for it: If you tell it only to another, to make him odious, or hearken to backbiters that defame men secretly, you show that your business is not to do good, but to diminish love and peace.
§. 13. Direct. 12. Speak more of the good than of the evil, which is in others. There is none so bad, as to have no good in them: Why mention you not that? which is more useful to the hearer, than to hear of men's faults. But of this more afterward.
§. 14. Direct. 13. Be not strange, but lovingly familiar with your neighbors. Backbiters and slanders, and unjust suspicions, do make men seem that to one another, which when they are acquainted, they find is nothing so: Among any honest well meaning persons, familiarity greatly reconcileth. Though indeed there are some few so proud, and fiery, and bitter enemies to honest peace, that the way to peace with them, is to be far from them, where we may not be remembered by them: But it is not so with ordinary neighbors, nor friends that are fallen out, nor differing Christians: Its nearness that must make them friends.
§. 15. Direct. 14. Affect not a distance and sour singularity in lawful things. Come as near them as you can, as they are men and neighbors; and take it not for your duty to run as far from them, lest you run into the contrary extreme.
§. 16. Direct. 15. Be not over-stiff in your own opinions, as those that can yield in nothing to another. Nor yet • o facile and yielding as to betray or lose the truth. It greatly pleaseth a proud man's mind, when you seem to be convinced by him, and to change your mind upon his arguments, or to be much informed and edified by him: But when you deny this honor to his understanding, and contradict him, and stiffly maintain your opinion against him, you displease and lose him: And indeed a wise man should gladly learn of any that can teach him more; and should most easily of any man, let go an error, and be most thankful to any that will increase his knowledge: And not only in errors to change our minds, but in small and indifferent things to submit by silence, beseemeth a modest peaceable man.
§. 17. Direct. 16. Yet build not Peace on the foundation of impiety, injustice, cruelty or faction: for that will prove but the way to destroy it, in the end. Traitors, and Rebells, and Tyrants, and Persecutors, and ambitious covetous Clergy men, do all pretend peace for their iniquity: But what peace will Iezebels Whoredoms bring? Satan's Kingdom is supported by a Peace in sin: which Christ came to break that he might destroy it: while this strong man armed keepeth his house, his goods are in peace, till a stronger doth bind him, overcome him and cast him out. Deceitful sinful means of Peace, have been the grand Engine of Satan and the Papal Clergy, by which they have banished and kept out Peace, so many ages from most of the Christian world. Impiis mediis Ecclesiae paci consulere, was one of the three means which Luther foretold would cast out the Gospel. Where perjury, or false doctrine, or any sin, or any unjust, or inconsistent terms, are made the condition of Peace, men build upon stubble and briars, which God will set fire to, and soon consume, and all that peace will come to naught.
Directions for Church-peace I have laid down before; to which I must refer you.
CHAP. XVIII. Directions against all Theft and Fraud, or injurious getting and keeping that which is another's, or desiring it.
§. 1. HE that will know what Theft is, must know what Propriety is: And it is that plenary title to a thing, by which it is called Our Own; It is that right to anything as Mine, by which I may justly have it, possess it, use it, and dispose of it. This Dominion or Propriety is either Absolute, (and that belongeth to none but God) or subordinate, respective and limited (which is the only Propriety that any creature can have.) Which is such a Right which will hold good against the claim of any fellow creature, though not against God's. And among men there are Proprietors or Owners which are Principal, and some who are but dependant, subordinate and limited. The simple Propriety may remain in a Landlord or Father, who may convey to his Tenant or his child, a limited dependant propriety under him. Injuriously to deprive a man of this Propriety, or of the thing in which he hath propriety, is the sin which I speak of in this Chapter; which hath no one name, and therefore I express it here by many. Whether it be Theft, Robbery, Cousenage, Extortion, or any other way of depriving another injuriously of his own. These General Directions are needful to avoid it.
§. 2. Direct. 1. Love not the world, nor the things that are in the world, 1 John 2. 15. Cure covetousness, and you will kill the root of fraud and theft. As a drunkard would easily be cured of his drunkenness, if you could cure him of his thirst and love to drink; so an extortioner, thief or deceiver would easily be cured of their outward sin, if their hearts were cured of the disease of worldiness. The love of money is the root of all this evil. Value these things no more than they deserve.
§ 3. Direct. 2. To this end, acquaint your hearts with the greater riches of the life to come: And then you will meet with true satisfaction. The true hopes of Heaven, will cure your greedy desires of earth. You durst not then forfeit your part in that perpetual Blessedness, for the temporal supply of some bodily want: You durst not with Adam part with Paradise for a forbidden bit; nor as Esau profanely sell your birthright for a morsel. It is the unbelief and contempt of Heaven, which maketh men venture it for the poor commodities of this world.
§. 4. Direct. 3. Be contented to stand to God's disposal; and suffer not any carking discontented thoughts to feed upon your hearts. When you suffer your minds to run all day long upon your necessities and straits, the Devil next tempteth you to think of unlawful courses to supply them. He will show you your neighbors money, or goods, or estates, and tell you, how well it would be with you if this were yours: He shown Achan the Golden Wedge: He told Gehazi how unreasonable it was that Naaman's money and Rayment should be refused: He told Balaam of the hopes of preferment which he might have with Balak: He told Judas how to get his thirty pieces: He persuaded Ananias and Sapphira, that it was but reasonable to retain part of that which was their own. Nay, commonly it is discontents and cares which prepareth poor wretches for those appearances of the Devil, which draweth them to Witchcraft, for the supplying of their wants. If you took God for your God, you would take him for the sufficient disposer of the world, and one that is fitter to measure out your part of earthly things, than you yourselves: And then you would rest in his wisdom, will, and fatherly providence; and not shift for yourselves by sinful means. Discontentedness of mind, and distrust of God, are the cause of all such frauds and injuries. Trust God, and you will have no need of these.
§. 5. Direct. 4. Remember what Promises God hath made, for the competent supply of all your wants. Godliness hath the promise of this life and of that to come: All other things shall be added to you, if you seek first God's Kingdom and the righteousness thereof▪ Matth. 6. 33. They that fear the Lord shall want nothing that is good, Psal. 37. All things shall work together for good to them that love God? Rom. 8. 28. Let your conversation be without covetousness, and be content with such things as ye have: for he hath said, I will never leave thee nor forsake thee, Heb. 13. 5. Live by faith on these sufficient promises, and you need not steal.
§. 6. Direct. 5. Overvalue not the accommodation and pleasure of the flesh, and live not in the sins of gluttony, drunkenness, pride, gaming, or riotous courses, which may bring you into want, and so to seek unlawful maintenance. He that is a servant to his flesh cannot endure to displease it, nor can • ear the want of anything which it needeth. But he that hath mastered and mortified his flesh, can endure its labor and hunger, yea, and death too, if God will have it so. Large revenues will be too little for a fleshly minded person: But a little will serve him that hath brought it under the power of reason. Magna pars libertatis est been moratus venter, saith Seneca: A well nurtured, fair-conditioned belly, is a great part of a man's liberty, because an ill-taught and ill-conditioned belly, is one of the basest slaveries in the world. As a Philosopher said to Diogenes, If thou couldst flatter Dionysius, thou needest not eat herbs: But, saith Diogenes, If thou couldst eat herbs, thou needest not flatter Dionysius: He took this for the harder task: So the Thief and deceiver will say to the poor, If you could do as we do, you need not fare so hardly: But a contented poor man may better answer him, If you could fare hardly as I do, you need not deceive or steal as you do. A proud person, that cannot endure to dwell in a Cottage, or to be seen in poor or patched apparel, will be easily tempted to any unlawful way of getting, to keep him from disgrace, and serve his pride: A Glutton whose Heaven is in his throat, must needs fare well, how ever he come by it: A Tipler must needs have provision for his guggle, by right or by wrong. But a humble man, and a temperate man, can spare all this, and when he looketh on all the proud man's furniture, he can bless himself as Socrates did in a Fair, with Quam multa sunt quibus ipse non egeo: How many things be there, which I have no need of: And he can pity the sensual desires which others must needs fulfill; even as a sound man pitieth another that hath the itch, or the thirst of a sick man in a Feavor, that crieth out for drink. As Seneca saith, It is Vice and not Nature, which needeth much: Nature, and necessity, and duty are contented with a little. But he that must have the pleasure of his sin, must have provision to maintain that pleasure. Quench the fire of pride, sensuality and lust, and you may spare the cost of fuel, Rom. 13. 13, 14. & 8. 13.
§. 7. Direct. 6. Live not in Idleness or sloth: but be laborious in your Callings that you may escape that need or poverty which is the temptation to this sin of theft. Idleness is a crime which is not to be tolerated in Christian Societies. 2. Thess. 2. 6, 8, 10, 11, 12. Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us: For you know how ye ought to follow us; for we behaved not ourselves disorderly among you, neither did we eat any man's bread for naught; but worked with labor and travail night and day, that we might not be chargeable to any of you: Not because we have not power, but to make ourselves an ensample to you to follow us: For when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat: For we hear that there are some among you which walk disorderly, working not at all, but are busy bodies: Now them that are such, we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work and eat their own bread. Eph. 4. 28. Let him that stole, steal no more, but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing which is good, that he may have to give to him that needeth. He that stealeth to maintain his Idleness, sinneth that he may sin; and by one sin getteth provision for another: You see here that you are bound not only to work to maintain yourselves, but to have to give to others in their need.
§. 8. Direct. 7. Keep a tender conscience, which will do its office, and not suffer you to sin without remorse. A feared senseless Conscience will permit you to lie and steal and deceive, and will make no great matter of it, till God awaken it by his grace or vengeance. Hence it is that servants can deceive their masters, or take that which is not allowed them, and buyers and sellers over-reach one another, because they have not tender Consciences to reprove them.
§. 9. Direct. 8. Remember always that God is present, and none of your secrets can be hid from him. What the better are you to deceive your neighbor, or your master, and to hide it from their knowledge, as long as your Maker and Judge seeth all? When it is him that you most wrong, and with him that you have most to do, and he that will be the most terrible avenger? What blinded Atheists are you, who dare do that in the presence of the most righteous God, which you durst not do if men beheld you.
