A Christian Directory
§. 2 1. There is no sin so odious, but Love to it, and frequent using it, will do much to reconcile the very judgment to it: either to think it lawful, or tolerable and venial; to think it no sin, or but a little sin, and easily forgiven. And so with some brutish persons it doth in this. But 1. It is Reason enough against any sin that it is forbidden by the most wise infallible universal King of all the world. Thy Makers will is enough to condemn it, and shall be enough to condemn those that are the servants of it. He hath said, Thou shalt not commit adultery. 1 Cor. 6. 9, 10. Be not deceived, neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor esseminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind—shall inherit the Kingdom of God. V. 15, 16, 17, 18, 19. Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? Shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What, Know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body: for two (saith he) shall be one flesh: But he that is joined to the Lord is one Spirit. Flee fornication: every sin that a man doth is without the body: but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What! know ye not that your body is the Temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you —(Mark that he speaketh not this to fornicators: for their bodies are not Temples of the Holy Ghost: but to them that by filthy Heretics in those times were tempted to think fornication no great sin). So Ephes. 5. 3, 4, 5, 6. But fornication, and all uncleanness, and covetousness, let it not be once named among you as becometh Saints: Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting—For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the Kingdom of God: Let no man deceive you with vain words; for because of these things cometh the wrath of God upon the children of disobedience: be not ye therefore partakers with them. Gal. 5. 19. Now the works of the flesh are manifest, which are adultery, fornication, uncleanness, lasciviousness—of the which I tell you before, as I have also told you in time past, that they which do such things shall not inherit the Kingdom of God▪ 1 Thess. 4. 3. For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should abstain from fornication: that everyone of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the lust of concupiscence, as the Gentiles which know not God. See also Col. 3. 5, 6. Heb. 13. 4. Marriage is honorable, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge. Rev. 21. 8. The abominable—and whoremongers—shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone. Rev. 22. 15. For without are dogs, and sorcerers, and whoremongers, and murderers —Jude 7. Even as Sodom and Gomorrah and the Cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set for an example suffering the vengeance of eternal fire. I shall add no more lest I be tedious.
§. 3. 2. Besides Scripture God hath planted in nature a special pudor and modesty to restrain this sin: and they that commit it do violate the Law of Nature, and sin against a witness and condemner that is within them. And scarce any one of them ever committeth it boldly, quietly and fearlessly, till first they have hardened their hearts and seared their consciences and overcome the light of nature, by frequent willful sinning. Nature hideth the obscene parts, and teacheth man to blush at the mention of anything that is beyond the bounds of modesty. Say not that it is mere custom; for the vitiated nature of man is not so over precise, nor the villainy of the world so rare and modest, but before this day, it had quite banished all restraints of this sin, above most others, if they could have done it, and if God had not written the Law which condemneth it, very deep in nature, with almost indelible Characters. So that in despite of the horrid wickedness of the earth, though mankind be almost universally inclined to lust, yet there be universally Laws and Customs restraining it, so that except a very few Savages and Cannibals like beasts, there is no Nation on the earth where filthiness is not a shame, and modesty layeth not some rebukes upon uncleanness. Ask no further then for a Law, when thy Nature itself is a Law against it. And the better any man is, the more doth he abhor the lusts of uncleanness. So that among Saints, saith the Apostle, it is not to be named (that is, not without need and detestation) Ephes. 5. 3. & v. 12. For it is a shame even to speak of those things that are done of them in secret. And when drunkenness had uncovered the shame of Noah, his Son Cham is cursed for beholding it, and the other Sons blest for their modest and reverent covering him.
§. 4. 3. And that God hath not put this Law into man's nature without very great cause, albeit the Implicite belief and submission due to him, should satisfy us, though we knew not the causes particularly, yet much of them is notorious to common observation: As that if God had not restrained lust by Laws, it would have made the female sex most contemptible and miserable, and used worse by men than dogs are. For first rapes and violence would deflowre them, because they are too weak to make resistance: And if that had been restrained, yet the lust of men would have been unsatisfied, and most would have grown weary of the same woman whom they had abused, and taken another; at least when she grew old they would choose a younger, and so the aged women would be the most calamitous creatures upon earth: Besides that lust is addicted to variety, and groweth weary of the same; the fallings out between men and women, and the sicknesses that make their persons less pleasing, and age and other accidents, would expose them almost all to utter misery. And men would be Law-makers, and therefore would make no Laws for their relief, but what consisted with their lusts and ends. So that half the world would have been ruined, had it not been for the Laws of matrimony, and such other as restrain the lusts of men.