§. 10. Direct. 9. Forget not how dear all that must cost you, which you gain unlawfully. The reckoning time is yet to come. Either you will truly Repent, or not: If you do, it must cost you remorse and sorrow, and shameful confession, and restitution of all that you have got amiss: And is it not better forbear to swallow that morsel, which must come up again with heart-breaking grief and shame. But if you Repent not, unfeignedly, it will be your damnation: It will be opened in Judgment to your perpetual confusion, and you must pay dear for all your gain, in Hell. N • ver look upon the gain therefore, without the shame and damnation which must follow. If Achan had foreseen the stones, and Gehazi the Leprosy, and Ahab the mortal arrow, and Jezebel the licking of her blood by Dogs, and Judas the hanging or precipitation, and Ananias and Sapphira the sudden death, or any of them the after misery, it might have kept them from their pernicious gain. Usually even in this life, a curse attendeth that which is ill gotten, and bringeth fire among all the rest.
§. 11. Direct. 10. If you are poor, consider well of the mercy which that condition may bring you, and let it be your study how to get it sanctisied to your good. If men understood and believed that God doth dispose of all for the best, and make them poor to do them good, and considered what that good is which poverty may do them, and made it their chief care, to turn it thus to their gain, they would not find it so intolerable a thing, as to seek to cure it by fraud or thievery. Think what a mercy it is, that you are saved from those temptations to overlove the world, which the Rich are undone by? And that you are not under those temptations to intemperance, and excess and pride as they are: And that you have such powerful helps for the mortification of the flesh, and victory over the deceiving World? Improve your poverty, and you will scape these sins.
§. 12. Direct. 11. If you are but willing to escape this sin, you may easily do it by a free Confession, to those whom you have wronged or are tempted to wrong, He that is not willing to forbear his sin, is guilty before God, though he do forbear it. But if you are truly willing, it is easy to abstain. Do not say, that you are willing till necessity pincheth you or you see the bait: For if you are so, you may easily prevent it, at that time when you are willing. If ever you are willing indeed, take that opportunity, and if you have wronged any man, go and confess it to him (in the manner as I shall afterward direct)? And this will easily prevent it: For shame will engage you, and self preservation will engage him to take more heed of you. Or if you have not yet wronged any, but are strongly tempted to it, if you have no other sufficient remedy, go tell him or some other fit person, that you are tempted to steal and to deceive in such or such a manner, and desire them not to trust you: If you think the shame of such a Confession too dear a price to save you from the sin, pretend no more that you are truly willing to forbear it, or that ever you did unfeignedly repent of it.
Tit. 2. Certain Cases of Conscience about Theft and Injury.
§. 1. Quest. 1. IS it a sin for a man to steal in absolute necessity, when it is merely to save his life?
Answ. The case is very hard: I shall, 1. Tell you so much as is past controversy, and then speak to the controverted part. 1. If all other unquestionable means be not first used, it is undoubtedly a sin. If either laboring, or begging will save our lives, it is unlawful to steal. Yea or if any others may be used to intercede for us. Otherwise it is not stealing to save a man's life, but stealing to save his labor, or to gratify his pride and save his honor. 2. It is undoubtedly a sin, if the saving of our lives by it, do bring a greater hurt to the Common-wealth, or other men than our lives are worth. 3. And it is a sin if it deprive the owner of his life▪ he being a person more worthy and useful to the common good. These cases are no matter of Controversy.
§. 2. 4. And it is agreed of that no man may steal beforehand out of a distrustful fear of want. 5. Or i • he take more than is of necessity to save his life. These cases also are put as out of Controversy.
§. 3. But whether in an innocent absolute necessity it be lawful to steal so much as is merely sufficient to save ones life, is a thing that Casuists are not agreed on. They that think it lawful, say that the preservation of life is a natural duty, and preservation of propriety is but a subservient thing which must give place to it. So Ames de Conscient. l. 5. c. 50. maketh it one case of lawful taking that which is another's, Si irrationabiliter censeatur Dominus invitus: ut in eis quae accipit aliquis ex alieno ad extremam & praesentem suam necessitatem sublevandam, cui alia ration succurrere non potest. H • c enim videtur esse ex jure naturali, division rerum antiquiore & superiore; quod jure humano quo facta est divisio rerum non potuit abrogari: Quo sensu non male dicitur, omnia fieri communia in extrema necessitate.
§. 4. On the other side, those that deny it say, that the same God that hath bid us preserve our lives, hath appointed propriety, and forbid us to steal, without excepting a case of necessity, and therefore hath made it simply evil, which we may not do for the procurement of any good: And the saving of a man's life will not prove so great a good, as the breaking of God's Law will be an evil.
§. 5. For the true determining of this case, we must distinguish of Persons, Places and Occasions. 1. Between those whose lives are needful to the public good and safety, and those that are not of any such concernment. 2. Between those that are in an enemies or a strange Country, and those that are in their own. 3. Between those that are in a Common-wealth, and those that are either in a community, or among people not embodyed or conjoined. 4. Between those that take but that which the refuser was bound to give them, and those that take that which he was not bound to give them: And so I answer;
§. 6. 1. Whensoever the preservation of the life of the taker, is not in open probability, like to be more serviceable to the common good, than the violation of the right of Propriety will be hurtful, the taking of another man's goods is sinful, though it be only to save the takers life. For the common good is to be preferred before the good of any individual.
§. 7. 2. In ordinary cases, the saving of a man's life will not do so much good, as his stealing will do hurt. Because the lives of ordinary persons are of no great concernment to the common good: And the violation, of the Laws, may encourage the poor to turn thieves, to the loss of the estates and lives of others, and the overthrow of public peace and order. Therefore ordinarily it is a duty, rather to die, than take another man's goods against his will, or without his consent.
§. 8. 3. But in case that the Common good doth apparently more require the preservation of the persons life, than the preservation of propriety and keeping of the Law in that instance, it is then no sin (as I conceive): which may fall out in many instances.
As, 1. In case the King and his Army, should march through a Neighbor-Princes Country, in a necessary War against their enemies! If food be denied them in their march, they may take it rather than perish. 2. In case the Kings Army in his own Dominions, have no pay, and must either disband or die, if they have not provision, they may rather take free quarter, in case that their obedience to the King and the preservation of the Country forbiddeth them to disband. 3. When it is a person of so great honor, dignity and desert, as that his worth and serviceableness will do more than recompense the hurt: As if Alexander, or Aristotle were on Ship-board with a Covetous Ship-master, who would let them die rather than relieve them. 4. When a Child taketh meat from a cruel Parent that would famish him, or a Wife from such a cruel husband! Or any man taketh his Own by stealth from another who unjustly detaineth it, when it is to save his life. For here there is a fundamental right ad rem, and the heinousness of his crime that would famish another rather than give him his own, or his due, doth take off the scandal and evil consequents, of the manner of taking it. 5. But the greatest difficulty is, in case that only the common Law of humanity and charity bind another to give to one that else must die, and he that needeth may take it so secretly that it shall in likelihood never be known, and so never be scandalous, nor encourage any other to steal? May not the needy then steal to save his life? This case is so hard, that I shall not venture to determine it: But only say that he that doth so in such a case, must resolve when he hath done, to repay the owner if ever he be able (though it be but a piece of bread); or to repay him by his labor and service, if he have no other way, and be thus able; or if not so, to confess it to him that he took it from, and acknowledge himself his debtor (unless it be to one whose cruelty would abuse his confession).
§. 9. Quest. 2. If another be bound to relieve me, and do not; may I not take it, though it be not for the immediate saving of my life?
Answ. If he be bound only by God's law to relieve you, you must complain to God, and stay till he do you right, and not break his Law and order, by righting yourself, in case you are not in the necessity aforesaid. If he be bound also by the Law of man to relieve you, you may complain to the Rulers, and seek your right by their assistance? but not by stealth.
§. 10. Quest. 3. If another borrow or possess my goods or money, and refuse to pay me, and I cannot have law and justice against him, or am not rich enough to sue him, may I not take them if I have an opportunity?
Answ. If he turn your enemy in a time of War, or live under another Prince, with whom you are at War, or where your Prince alloweth you to take it; there it seemeth undoubtedly lawful to take your own by that Law of Arms, which then is uppermost. But when the Law that you are under forbiddeth you, the case is harder. But it is certain that Propriety is in communities, and is in order of nature antecedent to human Government in Republics: and the preservation of it is one of the ends of Government: Therefore I conceive that in case you could take your own so secretly, or in such a manner as might no way hinder the ends of Government as to others, by encouraging thievery or unjust violence, it is not unlawful before God, the end of the Law being the chief part of the Law: But when you cannot take your own without either encouraging theft or violence in others, or weakening the power of the Laws and Government by your disobedience (which is the ordinary case) it is unlawful: Because the preservation of order and of the honor of the Government and Laws, and the suppression of theft and violence, is much more necessary than the righting of yourself, and recovering your own.
§. 11. Quest. 4. If another take by theft or force from me, may I not take my own again from him, by force or secretly, when I have no other way?
Answ. Not when you do more hurt to the Common-wealth by breaking Law and order, than your own benefit can recompense! For you must rather suffer, than the Common-wealth should suffer: But you may, when no such evils follow it.
§. 12. Quest. 5. If I be in no necessity myself, may I not take from rich men to give the poor who are in extreme necessity?
Answ. The answer to the first case may suffice for this: In such cases wherein a Poor man may not take it for himself, you may not take it for him. But in such cases as he may take it for himself, and no one else is fit to do it, he himself being unable, you may do it (when no accidental consequents forbid you.
§. 13. Quest. 6. If he have so much as that he will not miss it; and I be in great want, though not like to die of famine, may I not take a little to supply my want?
Answ. No: because God hath appointed the means of just propriety; and what is not gotten by those means, is none of yours by his approbation. He is the giver of Riches; and he intendeth not to give to all alike: If he give more to others he will require more of them. And if he give less to you, it is the measure which he seeth to be meetest for you; and the condition in which your obedience and patience must be tried: And he will not take it well, if you will alter your measure by forbidden means, and be carvers for yourselves, or level others.
§. 14. Quest. 7. There are certain measures which humanity obligeth all men to grant to those in want, and therefore men take without asking: As to pluck an Apple from a tree, or as Christ's disciples, to rub the ears of Corn to eat: If a Nabal deny me such a thing, may I not take it?
Answ. If the Laws of the Land allow it you, you may: Because men's propriety is subjected to the Law for the common good. But if the Law forbid it you, you may not: except when it is necessary to save your life, upon the terms expressed under the first question.
§. 15. Quest. 8. May not a Wife or Child or Servant take more than a cruel Husband or Parent or Master doth allow? Suppose it be better meat or drink?
Answ. How far the Wife hath a true propriety herself, and therefore may take it, dependeth on the Contract and the Laws of the Land; which I shall not now meddle with. But for Children and Servants, they may take no more than the most cruel and unrighteous parents; or masters do allow them; except to save their lives upon the conditions in the first case: But the servant may seek relief of the Magistrate: and he may leave such an unrighteous Master: And the Child must bear it patiently as the cross by which it pleaseth God to try him: Unless that the Government of the Parent be so bad, as to tend to his undoing: And then I think he may leave his Parents for a better condition: (except it be when their own necessity obligeth him to stay and suffer for their help and benefit). For it is true that a Child oweth as much to his Parents as he can perform, by way of gratitude, for their good: But it is true also, that a Parent hath no full and absolute propriety in his Child, as men have in their Cattle: But is made by nature, their guardian for their benefit: And therefore when Parents would undo their Children's souls or bodies, the Children may forsake them, as being first forsaken by them; further than as they are obliged in gratitude to help them, as is aforesaid.
§. 16. Quest. 9. If a man do deserve to lose somewhat which he hath, by way of punishment, may I not take it from him?
Answ. Not, unless the Law either make you a Magistrate or Officer to do it, or allow and permit it at the least: Because it is not to you that the forfeiture is made: Or if it be, you must execute the Law according to the Law, and not against it; For else you will offend in punishing offenses.
§. 17. Quest. 10. But what if I fully resolve, when I take a thing in my necessity, to repay the owner, or make him satisfaction if ever I be able?
Answ. That is some extenuation of the sin, but no justification of the fact; which is otherwise unjustifiable: Because it is still without his consent.
§. 18. Quest. 11. What if I know not whether the owner would consent, or not?
Answ. In a case where common custom and humanity alloweth you to take it for granted that he would not deny you (as to pluck a ear of Corn, or gather an herb for Medicine in his field) you need not scruple it: unless you conjecture that he is a Nabal and would deny you. But otherwise if you doubt of his consent, you must ask it, and not presume of it without just cause.
§. 19. Quest. 12. What if I take a thing from a friend but in a way of jest; intending to restore it?
Answ. If you have just ground to think that your friend would consent if he knew it, you will not be blameable: But if otherwise, either you take it for your own benefit and use, or you take it only to make sport by: The former is their, for all your jest: The later is but an unlawful way of jesting.
§. 20. Quest. 13. What if I take it from him but to save him from hurting his body with it: As If I steal poison from one that intended to kill himself by it: or take a sword from a drunken man, that would hurt himself; or a knife from a melancholy man! or what if it be to save another, as to take a mad man's sword from him, who would kill such as are in his way, or an angry man's that will kill another.
Answ. This is your duty according to the sixth Commandment, which bindeth you to preserve your Neighbors life: So be it these conditions be observed: 1. That you keep not his sword for your benefit and advantage, nor claim a propriety in it: but give it his friends, or deliver it to the Magistrate. 2. That you do nothing without the Magistrate, in which you may safely stay for his Authority and help: But if two be fighting, or thieves be robbing or murdering a man, or another's life be in present danger, you must help them without staying for the Magistrates authority. 3. That you make not this a pretence for the usurping of Authority, or for resisting or deposing your lawful Prince or, Magistrate, or Parent, or Master, or of exercising your own will and passions against your Superiors; pretending that you take away their swords to save themselves or others from their rage, when it is indeed but to hinder justice.
§. 21. Quest. 14. May I not then much more take away that by which he would destroy his own or other men's souls: As to take away Cards or Dice from Gamesters; or heretical or s • di • ious books; or Play-books and Romances, or to pull down Idols which the Idolaters do adore; or are instruments of Idolatry?
Answ. There is much difference in the cases, though the soul be more precious than the body: For, 1. Here there is supposed to be so much leisure and space as that you may have time to tell the Magistrate of it, whose duty primarily it is: Whereas in the other case it is supposed that so much delay would be a man's death. Therefore your duty is to acquaint the Magistrate with the sin and danger; and not to anticipate him, and play the Magistrate yourself. Or in the case of Cards and Dice and hurtful books, you may acquaint the persons with the sin, and persuade them to cast them away themselves. 2. Your taking away these instruments is not like to save them: For the love of the sin, and the Will to do it, remaineth still: and the sinner will but be hardened by his indignation, against your irregular course of charity. 3. Men are bound to save men's bodies whether they will or not: because it may be so done: But no man can save another's soul against his will! And it is God's will that their salvation or damnation shall be more the fruit of their own wills, than of any others. Therefore though it's possible to devise an instance, in which it is lawful to steal a poisonous book or idol from another (when it is done so secretly as will encourage no disobedience or disorder; nor is like to harden the sinner, but indeed to do him good, &c. ) yet ordinarily all this is unlawful, for private men, that have no Government of others, or extraordinary interest in them.
§. 2. Quest. 15. May not a Magistrate take the subjects goods, when it is necessary for their own preservation?
Answ. I answered this question once heretofore in my Political Aphorisms: And because I repent of meddling with such subjects, and of writing that Book, I will leave such cases hereafter for fitter persons to resolve.
Quest. 16. But may I not take from another for a holy use: As to give to the Church or maintain the Bishops: If David took the hallowed bread in his necessity, may not hallowed persons take common bread much more?
Answ. If holy persons be in present danger of death, their lives may be saved as other men's on the terms mentioned in the first case. Otherwise God hath no need of theft or violence; nor must you rob the Laity to clothe the Clergy: But to do such evil on pretence of piety and good, is an aggravation of the sin.
CHAP. XIX. General Directions and particular Cases of Conscience, about Contracts in general, and about Buying and Selling, Borrowing and Lending, Usury, &c. in particular.
Tit. 1. General Directions against injurious Bargaining and Contracts.
BEsides the last Directions Chap. 18. take these as more nearly pertinent to this case.
§. 1. Direct. 1. See that your hearts have the two great principles of Justice deeply and habitually innaturalized or radicated in them: viz. The true Love of your neighbor, and the Denyal of yourself: which in one precept are called, The Loving of your neighbor as yourself. For then you will be freed from the Inclination to injuries and fraud, and from the power of those temptations, which carry men to these sins. They will be contrary to your habitual will or inclination; and you will be more studious to help your neighbor, than to get from him.
§. 2. Direct. 2. Yet do not content yourself with these habits, but be sure to call them up to act, when ever you have any bargaining with others; and let a faithful Conscience be to you as a Cryer to proclaim God's Laws, and say to you, Now remember Love and Self-denial, and Do as you would be done by. If Alexander Severus so highly valued this saying, Quod tibi fieri non vis, alteri ne feceris; as to make it his Motto, and write and engrave it on his doors and buildings (having learned it of some Christians or Jews, saith Lampridius ); What a crime and shame is it for Christ's own professed Disciples neither to learn or love it. Put home the question when you have any bargaining with others, How would I be dealt with myself, if my case were the same with his?
§. 3. Direct. 3. When the Tempter draweth you to think only of your own commodity and gain, remember how much more you will lose by sin, than your gain can any way amount to. If Acan, Gehazi, Ahab, Judas, &c. had foreseen the end, and the greatness of their loss, it would have curbed their covetous desires. Believe God's Word from the bottom of your heart, that you shall lose things eternal if you sinfully get things temporal, and then you will not make haste to such a bargain, to win the world and lose your souls.
§. 4. Direct. 4. Understand your neighbors case aright, and meditate on his wants and interest. You think what you want yourself; but you think not whether his wants with whom you deal, may not be as great as yours: Consider what his commodity costeth him: or what the toil of the workmans labor is: What house rent he hath to pay, and what a family to maintain? and whether all this can be well done, upon the rates that you desire to trade with him. And do not believe every common report, of his riches, or of the price of his commodity; For same in such cases is frequently false.
§. 5. Direct. 5. Regard the public good above your own commodity. It is not lawful to take up or keep up any oppressing monopoly or Trade; which tendeth to enrich you by the loss of the Common-wealth or of many.
§. 6. Direct. 6. Therefore have a special regard to the Laws of the Country where you live: both as to your Trade itself, and as to the price of what you sell or buy. For the Law is made for the public benefit, which is to be preferred before any private man's. And when the Law doth directly or indirectly set rates upon labors or commodities, ordinarily they must be observed; or else you will commit two sins at once, Injury and Disobedience.
§. 7. Direct. 7. Also have special respect to the common estimate, and to the Market-price. Though it be not always to be our Rule, yet ordinarily it must be a considerable part of it; and of great regard.
§. 8. Direct. 8. Let not imprudent tinking make you seem more covetous than you are. Some imprudent persons cannot tell how to make their markets without so many words, even about a penny or a trifle, that it maketh others think them covetous, when it is rather want of wit. The appearance of evil must be avoided. I have known some that are ready to give a pound to a charitable use at a word, who will yet use so many words for a penny in their bargaining, as maketh them deeply censured and misunderstood. If you see cause to break for a penny or a small matter, do it more handsomely in fewer words, and be gone! And do not tempt the seller to multiply words, because you do so.
§. 9. Direct. 9. Have no more to do in bargaining with others, especially with censorious persons, than you needs must: For in much dealing usually there will be much misunderstanding, offense, censure and complaint.
§. 10. Direct. 10. In doubtful cases, when you are uncertain what is lawful, choose that side which is safest to the peace of your consciences hereafter; though it be against your commodity, and may prove the losing of your right.
Tit. 2. Cases of Conscience about Justice in Contracts.
§. 1. Quest. 1. MUst I always do as I would be done by? Or hath this Rule any Exceptions?
Answ. The Rule intendeth no more but that your just self-denial and love to others, be duly exercised in your dealings with all. And 1. It supposeth that your own will or desires be honest and just, and that God's Law be their Rule. For a sinful will may not be made the rule of your own actions or of other men's. He that would have another make him drunk, may not therefore make another drunk: And he that would abuse another man's Wife, may not therefore desire that another man would lust after or abuse his Wife. He that would not be instructed, reproved, or reformed, may not therefore forbear the instructing or reproving others. And he that would kill himself, may not therefore kill another. But he that would have no hurt done to himself injuriously should do none to others: And he that would have others do him good, should be as willing to do good to them.
2. It supposeth that the matter be to be varied according to your various conditions. A Parent that justly desireth his child to obey him, is not bound therefore to obey his child; nor the Prince to obey his subjects; nor the Master to do all the work for his servants, which he would have his servants do for him. But you must deal by another, as you would (regularly) have them deal by you, if you were in their case, and they in yours. And on these terms it is a Rule of Righteousness.