§. 5. 4. Also there would be a confused mixture in procreation, and no men would well know what children are their own: which is worse than not to know their Lands or Houses.
§. 6. 5. Hereby all natural affection would be diminished or extinguished: As the love of Husband and Wife, so the Love between Fathers and Children would be diminished.
§. 7. 6. And consequently the due education of children would be hindered, or utterly overthrown: The mothers that should first take care of them, would be disabled and turned away, that fresh harlots might be received, who would hate the offspring of the former: So that by this means the world and all societies and civility would be ruined, and men would be made worse than bruits, whom nature hath either better taught, or else made for them some other supply. Learning, Religion, and civility would be all in a manner extinct, as we see they are among those few savage Cannibals that are under no restraint: For how much all these depend upon education, experience telleth us: In a word this confusion in procreation, would introduce such confusion in men's hearts, and families and all societies, by corrupting and destroying necessary affection and education, that it would be the greatest plague imaginable to mankind, and make the world so base and beastly that to destroy mankind from off the earth would seem much more desirable. Judge then whether God should have left men's Lusts unrestrained.
§. 8. Object. But (you will say) there might have been some moderate restraint to a certain number, as it is with the Mohammedans, without so much strictness as Christ doth use.
Answ. That this strictness is necessary, and is an excellency in God's law, appeareth thus. 1. By the greatness of the mischief which else would follow: To be remiss in preventing such a confusion in the world, would be an enmity to the world. 2. In that man's nature is so violently inclined to break over, that if the hedge were not close there were no sufficient restraining them; they would quickly run out at a little gap. 3. The wiser and the better any nation or persons are, even among the Heathens, the more fully do they consent to the strictness of God's Laws. 4. The cleanest sort of bruits themselves are taught by nature to be as strict in their copulations: Though it be otherwise with the mere terrestrial beasts and birds, yet the aërial go by couples: Those that are called the fowls of the Heavens, that fly in the air, are commonly taught this chastity by nature; as if God would not have lust come near to Heaven. 5. The families of the Mohammedans that have more wives than one, do show the mischief of it in the effects, in the hatred and disagreement of their wives, and the great slavery that women are kept in; making them like slaves that they may keep them quiet: And when women are thus enslaved, who have so great a part in the education of children, by which all virtue and civility are maintained in the world, it must needs tend to the debasing and brutifying of mankind.
§. 9. 7. Children being the pretiousest of all our treasure, it is necessary that the strictest Laws be made for the securing of their good education and their welfare. If it shall be treason to debase or counterfeit the Kings coin, and if men must be hanged for robbing you of your goods or money, and the Laws are not thought too strict that are made to secure your estates; how much more is it necessary that the Laws be strict against the vitiating of mankind, and against the debasement of your image on your children, and against that which tendeth to the extirpation of all virtue, and the ruin of all societies and souls.
§. 10. 8. God will have a holy seed in the world, that shall bear his image of holiness, and therefore he will have all means fitted thereunto: Bruitish promiscuous generation tendeth to the production of a brutish seed: And though the word preached is the means of sanctifying those that remain unsanctified from their youth; yet a holy marriage and holy dedication of children to God, and holy education of them, are the former means, which God would not have neglected or corrupted, and to which he promiseth his blessing: As you may see, 1 Cor. 7. 14. Mal. 2. 15. Did not he make one? Yet had he the residue of the spirit: And wherefore one? That he might seek a godly seed: Therefore take heed to your spirit, and let none deal treacherously against the wife of his youth: For the Lord bateth putting away.