§. 2. Quest. 2. Is a Son bound by the contract which his Parents or Guardians made for him in his infancy?
Answ. To some things he is bound, and to some things not. The Infant is capable of being obliged by another upon four accounts: 1. As he is the Parents own; (or a Masters to whom he is in absolute servitude.) 2. As he is to be Ruled by the Parents. 3. As he is a Debtor to his Parents for benefits received. 4. As he is an expectant or capable of future benefits to be enjoyed upon conditions to be performed by him. 1. No Parents or Lord have an Absolute Propriety in any rational creature; but they have a propriety secundum quid, & ad hoc: And a Parents propriety doth in part expire or abate, as the Son groweth up to the full use of reason, and so hath a greater propriety in himself. Therefore he may oblige his Son only (on this account) so far as his propriety extendeth, and to such acts; and to no other: For in those his Will is reputatively his Sons will. As if a Parent sell his Son to servitude, he is bound to such service as beseemeth one man to put another to. 2. As he is Rector to his Child, he may by contract with a third person promise that his child shall do such acts, as he hath power to command and cause him to do: As to read, to hear God's Word, • o labor as he is able: But this no longer, than while he is under his Parents Government: And so long Obedience requireth him to perform their contracts, in performing their commands. 3. The child having received his Being and maintenance from his Parents, remaineth obliged to them as his Benefactors in the debt of gratitude as long as he liveth: And that so deeply that some have questioned whether ever he can requite them: (which quoad valorem beneficii he can do only by furthering their salvation; as many a child hath been the cause of the Parents conversion.) And so far as the Son is thus a debtor to the Parents, he is obliged to do that which the Parents by contract with a third person shall impose upon him. As if the Parents could not be delivered out of captivity, but by obliging the Son to pay a great sum of money, or to live in servitude for their release: Though they never gave him any money, yet he is bound to pay the sum, if he can get it, or to perform the servitude: Because he hath received more from them, even his being. 4. As the Parents are both Owners ( secundum quid ) and Rulers and Benefactors to their child, in all three respects conjunct, they may oblige him to a third person who is willing to be his Benefactor, by a conditional obligation to perform such conditions that he may possess such or such benefits: And thus a Guardian or any friend who is fit to interpose for him may oblige him. As to take a lease in his name, in which he shall be bound to pay such a rent, or do such a service, that he may receive such a commodity which is greater. Thus Parents oblige their children under Civil Governments to the Laws of the Society or Kingdom, that they may have the protection and benefits of subjects. In these cases the child can complain of no injury; for it is for his benefit that he is obliged: And the Parent (in this respect) cannot oblige him to his hurt: For if he will quit the benefit, he may be freed when he will from his obligation, and may refuse to stand to the Covenant if he dislike it. If he will give up his lease, he may be disobliged from the Rent and service.
§. 3. In all this you may perceive that no man can oblige another against God or his salvation: And therefore a Parent cannot oblige a child to sin, nor to forbear hearing or reading the Word of God, or praying, or anything necessary to his salvation: Nor can he oblige him to hear a Heretical Pastor, nor to marry an Infidel or wicked Wife, &c.
§. 4. And here also you may perceive on what grounds it is that God hath appointed Parents to oblige their children in the Covenant of Baptism, to be the servants of God, and to live in holiness all their days.
§. 5. And hence it is apparent, that no Parents can oblige their children to be miserable, or to any such condition which is worse than to have no being.
§. 6. Also that when Parents do (as commonly they do) profess to oblige their children as Benefactors for their good, the obligation is then to be interpreted accordingly: And the child is then obliged to nothing which is really his hurt.
Yea, all the Propriety and Government of Parents, cannot authorize them to oblige the child to his hurt, but in order to some greater good, either to the Parents themselves, or to the Common-wealth, or others: At least that which the Parents apprehend to be a greater good: But if they err through ignorance or partiality, and bind the child to a greater hurt for their lesser good (as to pay 200 l. to save them from paying 100 l. ) whether their injury and sin do excuse the child from being obliged to anymore than the proportion of the benefit required, I leave undetermined.
§. 7. Quest. 2. But what if the Parents disagree, and one of them will oblige the child, and the other will not?
Answ. 1. If it be an act of the Parents as mere Proprietors for their own good, either of them may oblige him in a just degree; because they have severally a propriety. 2. If it be an act of Government (as if they oblige him to do this or that act of service at their command in his minority,) the Father may oblige him against the Mothers consent, because he is the chief Ruler; but not the Mother against the Fathers will; though she may without it.
§. 8. Quest. 3. Is a man obliged by a contract which he made in ignorance or mistake of the matter?
Answ. I have answered this before in the case of Marriage Part. 3. Chap. 1. I add here.
1. We Must distinguish between culpable and inculpable error: 2. Between an error about the principal matter, and about some smaller accidents or circumstances. 3. Between a case where the Law of the Land, or the common good interposeth, and where it doth not.
1. If it be your own fault that you are mistaken, you are not wholly freed from the obligation: But if it was your gross fault; by negligence or vice, you are not at all freed: But if it were but such a frailty as almost all men are liable to, so that none but a person of extraordinary virtue or diligence could have avoided the mistake, then equity will proportionably make you an abatement or free you from the obligation. So far as you were obliged to understand the matter, so far you are obliged by the contract; especially when another is a loser by your error.
2. An inculpable error about the circumstances, or smaller parts, will not free you from an obligation in the principal matter: But an inculpable error in the essentials will.
3. Except when the Law of the Land or the common good, doth otherwise over-rule the case: For then you may be obliged by that accident. In divers cases the Rulers may judge it necessary, that the effect of the contract shall depend upon the bare words, or writings, or actions; lest false pretences of misunderstanding should exempt deceitful persons from their obligations; and nothing should be a security to contractors. And then men's private commodity must give place, to the Law and to the public good.
4. Natural infirmities must be numbered with faults, though they be not moral vices, as to the contracting of an obligation, if they be in a person capable of contracting. As if you have some special defect of memory, or ignorance of the matter which you are about! Another who is no way faulty by over-reaching you, must not be a loser by your weakness. For he that cometh to the market, or contracteth with another who knoweth not his infirmity, is to be supposed to understand what he doth, unless the contrary be manifest: You should not meddle with matters which you understand not: Or if you do, you must be content to be a loser by your weakness.
5. Yet in such cases, another that hath gained by the bargain, may be obliged by the Laws of equity and charity, to remit the gain, and not to take advantage of your weakness: But he may so far hold you to it, as to secure himself from loss: except in cases where you become the object of his Charity, and not of Commutative Justice only.
§. 9. Quest. 4. Is a drunken man, or a man in a transporting passion, or a melancholy person, obliged by a contract made in such a case?
Answ. Remember still, that we are speaking only of Contracts about matters of profit or worldly interest: and not of marriage, or any of another nature. And the Question as it concerneth a man in Drunkenness or Passion, is answered as the former about culpable error: And as it concerneth a melancholy man, it is to be answered as the former question, in the case of natural infirmity. But if the melancholy be so great as to make him uncapable of bargaining, he is to be esteemed in the same condition as an Ideot, or one in deliration or distraction.
§. 10. Quest. 5. But may another hold a man to it, who in drunkenness or passion maketh an ill bargain, or giveth or playeth away his money; and repenteth when he is sober?
Answ. He may (ordinarily) take the money from the loser, or him that casteth it thus away: But he may not keep it for himself: But if the loser be poor, he should give it to his Wife or Children whom he robbeth by his sin: If not, he should either give it to the Magistrate or Overseer for the poor, or give it to the poor himself. The reason of this determination is; Because the loser hath parted with his propriety, and can lay no further claim to the thing: But yet the gainer can have no right from another's crime: If it were from an injury, he might; so far as is necessary to reparations: But from a crime he cannot: For his loss is to be estimated as a mulct or penalty, and to be disposed of as such mulcts as are laid on Swearers and Drunkards are. Only the person by his voluntary bargain, hath made the other party instead of the Magistrate, and authorized him (in ordinary cases) to dispose of the gain, for the poor or public good.
§. 11. Quest. 6. Am I obliged by the words or writings which usually express a Covenant, without any Covenanting or self-obliging intention in me, when I speak or write them?
Answ. Either you utter or write those words, with a purpose to make another believe that you intend a Covenant; or at least by culpable negligence, in such a manner as he is bound so to understand you, or justified for so understanding you: or else you so use the words, as in the manner sufficiently to signify that you intend no Covenant or self-obligation. In the former case you bind yourself (as above said): Because another man is not to be a loser, nor you a gainer or a saver by your own fraud or gross negligence. But in the later case you are not bound: Because an intent of self-obliging is the internal efficient of the obligation: and a signification of such an intent, is the external efficient, without which it cannot be. If you read over the words of a bond, or repeat them only in a Narrative, or ludicrously; •• if a Scr • vener write a form of obligation of himself, to a boy for a Copy, or to a Scholar for a president, these do not induce any obligation in Conscience, nor make you a debtor to another. (Thus also the case of the Intent of the Baptizer, or Baptized (or parents) is to be determined).
§. 12. Quest. 7. May a true man promise money to a robber, for the saving of his life or of a greater sum, or more precious commodity?
Answ. Yes, in case of necessity, when his life or estate cannot better be preserved: And so taxes may be paid to an Enemy in arms, or to a plundering Soldier, (supposing that it do no other hurt, which is greater than the good). Any man may part with a lesser good to preserve a greater: And it is no more voluntary or imputable to our wills, than the casting of our goods into the Sea to save the vessel and our lives.
§. 13. Quest. 8. May I give money to a Judge or Justice or Court-officer, to hire him to do me justice, or to keep him from d • ing me wrong; or to avoid persecution.
Answ. You may not, in case your cause be bad, give anything to procure injustice against another; no nor speak a word for it nor desire it: This I take as presupposed. You may not give money to procure justice, when the Law of the Land forbiddeth it, and when it will do more hurt accidentally to others, than good to you: when it will harden men in the sin of bribery; and cause them to expect the like from others. But except it be, when some such Accidental greater hurt doth make it evil, it is as lawful as to hire a thief not to kill me; when you cannot have your right by other means, you may part with a smaller matter for a greater.
§. 14. Quest. 9. But if I make such a contract, may the other lawfully take it of me?
Answ. No: for it is now supposed that it is unlawful on his part.
§. 15. Quest. 10. But if under necessity or force, I promise money to a Robber or a Judge or Officer, am I bound to perform it when necessity is over?
Answ. You have lost your own propriety by your Covenant, and therefore must not retain it: But he can acquire no right by his sin; and therefore some say that in point of Justice you are not bound to give it him, but to give it to the Magistrate for the poor: But yet Prudence may tell you of other reasons à fine to give it the man himself, though Justice bind you not to it: As in case that else he may be revenged and do you some greater hurt: or some greater hurt is any other way like to be the consequent; which it is lawful by money to prevent. But many think that you are bound to deliver the money to the Thief or officer himself; because it is a lawful thing to do it, though he have no just title to it; and because it was your meaning, or the signification of your words in your Covenant with him: And if it were not lawful to do it, it could not be lawful to promise to do it: otherwise your promise is a lie. To this those of the other opinion say, that as a man who is discharged of his promise by him that it was made to, is not to be accounted false if he perform it not; so is it as to the Thief or Officer in question; because he having no right, is to you as the other that hath quit his right. And this answer indeed will prove, that it is not strict injustice not to pay the money promised: but it will not prove that it is not a lie to make such a promise with an intent of not-performing it, or that it is not a lie to make it with an intent of performing it, and not to do it when you may. Though here a Jesuit will tell you that you may say the words of a promise, with an equivocation or mental reservation, to a Thief or persecuting Magistrate: (Of which see more in the Chapters of Lying, Vowes and Perjury.) 〈…〉 am therefore of Opinion that your promise must be sincerely made, and according to the true intent of it, you must offer the money to the Thief or Officer; except in case the Magistrate forbid you, or some greater reason lie against it, which you foresaw not when you made the promise. But the offender is undoubtedly obliged not to take the money.
§. 16. The same determination holdeth as to all contracts and promises made to such persons, who by injurious force constrained us to make them. There is on us an obligation to Veracity, though none to them in point of Justice, because they have no proper right; nor may they lawfully take our payment or service promised them. And in case that the public good unexpectedly cross our performance, we must not perform it: Such like is the case of Conquerors, and those that upon conquest become their vassals or subjects upon unrighteous terms. But still remember, that if it be not only a Covenant with man, but a Vow to God, which maketh him a party, the case is altered, and we remain obliged.
§. 17. Quest. 11. But may I promise the Thief or Bribe-taker to conceal his fault? and am I obliged to the performance of such a promise?
Answ. This is a promise of omitting that which else would be a duty. It is ordinarily a duty to reveal a Thief and bribe-taker that he may be punished. But affirmatives bind not ad semper: no act, (especially external) is a duty at all times: Therefore not this, of revealing an offenders fault. And if it be not always a duty, then it must be none when it is inconsistent with some greater benefit or duty: For when two goods come together, the greater is to be preferred: Therefore in case that you see in just probability, that the concealment of the sinner will do more hurt, to the Common-wealth or the souls of men, than the saving of your life is like to do good, You may not promise to conceal him: or if you sinfully promise it, you may not perform it. But in case that your life is like to be a greater good than the Not promising to conceal him, then such a promise is no fault; because the disclosing him is no duty. But to judge rightly of this is a matter of great difficulty. If it be less than life which you save by such a promise, it oft falls out that it is a lesser good, than the detecting of the offense.
§. 18. But it will here be said, If I promise not to conceal a Robber, I must conceal him nevertheless; for when he hath killed me, I cannot reveal him; and I must conceal the bribe-taker; for till I have promised secrecy, I cannot prove him guilty. And he that promiseth to forbear a particular good action whilst he liveth, doth yet reserve his life, for all other good works: whereas if he die, he will neither do that nor any other. But this case is not so easily determined: If Daniel die, he can neither pray nor do any other good on earth. And if he live he may do much other good, though he never pray: And yet he might not promise to give over praying, to save his life. I conceive that we must distinguish of duties essential to the outward part of Christianity, or of constant indispensible necessity; and duties which are alterable, and belong only to some persons, times and places: Also between the various consequents of omissions. And I conceive that ordinarily a man may promise for the saving of his life, that he will forbear a particular alterable duty, or relation: As to read such a Commentary, to speak with such a Minister, to be a Magistrate or a Minister, &c. in case we have not before bound ourselves, never to give over our Calling till death: And in case that the good which will follow our forbearance, is likely (to a judicious person,) to be greater than the evil. But no man may promise to omit such a duty as God hath made necessary during life: as not to love God, or fear or trust him: not to Worship him and call upon him and praise him: nor to do good to men's souls or bodies in the general: or, not to Preach or Pray while I am a Minister of Christ; or not at all to Govern while you are a Governor: For all these contradict some former and greater promises or duties. Nor may you omit the smallest duty to save your life, at such a time when your death is like to do more good, than your life would do without that one duty. Apply this to the present case.
§. 19. Quest. 12. If another man deceive me into a promise or Covenant against my good, am I bound to perform it, when I have discovered the deceit.
Answ. Yes, 1. In case that the Law of the Land, or other reasons for the public good require it: 2. Or in case that you were faulty by negligence, heedlessness, or otherwise guilty of your own deceit, in any considerable and avoidable degree. Otherwise, in that measure that he deceived you, and in those respects you are not obliged.
§. 20. Quest. 13. If the contracting parties do neither of them understand the other, is it a Covenant: Or if it be, whose sense must carry it?
Answ. If they understand not each other in the Essentials of the Contract, it is no contract, in point of Conscience: except where the Laws, for the public safety, do annex the obligation to the bare external act. But if they understand not one another in some circumstances, and be equally culpable or innocent, they must come to a new agreement in those particulars: But if one party only be guilty of the misunderstanding, he must bear the loss, if the other insist on it.
§. 21. Quest. 14. Am I bound to stand to the bargains which my friend, or trustee or servant maketh for me, when it proveth much to my injury or loss?
Answ. Yes; 1. If they exceed not the bounds of that commission or trust, which they received from you: 2. Or if they do, yet if by your former trusting and using them, or by any other sign, you have given the other party sufficient cause to suppose them entrusted by you to do what they do, so that he is deceived by your fault, you are bound at least to see that he be no loser by you; though you are not bound to make him a gainer, unless you truly signified that you authorized them to make the contract. For if it be merely your friends or servants error, without your fault, it doth not bind you to a third person. But how far you may be bound to pardon that error to your friend or servant, is another question? and how far you are bound to save them harmless. And that must be determined by laying together all other obligations between them and you.
§. 22. Quest. 15. If I say, I will give such or such a one this or that, am I bound thereby to do it?
Answ. It is one thing to express your present mind and resolution, without giving away the liberty of changing it: And its another thing to intend the obliging of yourself to do the thing mentioned▪ and that obligation is either intended to man, or to God only; and that is either in point of rendition and use, or in point of veracity, or the performance of that moral duty of speaking truth. If you meant no more, in saying, I will do it, or I will give it; but that this is your present Will, and purpose and resolution, yea, though it add the confident persuasion▪ that your will shall not change; yet this no further obligeth you, than you are obliged to continue in that will: And a man's confident resolutions may lawfully be changed upon sufficient cause. But if you intended to alienate the title to another, or to give him present right, or to oblige yourself for the future to him by that promise; or to oblige yourself to God to do it by way of peremptory assertion, as one that will be guilty of a lie if you perform it not; or if you dedicate the thing to God by those words as a Vow, then you are obliged to do accordingly (supposing nothing else to prohibit it.)
§. 23. Quest. 16. Doth an inward promise of the mind, not expressed, oblige?
Answ. In a Vow to God it doth: And if you intend it as an assertion obliging you in point of Veracity, it doth so oblige you, that you must not lie. But it is no contract, nor giveth any man a title to what you tacitly thought of.
§. 24. Quest. 17. May I promise an unlawful thing (simply so) without an intention of performing it, to save my life from a thief or persecutor?
Answ. No: Because it is a lie, when the tongue agreeth not with the heart. Indeed those that think a lie is no sin, when it hurteth not another, may justify this, if that would hold good: But I have before confuted it Tom. 1. in the Chapter against Lying.
§. 25. Quest. 18. May anything otherwise unlawful become a duty upon a promise to do it?
Answ. This is answered before Tom. 1. Chapter of Perjury and Vows: A thing simply unlawful will be▪ so still, notwithstanding a Vow or promise: And some say so of that also which is unlawful antecedently but by accident! As e. g. It is not simply unlawful to cast away a cup of Wine or a piece of Silver: (for it is lawful upon a sufficient cause). But it is unlawful to do it without any sufficient cause. Now suppose I should contract with another that I will do it; am I bound by such a contract? Many say, No, because the matter is unlawful, though but by accident; and the contract cannot make it lawful. I rather think that I am bound in such a case: But yet that my obligation doth not excuse me wholly from sin: It was a sin before I promised it (or Vowed it) to cast away a farthing causelessly. And if I causelessly promised it, I sinned in that promise: But yet there may because for the performance: And if I have entangled myself in a necessity of sinning whether I do it or not, I must choose the lesser sin: for that is then my duty. (Though I should have chosen neither, as long as I could avoid it.) In a great and hurtful sin, I may be obliged rather to break my Covenant, than to commit it, yet it is hard to say so of every accidental evil: My reasons are, 1. Because the Promise or Covenant, is now an accident, to be put into the balance; and may weigh down a lighter accident on the other side: (But I know that the great difficulty is to discern which is indeed the preponderating accident.) 2. I think if a Magistrate command me to do anything which by a small accident is evil (as to spend an hour in vain, to give a penny in vain, to speak a word which (antecedently) was vain) that I must do it; and that then it is not vain, because it manifesteth my obedience. (Otherwise obedience would be greatly straightened:) Therefore my own Contract may make it my duty: because I am able to oblige myself as well as a Magistrate is. 3. Because Covenant-breaking (and Perjury) is really a greater sin, than speaking a vain word: And my error doth not make it no sin; but only entangle me in a necessity of sinning which way soever I take.
§. 26. Quest. 19. If a man make a contract to promote the sin of another for a reward (as a corrupt Judge, or Lawyer, Officer or Clerk to promote injustice; or a▪resetter to help a Thief; or a Bawd or Whore, for the price of fornication,) may he take the reward, when the sin is committed, (suppose it repented of)?