§. 11. 9. Yea lust corrupteth the mind of the person himself, if it be not very much restrained and moderated. It turneth it from the only excellent pleasure, by the force of that brutish kind of pleasure. It carrieth away the thoughts; and distempereth the passions, and corrupteth the fantasy, and thereby doth easily corrupt the intellect and heart. Pleasure is so much of the End of man, which his Nature leadeth him to desire, that the chief thing in the world to make a man Good and Happy is to engage his heart to those Pleasures which are Good, and make men Happy: And the chief thing to make him Bad and Miserable, is to engage him in the pleasures which make men Bad and end in Misery. And the principal thing by which you may know yourselves or others, what you are, is to know what your pleasures are, or at least, what you choose and desire for your pleasure. If the Body rule the Soul you are brutish, and shall be destroyed: If the Soul rule the Body, you live according to true human nature and the ends of your creation. If the Pleasures of the Body are the predominant pleasures which you are most addicted to, then the Body ruleth the Soul, and you shall perish as Traitors to God, that debase his Image, and turn man into Beast, Rom. 8. 13. If the Pleasure of the Soul be your most predominant pleasure, which you are most addicted to (though you attain as yet but little of it) then the Soul doth Rule the Body, and you live like men: And this cannot well be till Faith show the Soul those higher Pleasures in God and everlasting Glory, which may carry it above all fleshly pleasures. By all this set together you may easily perceive, that the way of the Devil to corrupt and damn men, is to keep them from faith, that they may have no Heavenly Spiritual pleasure, and to strengthen sensuality and give them their fill of fleshly pleasures to imprison their minds that they may ascend no higher: And that the way to sanctify and save men, is to help them by faith to Heavenly pleasure, and to abate and keep under that fleshly pleasure that would draw down their minds▪ And by this you may see how to understand the doctrine of mortification and taming the body, and abstaining from the pleasures of the flesh: And you may now understand what personal mischief Lust doth to the soul.
§. 12. 10. Your own experience and consciences will tell you, that if it be not exceedingly moderated, it unfitteth you for every holy duty! You are unfit to meditate on God, or to pray to him, or to receive his word, or sacrament: And therefore nature teacheth those that meddle with holy things to be more continent than others; which Scripture also secondeth▪ 1 Sam. 21. 4, 5. Such sensual things and sacred things do not well agree too near.
§. 13. 11. And as by all this you see sufficient cause, why God should make stricter Laws for the bridling of Lust, than fleshly lustful persons like; so when his Laws are broken by the unclean, it is a sin that Conscience (till it be quite debauched) doth deeply accuse the guilty for, and beareth a very clear testimony against: O the unquietness! the horror! the despair that I have known many persons in, even for the sin of self-pollution that never proceeded to fornication! And how many adulterers and fornicators have we known that have lived and died in despair, and some of them hanged themselves! Conscience will condemn this sin with a heavy condemnation, till custom or infidelity have utterly seared it.
§. 14. 12. And it is also very observable, that when men have once mastered conscience in this point, and reconciled it to this sin of fornication, it's an hundred to one that they are utterly hardened in all abomination, and scarce make conscience of any other villainy whatsoever! If once fornication go for nothing, or a small matter with them, usually all other sin is with them of the same account: If they have but an equal temptation to it, lying, and swearing, and perjury, and theft, yea and murder, and treason would seem small too: I never knew any one of these but he was reconcilable and prepared for any villainy that the Devil set him upon: And if I know such a man, I would no more trust him, than I would trust a man that wants nothing but Interest and Opportunity to commit any heinous sin that you can name. Though I confess I have known divers of the former sort, that have committed this sin under horror and despair, that have retained some good in other points, and have been recovered; yea of this later sort, that have reconciled their Consciences to fornication, I never knew one that was recovered, or that retained anything of Conscience or honesty, but so much of the show of it as their Pride and worldly interest commanded them: and they were malignant enemies of goodness in others, and lived according to the unclean spirit which possessed them. They are terrible words, Prov. 2. 18, 19. For her house inclineth unto death, and her paths unto the dead: None that go unto her return again, neither take they hold on the paths of life. Age keepeth them from actual filthiness and lust (and so may Hell; for there is no fornication): but they retain their debauched seared Consciences.
§. 15. 13. And it is the greater sin because it is not committed alone; but the Devil taketh them by couples: Lust inflameth lust: And the fuel set together makes the greatest flame: Thou art guilty of the sin of thy wretched companion, as well as of thine own.