Answ. The offender that promised the reward, hath parted with his title to the money: Therefore you may receive it of him (and ought, except he will rightly dispose of it himself:) But withal to confess the sin, and persuade him also to repent: But you may not take any of that money as your own: (For no man can purchase true propriety by iniquity) But either give it to the party injured (to whom you are bound to make satisfaction), or to the Magistrate or the poor, according as the case particularly requireth.
§. 27. Quest. 20. If I contract, or bargain, or promise to another, between us two, without any legal form or witness, doth it bind me to the performance?
Answ. Yes, in foro conscientiae, supposing the thing lawful: But if the thing be unlawful in foro Dei, and such as the Law of the Land only would lay hold of you about, or force you to, if it had been witnessed, then the Law of the Law of the Land may well be avoided, by the want of legal forms and witnesses.
§. 28. Quest. 21. May I buy an Office for money in a Court of Justice?
Answ. Some Offices you may buy, (where the Law alloweth it, and it tendeth not to injustice): But other Offices you may not; The difference the Lawyers may tell you better than I, and it would be tedious to pursue instances.
§. 29. Quest. 22. May one buy a place of Magistracy, or Judicature for money?
Answ. No • when your own honor or commodity is your end: Because the common good is the end of Government; and to a faithful Governor, it is a place of great labor and suffering, and requireth much self-denial and patience: Therefore they that purchase it as a place of honor, gain or pleasure, either know not what they undertake, or have carnal ends: Else they would rather purchase their liberty and avoid it. But if a King, or Judge, or other Magistrate, see that a bad man (more unfit to Govern) is like to be put in, if he be put by, it is lawful for him to purchase the people's deliverance at a very dear rate; (even by a lawful War which is more than money, when the Sovereigns power is in such danger): But the Heart must be watched, that it pretend not the common good, and intend your own commodity and honor: And the probable consequents must be weighed: And the Laws of the Land must be consulted also: For if they absolutely prohibit the buying of a place of Judicature, they must be obeyed. And ill effects may make it sinful.
§. 30. Quest. 23. May one sell a Church-benefice, or Rectory or Orders?
Answ. If the Benefice be originally of your own gift, it is at first in your power to give part or all; to take some deductions out of it or not: But if it be already given to the Church, and you have but the Patronage or Choice of the Incumbent, it is sacrilege to sell it for any commodity of your own: But whether you may take somewhat out of a greater Benefice, to give to another Church which is poorer, dependeth partly on the Law of the Land, and partly upon the probable consequents. If the Law absolutely forbid it (supposing that unlawful contracts cannot be avoided unless some lawful ones be restrained,) it must be obeyed, for the common good: And if the consequent of a lawful contract, be like to be the more hurtful encouragement of unlawful ones, such examples must be forborne, though the Law were not against them. But to sell Orders is undoubted Simony: (That is, the Office of the Ministry, or the act of Ordination: ) though Scribes may be paid for writing instruments.
§. 31. Quest. 24. May a man give money for Orders or Benefices, when they cannot otherwise be had?
Answ. 1. This is answered in Quest. 22. 1. If the Law absolutely forbid it, for the common safety you may not: 2. If the consequents are like to be more hurt than the benefit will recompense, you may not: 3. If your end be chiefly your own commodity, ease, or honor, you may not. But in case you were clear from all such evils, and the case were only this, Whether you might not give money to get in yourself, to keep out a Heretic, a Wolf, or insufficient man, who might destroy the people's souls, I see not but it might well be done.
§. 32. Quest. 25. May I give money to Officers, Servants, or Assistants for their furtherance?
Answ. For Writings or other servile acts about the circumstantials you may: But not (directly or indirectly) to promote the Simoniacal Contract. What you may not give to the principal agent, you may not give his instruments or others for the same end.
§. 33. Quest. 26. May I give or do anything afterward by way of gratitude, to the Patron, Bishop, or any others, their relations or retainers?
Answ. Not when the expectation of that Gratitude, was a (secret or open) condition of the Presentation or Orders: and you believe that you should not else have received them: Therefore promised Gratitude is but a kind of contracting. Nor may you show Gratitude by any scandalous way, which seemeth Simony. Otherwise, no doubt, but you may be prudently grateful for that or any other kindness.
§. 34. Quest. 27. May not a Bishop or Pastor take money for Sermons, Sacraments, or other Offices?
Answ. Not for the things themselves: He must not sell God's Word or Sacraments, or any other holy thing. But they that serve at the Altar, may live on the Altar, and the Elders that Rule well are worthy of double honor: And the mouth of the Ox that treadeth out the corn, should not be muzzled? They may receive due maintenance while they perform God's service: that they may be vacant to attend their proper work.
§ 35. Quest. 28. May one person disoblige another of a promise made to him?
Answ. Yes, if it be no more than a promise to that person: Because a man may give away his right: But if it be moreover a Vow to God, or you intend to oblige yourself in point of Veracity under the guilt of a lie if you do otherwise, these alter the case, and no person can herein disoblige you?
§. 36. Quest. 29. But what if the Contract be bound by an Oath, may another then release me?
Answ. Yes; if that Oath did only tie you to perform your promise; and were no Vow to God which made him a party, by dedicating anything to him: For then the Oath being but subservient to the promise, he that dischargeth you from the promise, dischargeth you also from the Oath which bound you honestly to keep it.
§. 37. Quest. 30. Am I bound by a promise when the cause or reason of it proveth a mistake?
Answ. If by the Cause you mean only the extrinsical Reasons which moved you to it, you may be obliged nevertheless for finding your mistake: Only so far as the other was the culpable cause (as is aforesaid) he is bound to satisfy you: But if by the Cause you mean the formal reason, which constituteth the contract, then the mistake may in some cases nullify it: (of which enough before.)
§. 38. Quest. 31. What if a following accident make it more to my hurt, then could be foreseen?
Answ. In some Contracts it is supposed or expressed, that men do undertake to run the hazard: And then they must stand obliged. But in some contracts, it is rationally supposed that the parties intend to be free, if so great an alteration should fall out. But to give instances of both these Cases would be too long a work.
§. 39. Quest. 32. What if something unexpectedly fall out, which maketh it injurious to a third person? I cannot sure be obliged to injure another.
Answ. If the case be the later mentioned in the foregoing answer, you may be thus free: But if it be the former (you being supposed to run the hazard, and secure the other party against all others) then either you were indeed authorized to make this bargain, or not: If not, the third person may secure his right against the other: But if you were, then you must make satisfaction as you can to the third person. Ye • , if you made a Covenant without authority, you are obliged to save the other harmless, unless he knew your power to: be doubtful, and did resolve to run the hazard.
§. 40. Quest. 33. What if somewhat fall out which maketh the performance to be a sin?
Answ. You must not do it: But you must make the other satisfaction for all the loss which you were the cause of unless he undertook to stand to the hazard of this also, (explicitly or implicitly).
§. 41. Quest. 34. Am I obliged if the other break Covenant with me?
Answ. There are Covenants which make Relations (as between Husband and Wife, Pastor and Flock, Rulers and Subjects); and Covenants which convey title to commodities, of which only I am here to speak. And in these there are some Conditions which are essential to the Covenant: If the other first break these conditions, you are disobliged. But there are other conditions which are not essential, but only necessary to some following benefit: whose non-performance will only forfeit that particular benefit: And there are conditions which are only undertaken subsequent duties, trusted on the honesty of the performer: And in these a failing doth not disoblige you. These latter are but improperly called Conditions.
§. 42. Quest. 35. May I contract to perform a thing which I foresee is like to become impossible or sinful, before the time of performance come, though it be not so at present.
Answ. With all persons you must deal truly; and with just contractors, openly: But with Thieves, and Murderers, and Persecutors, you are not always bound to deal openly. This being premised, either your Covenant is absolutely, This I will do, be it lawful or not, possible or impossible: And such a Covenant is sin and folly: Or it is Conditional, This I will do, if it continue lawful, or possible: This condition (or rather Exception) is still implied where it is not expressed, unless the contrary be expressed: Therefore such a Covenant is lawful with a Robber with whom you are not bound to deal openly: Because it is but the concealing from him the event which you foresee. As e. g. you have intelligence that a Ship is lost at Sea, or is like to be shortly taken by Pirates, which the Robber expecteth shortly to come safe into the harbor: You may promise him to deliver up yourself his prisoner, when that Ship cometh home. Or you know a person to be mortally sick, and will die before the next Week: you may oblige yourself to marry or serve that person two months hence: For it is implied, If he or she be then alive. But with equal Contractors, this is unlawful, with whom you are obliged not only to Verity, but to Justice; as in the following cases will be further manifested.
Tit. 3. Special Cases about Justice in Buying and Selling.
§. 1. Qu. 1. AM I bound to endeavor that he whom I deal with, may be a gainer by the bargain as well as I?
Answ. Yes, It you be equally in want; or in the like condition: But if he be very poor, and you be rich, Charity must be so mixed with Justice, that you must endeavor that it be more to his commodity than yours (if he be indeed one that you owe Charity to.) And if you be poor, and he be rich, you may be willing to be the only gainer yourself, so be it you covet not another's, nor desire that he be wronged: For when he hath power to deal charitably, you may be willing of his charity or kindness.
§. 2. Quest. 2. May I desire, or take more than my labor or goods are worth, if I can get it?
Answ. 1. Not by deceit, persuading another that they are worth more than they are. 2. Not by extortion working upon men's ignorance, error or necessity (of which more anon). 3. Not of any one that is poorer than yourself, or of any one that intendeth but an equal bargain. 4. But if you deal with the rich, who in generosity or liberality stick not at a small matter, and are willing another should be a gainer by them, and understand what they do, it is lawful to take as much as they will give you.
§. 3. Quest. 3. May I ask in the Market more than my goods are truly worth?
Answ. In the case last mentioned you may; when you are selling to the Rich who are willing to show their generosity, and to make you gainers: But then the honest way is to say, It is worth but so much; but if you will give so much more because I need it, I will take it thankfully. Some think also where the common custom is to ask more than the worth, and people will not buy unless you come down from your first demand, that then you may lawfully ask more, because else there is no trading with such people. My judgment in this case is this, 1. That ordinarily it is better to ask no more at all than a just gain: And that the inconveniences of doing otherwise are greater than any on the other side: For he that heareth you ask unjustly, may well think that you would take unjustly if you could get it, and consequently that you are unjust. 2. But this just gain lieth not always just in an indivisible quantity, or determinate price. A man that hath a family to maintain by his trade, may lawfully take a proportionable moderate gain: Though if he take less he may get something too: To be always just at a word, is not convenient: For he that may lawfully get two or three shillings or more in the pound of the rich, may see cause to let a poorer person have it for less: But never ask above what its reasonable to take. 3. And if you once peremptorily say, I will take no less, then it is not fit to go from your word. 4. And if you do meet with such fools or proud Gallants, who will not deal with you unless you ask dear, it is just that when they have given you more than it is worth, you tell them so, and offer them the overplus again. And for them that expect that you abate much of your asking, it is an inconvenience to be born, which will be ever to your advantage when you are once better known.