§. 16. 14. Lastly the miserable effects of it, and the punishments that in this life have attended it, do tell us how God accounteth of the sin; It hath ruined persons, families and Kingdoms: And God hath born his testimony against it, by many signal judgments, which all Histories almost acquaint you with. As there is scarce any sin that the New-testament more frequently and bitterly condemneth, (as you may see in Paul's Epistles, 2 Pet. 2. Iud &c.) so there are not many that God's providence more frequently pursueth with shame and misery on earth: And in the latter end of the world, God hath added one concomitant plague not known before, called commonly, the Lues Venerea, the Venereous Pox; so that many of the most brutish sort, go about stigmatized with a mark of God's vengeance, the prognostic or warning of a heavier vengeance. And there is none of them all (that by great Repentance be not made new creatures) but leave an infamous name and memory, when they are dead, (if their sin was publicly known) Let them be never so great, and never so gallant, victorious, successful, liberal, and flattered or applauded while they lived, God ordereth it so, that Truth shall ordinarily prevail, with the Historians that write of them when they are dead; and with all sober men, their names rot and stink, as well as their bodies: Prov. 10. 7. The memory of the just is blessed, but the name of the wicked shall rot. So much of the Greatness of the sin. Boniface Arch-Bishop of Mainz writing to Ethilbald an English King that was a fornicator, Epist. 19 saith [Fornication is a reproach not only anong Christians, but Pagans—For in old Saxony, if a virgin had thus stained her Fathers house, or a married woman, breaking the marriage covenant had committed adultery, sometime they force her to hang herself with her own hand, and over her ashes when she is burnt, they hang the fornicator. Sometimes they gather a band of women, they lead her about scourging her with rods; and cutting off her clothes at the girdle, and with small knives cutting and pricking all her body, they send her from Village to Village thus bloody and mangled with little wounds; And so more and more, (incited by a zeal for chastity) do meet her and scourge her again, till they leave her either dead, or scarce alive; that others may fear adultery and luxury: And the Wineds which is the filthiest and worst sort of men, do keep the love of Matrimony with so great a zeal, that the woman will refuse to live when her husband is dead: And after some reproofs of the fornicating King, he addeth these further stories [ Ceolred your Highness predecessor, as they witness who were present, he being splendidly banqueting with his Earls, was by the evil spirit that drew him to violate God's Law, suddenly distracted in his sin; so that without repentance and confession, being raging mad and talking with the Devil, and abhominating God's Priests, he departed out of this life, no doubt to the torments of Hell. And Osred (King of the Deiri and Bernicii ) the spirit of luxury carried in fornication and defiling the sacred virgins in the Monasteries, till such time as by a vile and base kind of death, he lost his glorious Kingdom, together with his youthful and luxurious life. Wherefore, most dear son, take heed of the ditch into which thou hast seen others fall before thee—] Vid. Auct. Bib. Pat. To. 2. pag. 55. 56.
And how great sufferings was laid on Priests, Monks and Nuns that had committed fornication, by several years imprisonment and scourging, see ib. pag. 84. in an edict of Carloman by the advice of a Council of Bishops.
And Epist. 85. p. 87. Bonific. writeth to Lullo that he was fain to suffer a Priest to officiate, Baptize, Pray, &c. that had long ago committed fornication, because there was none but he alone to be had in all the country, and he thought it better to venture that one man's soul than let all the people perish, and desireth Lullo's counsel in it. By all which we may see how heinous a sin fornication was then judged.
Object. But ( say the filthy ones ), did not David commit the sin of Adultery? Did not God permit them many Wives among the Jews? How many had Solomon? Therefore this is no such great sin as you pretend: Thus every filthiness a little while will plead for itself.
Answ. David did sin: And is the sin ever the less for that? It's easier forbear it, than undergo the tears and sorrows which David did endure for his sin! Besides the bitterness of his soul for it, his son Absalom rebelleth and driveth him out of his Kingdom, and his own wives are openly defiled: And yet God leaveth it as a perpetual blot upon his name. Solomon's sin was so great that it almost ruined him and his Kingdom: Though experience caused him to say more against it, than is said in the Old-Testament by any other, yet it is a controversy among Divines whether he was ever recovered and saved: And ten tribes of the twelve were therefore taken from his line, and given to Jeroboam. And is this any encouragement to you to imitate him? Christ telleth you in the case of divorcement, that God permitted (not allowed, but forbore ) some such sins in the Jews because of the Hardness of their hearts, Mar. 10. 5. but from the beginning it was not so; but one man and one woman were conjoined in the primitive institution. And the special reason why plurality was connived at among the Jews, was for the fuller peopling of the Nation; they being the only covenanted people of God, and being few among encompassing enemies, and being separated from the people of the earth, their strength and safety and glory lay much on their increased number, and therefore some inordinacie was connived at for their multiplication, but never absolutely allowed and approved of. And yet fornication is punished severely; and Adultery with Death.