§. 4. Quest. 4. How shall the worth of a commodity be judged of?
Answ. 1. When the Law setteth a rate upon anything (as on bread and drink with us) it must be observed. 2. If you go to the Market, the Market-price is much to be observed. 3. If it be in an equal contract, with one that is not in want, you may estimate your goods as they cost you, or are worth to you, though it be above the common price; seeing the buyer is free to take or leave them. 4. But if that which you have to sell, be extraordinary desirable, or worth to someone person, more than to you or another man, you must not make too great an advantage of his convenience or desire; but be glad that you can pleasure him, upon equal, fair and honest terms. 5. If there be a secret worth in your commodity which the Market will take no notice of (as it is usual in a Horse), it is lawful for you to take according to that true worth, if you can get it. But it is a false Rule of them, that think their commodity is worth as much as any one will give.
§. 5. Quest. 5. Is it lawful to make a thing seem better than it is, by trimming, adorning or setting the best side outward or in sight; or to conceal the faults of what I am to sell.
Answ. It is lawful to dress, polish, adorn or set out your commodity, to make it seem as it is indeed, but not to make it seem better than it is; except in some very few unusual cases: As if you deal with some phantastical fool, who will not buy it, nor give you the true worth except it be so set out, and made in some respects to seem better than it is. It is lawful so far to serve their curiosity or humor, as to get the worth of your commodity. But if you do it to get more than the worth by deceiving, it is a sin. And such glossing hath so notable an appearance of deceit, that for that scandal it should be avoided.
2. And as for concealing the fault the case is the same: You ought not to deceive your neighbor, but to do as you would be done by: And therefore must not conceal any fault which he desireth, or is concerned to know: Except it be when you deal with one who maketh a far greater matter of that fault than there is cause, and would wrong you in the price if it were known: Yea, and that exception will not hold neither, except in a case when you must needs sell, and they must buy it: Because 1. You may not have another man's money against his will, though it be no more than the thing is worth. 2. Because it will be scandalous when the fault is known by him that buyeth it.
§. 6. Quest. 6. What if the fault was concealed from me when I bought it, or if I was deceived or over-reached by him that sold it me, and gave more than the worth, may I not repair my loss by doing as I was done by?
Answ. No: no more than you may cut another's purse, because yours was cut: You must do as you would be done by, and not as you are done by. What you may do with the same man that deceived you, is a harder question: But doubtless you may not wrong an honest man, because you were wronged by a knave.
§. 7. Object. But it is taken for granted in the Market, that every man will get as much as he can have, and that Caveat emptor is the only security; and therefore every man trusteth to his own wit, and not to the sellers honesty, and so resolveth to run the hazard.
Answ. It is not so among Christians, nor Infidels who profess either truth or common honesty. If you come among a company of Cut-purses, where the match is made, Look thou to thy purse and I will look to mine, and he that can get most let him take it? then indeed you have no reason to trust another: But there are no Tradesmen or Buyers who will profess that they look not to be trusted, or will say, I will lie and deceive you if I can. Among Thieves and Pirates such total distrust may be allowed: But among sober persons in Civil Societies and Converse, we must in reason and charity expect some truth and honesty, and not presume them to be all liars and deceivers, that we may seem to have allowance to be such ourselves. Indeed we trust them, not absolutely as Saints, but with a mixture of distrust, as fallible and faulty men: And so as to trust our own circumspection above their words when we know not the persons to be very just. But we have no cause to make a Market a place of mere deceit, where everyone saith, Trust not me, and I will not trust thee; but let us all take one another for cheaters and liars, and get what we can? Such censures favor not of Charity, or of Just intentions.
§. 8. Quest. 7. What if I foresee a plenty and cheapness in a time of dearth, which the buyer foreseeth not, (as if I know that there are Ships coming in with store of that commodity, which will make it cheap) am I bound to tell the buyer of it, and hinder my own gain?
Answ. There may be some instances in trading with enemies, or with Rich men, that regard not such matters, or with men that are supposed to know it as well as you, in which you are not bound to tell them. But in your ordinary equal trading, when you have reason to think that the buyer knoweth it not, and would not give so dear if he knew it, you are bound to tell him: Because you must love your neighbor as yourself, and do as you would be done by, and not take advantage of his ignorance.
§. 9. Quest. 8. If I foresee a dearth, may I not keep my commodity till then?
Answ. Yes; unless it be to the hurt of the Common-wealth, as if your keeping it in, be the cause of the dearth; and your bringing it forth would help to prevent it.
§. 10. Quest. 9. May one use many words in buying and selling?
Answ. You must use no more than are true, and just, and useful: but there are more words needful with some persons who are talkative and unsatisfied, than with others.
§. 11. Quest. 10. May I buy as cheap as I can get it, or give less than the thing is worth?
Answ. If it be worth more to you than the Market price (through your necessity) you are not bound to give above the market price: If it be worth less to you than the market price, you are not bound to give more than it is worth to you, as suited to your use: But you must not desire nor seek to get another's goods or labor for less than it is worth in both these respects (in common estimate, and to you).
§. 12. Quest. 11. May I take advantage of another's Necessity to buy for less than the worth, or sell for more: As e. g. a poor man must needs have money suddenly for his goods though he sell them but for half the worth: and I have no need of them: Am I bound to give him the worth when I have no need? and when it is a great kindness to him to give him anything in that straight? So also when I have no desire to sell my Horse, and another's necessity maketh him willing to give more than he is worth, may I not take it?
Answ. To the first case: You must distinguish between an act of Justice and of Charity: and between your need of the thing, and the worth of it to you. Though you have no need of the poor man's goods, yet if you buy them, both Justice and Charity require that you give him as much as they are worth to you, though not so much as they are worth in the market: yea, and that you buy them of him in his necessity: For if you give him but what they are worth to you, you are no loser by it: And you should do another good, when it is not to your own hurt or loss. By (what they are worth to you) I mean, so much as that you • e no loser. As if it be meat or drink, though you have no present need, perhaps you will shortly have need, and if you buy not that, you must buy as much of somewhat else. In strict Justice you may be a saver, but not a gainer, by buying of the poor in their necessity. 2. But if you buy a durable commodity, for less than it is worth, you should take it but as a pledge, and allow the seller liberty to redeem it, if he can, that he may get more after of another. 3. And to the poor in such necessity, Charity must be exercised as well as Justice. Therefore if you are able to lend them money to save them the loss of underselling, you should do it: (I account that man only able who hath money which no greater service of God requireth). And if you are not able yourself, you should endeavor to get some others to relieve him, if you can without a greater inconvenience.
And for the second case, it is answered before: You may not take more than it is worth, ever the more for another's necessity; nor in any other case than you might have done it in, if there had been no such necessity of his.
§. 13. Quest. 12. May I not make advantage of another's ignorance or error in bargaining?
Answ. Not to get more than your commodity is worth, nor to get his goods for less than the worth: no nor to get the true worth against his will, or with scandal: But if it be only to get a true worth of your commodity when he is willing, but would be offended if his ignorance in some point were cured, you may so far make use of his ignorance to a lawful end, as is said before in the case of concealing faults.
§. 14. Quest. 13. May I strive to get before another, to get a good bargain which he desireth?
Answ. Yes, if you do it not out of a greedy mind, nor to the injury of one that is poorer than yourself: You should rather further the supply of your neighbors greater needs: Otherwise speed and industry in your Calling is no fault, nor yet the crossing of a covetous man's desires: You are not bound to let every man have what he would have?
§. 15. Quest. 14. May I buy a thing out of another's hand, or hire a servant, which another is about, or is treating with? Or may I call a Chapman from another to buy of me?
Answ. There are some cases in which you may not do it, and some in which you may. You may not do it out of greedy covetousness; nor to the injury of the poor: nor when the other hath gone so far in the bargain that it cannot be honestly broken: For then you injure the third person, and tempt the other to a sin: nor may you do it so as to disturb that due and Civil order, which should be among moderate men in trading. And it is a great matter how the thing is accounted of by the custom of the Country or Market where you bargain: For where it is of ill report, and accounted as unjust, the scandal should make you avoid such a course. But yet in some cases it is lawful, and in some a needful duty. It is lawful when none of the foresaid reasons (or any such other) are against it: It is a duty when Charity to the poor or oppressed doth require it. As e. g. a poor man must needs sell his Land, his Horse, his Corn or Goods: A Covetous oppressor offereth him less than it is worth. The poor man must take his offer if he can get no more: The oppressor saith that it is injustice for any one to take his bargain out of his hand, or offer money till he have done: In this case it may be a duty, to offer the poor man the worth of his commodity, and save him from the oppressor. A covetous man offereth a Servant or Labourer less than their service or labor is worth; and will accuse you, if you interrupt his bargain and would offer his Servant more: In this case it may be your duty to help the servant to a better Master. A Chapman is ready to be cheated by an unconscionable Tradesman, to give much more for a commodity than its worth: Charity may oblige you in such a case to offer it him cheaper. In a word, if you do it for your own gain, in a greedy manner, it is a sin: But if you do it when it is not scandalous or injurious, or do it in charity for another's good, it is lawful, and sometime a duty.
§. 16. Quest. 15. May I dispraise another's commodity, to draw the buyer to my own?
Answ. This case is sufficiently answered in the former: 1. You may not use any false dispraise: 2. Nor a true one out of Covetousness, nor in a scandalous manner. 3. But you may help to save another from a Cheater, by opening the deceit in charity to him.
§. 17. Quest. 16. What should I do in doubtful cases, where I am uncertain whether the thing be just or not?
Answ. Causeless perplexing melancholy scruples, which would stop a man in the course of his duty, are not to be indulged: But in rational doubts, first use your utmost diligence, (as much as the nature of the cause requireth) to be resolved: and if yet you doubt, be sure to go the safer way, and to avoid sin rather than loss; and to keep your consciences in peace.
§. 18. Quest. 17. If the buyer lose the commodity between the bargain and the payment (as if he buy your Horse, and he die before payment or presently after) what should the seller do to his relief?
Answ. If it were by the sellers fault, or by any fault in the Horse which he concealed, he isto make the buyer full satisfaction. If it were casually only, rigorous Justice will allow him nothing: And therefore if it be either to a man that is Rich enough to bear it without any great sense of the loss, or in a case where in common custom the buyer always standeth to the loss, mere justice will make him no amends. But if it be where custom maketh some abatement judged a duty, or where the person is so poor as to be pinched by the loss, that common humanity, which all good men use in bargaining, which tempereth Justice with Charity, will teach men to bear their part of the loss; because they must do as they would be done by.
§. 19. Quest. 18. If the thing bought and sold prove afterward of much more worth than was by either party understood (as in buying of Amber-chryse, and Jewels, it oft falleth out) is the buyer bound to give the seller more than was bargained for?
Answ. Yes, if it was the sellers mere ignorance and insufficiency in that business, which caused him so to undersell it: (As if an ignorant Country-man sell a Jewel or Amber-chryse, who knoweth not what it is, a moderate satisfaction should be made him). But if it was the sellers trade, in which he is to be supposed sufficient, and if it be taken for granted before hand, that both buyer and seller will stand to the bargain what ever it prove, and that the seller would have abated nothing if it had proved less worth than the price, then the buyer may enjoy his gain: Much more if he run any notable hazard for it, as Merchants use to do.
§. 20. Quest. 19. What if the title of the thing sold prove bad, which was before unknown?
Answ. If the seller either knew it was bad, or through his notable negligence was ignorant of it, or did not fully acquaint the buyer with so much of the uncertainty and danger as he knew; or if it was any way his fault that the buyer was deceived, and not the buyers fault, he is bound to make him proportionable satisfaction. As also in case that by Law or bargain he be bound to warrant the title to the buyer. But not in case that it be their explicit or implicit agreement that the buyer stand to the hazard, and the seller hath done his duty to make him know whats doubtful.
§. 21. Quest. 20. What if a change of Powers or Laws do overthrow the title, almost as soon as it is sold (as it oft falls out about Offices and Lands;) who must bear the loss?
Answ. The case is near the same with that in Quest. 17. It is supposed that the seller should have lost it himself if he had kept it but a little longer; And that neither of them foresaw the change: And therefore that the seller hath all his money, rather for his good hap, than for his Lands or Office, (which the buyer hath not.) Therefore except it be to a rich man that feeleth not the loss, or one that expressly undertook to stand to all hazards, foreseeing a possibility of them; Charity and humanity, will teach the seller to divide the loss.
§. 22. The same is the case of London now consumed by fire: where thousands of suits are like to rise between the Landlords and the Tenants. Where the providence of God (permitting the burning zeal of some Papists,) hath deprived men of the houses which they had hired or taken leases of, humanity and charity requireth the Rich to bear most of the loss, and not to exact their Rents, or Re-building from the poor, what ever the Law saith, which could not be supposed to foresee such accidents. Love your neighbors as yourselves: Do as you would be done by; and Oppress not your poor brethren; and then by these three Rules you will yourselves decide a multitude of such doubts and difficulties, which the uncharitable only cannot understand.
Tit. 4. Cases of Conscience about Lending and Borrowing.
§. 1. Quest. 1. MAy a poor man borrow money, who knoweth that he is unable▪ to repay it, and hath no rational proof that he is very likely to be able hereafter?
Answ. No: unless it be when he telleth the lender truly of his case, and he is willing to run the hazard: Else it is mere thievery covered with the cheat of borrowing: For the borrower desireth that of another, which he would not lend him, if he expected it not again: And to take a man's money or goods against his will, is robbery.
Object. But I am in great necessity.
Answ. Begging in necessity is lawful: but stealing or cheating is not, though you call it borrowing.
Object. But it is a shame to beg.
Answ. The sin of thievish borrowing is worse than shame.
Object. But none will give me, if I beg.
Answ. If they will give but to save your life at the present, you must take it, though they give you not what you would have: The poorest beggars life is better than the thiefs.
Object. But I hope God may enable me to pay hereafter.
Answ. If you have no rational way to manifest the soundness of that hope to another, it is but to pretend faith and hope for thievery and deceit.
Object. God hath promised, that those that fear him shall want no good thing? and therefore I hope I may be able to repay it.
Answ. If you want not, Why do you borrow? If you have enough to keep you alive by begging, God maketh good all his promises to you: Yea, or if you die by famine. For he only promiseth you that which is best; which for ought you know may be beggary or death. God breaketh not promise with his servants who die in common famine, no more than with them that die in Plagues or Wars. Make not God the Patron of sin. Yea, and your faith a pretence for your distrust. If you trust God, use no sinful means: If you trust him not, this pleading of his promise is hypocrisy.
§. 2. Quest. 2. May a Tradesman drive a Trade with borrowed money, when his success and so his repayment is utterly an uncertain thing?
Answ. There are some Trades where the gain is so exceeding probable, next to certain, as may warrant the borrowing of money to manage them, when there is no rational probability of failing in the payment. And there are some Tradesmen, who have estates of their own, sufficient to repay all the money which they borrow. But otherwise when the money is rationally hazardous, the borrower is bound in conscience to acquaint the lender fully with the hazard, that he may not have it against his will. Otherwise he liveth in constant deceit or thievery! And if he do happen to repay it, it excuseth not his sin.
§. 3. Quest. 3. If a borrower be utterly unable to pay, and so break while he hath something, may be not retain somewhat for his food or raiment.
Answ. No: unless it be in order to set up again in hope to repay his debts: For all that he hath being other men's, he may not take so much as bread to his mouth, out of that which is theirs, without their consent.
§. 4. Quest. 4 But if a man have bound himself to his Wives friends upon marriage to settle so much upon her or her children, and this obligation was antecedent to his debts, may he not secure that to his Wife and Children, without any injury to his Creditors?
Answ. The Law of the Land must much decide this controversy: If the propriety be actually before transferred to Wife or Children, it is theirs, and cannot be taken from them: But if it were done after by a deed of gift to defraud the Creditors, than that deed of gift is invalid, till debts be paid. If it be but an Obligation and no collation of propriety, the Law must determine who is to be first paid: and whether the Wife be supposed to run the hazard of gaining or losing with the Husband: And though the Laws of several Countries herein differ, and some give the Wife more propriety than others do, yet must they in each place be conscientiously observed, as being the Rule of such propriety. But we must see that there be no fraudulent intent in the transaction.
§. 5. Quest. 5. May not a broken Tradesman retain somewhat to set up again, if his creditors be willing to compound for a certain part of the debt?
Answ. If he truly acquaint them with his whole estate, and they voluntarily allow him part to himself, either in charity, or in hope hereafter to be satisfied, this is no unlawful course: But if he hide part from them, and make them believe that the rest is all, this is but a thievish procurement of their composition or consent.
§. 6. Quest. 6. May a borrower lawfully break his day, of promised payment, in case of necessity?
Answ. True necessity hath no Law: that is, a man is not bound to do things naturally impossible: But if he might have foreseen that necessity, or the doubtfulness of his payment at the day, it was his sin to promise it, unless he put in some limitation [If I be able,] and acquainted the lender with the uncertainty. However it be, when the time is come, he ought to go to his Creditor, and tell him of his necessity, and desire further time, and endeavor to pay it as soon as he is able: and if he be not able, to make him what satisfaction he can, by his labor, or any other lawful way.
§. 7. Quest. 7. May I borrow of one to pay another, to keep my day with the first?
Answ. Yes, if you deal not fraudulently with the second, but are able to pay him, or acquaint him truly with your case.
§. 8. Quest. 8. Suppose that I have no probability of paying the last creditor, may I borrow of one to pay another, and so live upon borrowing; or must I rather continue in one man's debt?
Answ. If you truly acquaint your Creditors with your state, you may do as is most to your convenience. If the first Creditor be able and willing rather to trust you longer, than that you should borrow of another to pay him, you may continue his debtor, till you can pay him without borrowing: But if he be either poor or unwilling to bear with you, and another that is able be willing to venture, you may better borrow of another to pay him. But if they be all equally unwilling to stand to any hazard by you, then you must rather continue in the first man's debt, because if you wrong another you will commit another sin: Nay, you cannot borrow in such a case, because it is supposed that the other will not lend, when he knoweth your case. And you must not at all conceal it from him.
Object. But it may be my ruin to open my full state to another.
Answ. You must not live upon cheating and thievery to prevent your ruin? And what can it be less to get another man's money against his will. And it is against his will, if you hide your case, which if he knew he would not lend it to you.
Object. But what if I tell him plainly, that I will pay him certainly by borrowing of another, though I cannot pay him of mine own, and though I be not like to pay the last.
Answ. If you truly thus open your case to everyone that you borrow of, you may take it, if they will lend it: For then you have their consent: And it is supposed, that everyone is willing to run the hazard of being the last Creditor.
§. 9 Quest. 9. May I lend upon Pledges, Pawns or Morgages for my security?
Answ. Yes, so you take not that from a poor man for a pledge, which is necessary to his livelihood and maintenance: As the bed which he should lie on, the clothes which he should wear, or the tools which he should work with; and be not cruel on pretence of mercy.
§. 10. Quest. 10. May I take the forfeiture and keep a pledge or Morgage upon Covenants?
Answ. If it be among Merchants and rich men, an act of Merchandize, and not of mere security for money lent, then it is another case: As if they make a bargain thus, [Take this Jewel or this Land for your money; and it shall be yours if I pay you not by such a day: I am willing to stand to the hazard of uncertainty: If I pay you not, suppose it is for my own commodity, and not through disability]: In this case it is lawful to take the forfeiture, or detain the thing. But if it be properly but a pledge to secure the money, then the final intent is but that your money may be repaid: And you may not take the advantage of breaking a day, to take that from another which is none of your own. Justice will allow you only to take so much as your money came to, and to give the overplus (if there be any) to the debtor. And mercy will require you rather to forgive the debt, than to keep a pledge which he cannot spare, but to his ruin and misery (as his food, his raiment, his tools, his house, &c. ) Unless you be in as great necessity as he.
§. 11. Quest. 11. May I take the Bond or promise of a third person as security for my money?
Answ. Yes: in case that other be able and willing to be responsible: For you have his own consent: But great caution should be used; that you take no man that is insufficient, from whom mercy forbiddeth you to take it in case the principal debtor fail; unless you take his suretyship but