II. The Directions against fornication.
§. 18. Direct. 1. If you would avoid uncleanness, avoid the things that dispose you to it, as Gluttony, or fullness of diet, and pampering the flesh; Idleness, and other things mentioned under the next Title, of subduing lust. The abating of the filthy Desires is the surest way to prevent the filthy act: which may be done, if you are but willing▪
§. 19. Direct. 2. Avoid the present Temptations: Go not where the snare lieth without necessity: Abhor the Devils bellows that blow up the fire of lust; such as enticing apparel, filthy talk, and fights, of which more also under the next Title.
§. 20. Direct. 3. Carefully avoid all opportunity of sinning. Come not near the door of her house, saith Solomon Prov. 5. 8. Avoid the company of the person thou art in danger of: Come not where she is: This thou canst do if thou art willing: None will force thee: If thou wilt go seek for a thief, no wonder if thou be robbed. If thou wilt go seek fire to put in the thatch, no wonder if thy house be burnt. The Devil will sufficiently play the Tempter; Thou needest not help him: thats his part; leave it to himself: It's thy part to watch against him: And he will find thee work; If thou watch as narrowly and constantly as thou canst, it's well if thou escape. As thou lovest thy soul, avoid all opportunities of sinning: Make it impossible to thyself: Much of thy safety lieth in this point. Never be in secret company with her thou art in danger of; but either not at all, or only in the sight of others: Especially contrive not such opportunities; as to be together in the night, in the dark, or on the Lord's-day when others are at Church (one of the Devils seasons for such works) or any such opportunity leisure and secrecy: For opportunity itself is a strong temptation: As it is the way to make a Thief, to set money in his way, or so to trust him as that he can easily deceive or rob you and never be discovered; so it is the way to make yourself unclean to get such an opportunity of sinning, that you may easily do it without any probability of impediment or discovery from men. The chief point in all the art or watch is, to keep far enough off. If you touch the pitch you will be defiled. Whosoever toucheth her shall not be innocent, Prov. 6. 29. Can a man take fire in his bosom, and his clothes not be burnt? Can one go upon hot coals and his feet not be burnt; so he that goeth in to his neighbors wife, verse. 27, 28. Bring not the fire and the gunpowder to near. If thou canst not keep at a distance, nor forbear the presence of the bait, thou art not like to forbear the sin.
§. 21. Direct. 4. Reverence thy own Conscience: Mark what it speaketh now, for it will shortly speak it in a more terrible manner: Hear it voluntarily; for it is terrible to hear it when thou canst not resist: Treat with Conscience in the way while it is reconcilable: for thou knowest not how terrible a Tormenter it is. I doubt not but it hath given thee some gripes for thy very lust, before it ever came to practice: But the forest of its gripes now, are but like the playing of the Cat with the mouse, before the killing gripe is given. Doth no man see thee? Conscience seeth thee: And thou art a wretch indeed if thou reverence not Conscience more than man: As Chrysostom saith [ Suppose no man know the crime but himself and the woman with whom he did commit it! How will he • ear the rebukes of Conscience; when he carrieth about with him so sharp and bitter an accuser? For no man can over-run himself; and no man can avoid the sentence of this court within him: It is a tribunal not to be corrupted with money, nor perverted by flattery; for it is divine, being placed in the soul by God himself: The less the Adulterer now feeleth it, the more he hasteneth to the perdition of his soul. ] Dost thou not feel a sentence p • st within thee! A terrible sentence; telling thee of the wrath of a Revenging God? Bless God that it is not yet an irreversible sentence; but sue o • t thy pardon quickly l • st it come to that. Dost thou not feel, that thou art afraid and ashamed to pray or to address thyself to God? Much more afraid to think of dying, and appearing before him? If thy sin make thee ready to fly from him now, if thou knewest how, canst thou look him in the face at last; or canst thou hope to stand with comfort at his bar? Art thou fit to live in Heaven with him, that makest thyself unfit to pray to him? Even lawful procreation (as I said before) doth blush to come too near to holy exercises: As Chrysostom saith [ Die quo liberis operam dedisti legitime, quamvis crimen illud non sit, orare tamen n • n audes—Quod si ab incontaminato lecto resurgens times? ad orandum accedere, quum in Diaboli lecto s • s, our horrible Dei nomen audes invocare. ] Conscience is a better friend to thee than thou dost imagine when it would reclaim thee from thy sin: And will be a sharper enemy than thou canst now imagine, if thou obey it not.
§. 22. Direct. 5. Suppose thou sawest written upon the door of the house or chamber where thou enterest to sin, Whoremongers and Adulterers God will judge: Heb. 13. 4. And write that, or such sentences upon thy Chamber door, or at least upon thy heart. Keep thy eye upon the terrible threatenings of the dreadful God. Darest thou sin, when vengeance is at thy back? Will not the thought of Hell-fire quench the fire of lust, or restrain thee from thy presumptuous sin? Dost thou not say with Joseph, How shall I do this great wickedness and sin against God? As it is written of a chaste woman that being tempted by a fornicator, wisht him first at her request to hold his finger in the fire: and when he refused, answered him, why then should I burn in Hell to satisfy you? So ask thyself, can I easilier overcome the flames of Hell, than the flames of lust?
§. 23. Direct. 6. Remember man that God stands by: If he were not there, thou couldst not be there: for in him thou livest, and movest and art: He that made the eye must see, and he that made the light and darkness, doth see as well in the dark as in the light: If thou imagine that he is absent or ignorant thou believest not that he is God: For an absent and ignorant God, is no God. And darest thou, I say darest thou, commit such a villainy and God behold thee? what that which thou wouldst be ashamed a Child should see? which thou wouldst not do if a mortal man stood by? Dost thou think that thy locks, or secrecy or darkness, have darkenned or shut out God? Dost thou not know that he seeth not only within thy Curtains, but within thy heart? O what a hardened heart hast thou that in the sight of God, thy maker and thy judge, darest do such wickedness. Ask thy Conscience man, would I do this if I were to die tomorrow, and go to God? would I do this it I saw God, yea or but an Angel in the room? If not, shouldst thou do it, when God is as sure there as if thou sawest him? O remember man that he is a Holy God, and hateth uncleanness, and that he is a consuming fire? Heb. 12. 29.
§. 24. Direct. 7. Suppose all the while that thou sawest the Devil opening thee the door, and bringing thee thy mate, and driving on the match, and persuading thee to the sin: What if he appeared to thee openly to play his part, as sure as he now playeth it unseen? would not thy lust be cooled? and would not the Devil cure the disease which he hath excited in thee? why then dost thou obey him now, when he is as certainly the instigator as if thou sawest him? why man, hast thou so little Reason, that seeing and not seeing will make so great a difference with thee? what if thou wert blind, wouldst thou play the Fornicator before all the company, because thou seest them not? when thou knowest they are there? If thou know anything, thou knowest God is there: and thou mayest feel by the temptation that Satan is in it. Wilt thou not be ruled by the Laws, unless thou see the King? wilt thou not fear the infection of the Plague unless thou see it? Use thy Reason for thy soul as well as for thy Body; and do in the case as thou wouldst do if thou saw the Devil tempting thee, and Christ forbidding thee.
§. 25. Direct. 8. If thou be unmarryed marry, if easier remedies will not serve. It is better to marry than to burn, 1 Cor. 7. 9. It is God's Ordinance partly for this end. Marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled, Heb. 13. 4. It is a resemblance of Christ's Union with his Church, and is sanctified to believers, Eph. 5. 1 Cor. 7. Perhaps it may cast thee upon great troubles in the world, if thou be unready for that state (as it is with Apprentices): Forbear then thy sin at easier rates, or else the lawful means must be used though it undo thee. Its better thy Body be undone than thy soul, if thou wilt needest have it to be one of them: But if thou be married already thou art a monster and not a man, if the remedy prevail not with thee: But yet the other directions may be also serviceable to thee.
§. 26. Direct. 9. If less means prev • il not open thy case to some able faithful friend, and engage them to wat • h ever thee▪ and tell them when thou art most endangered by the temptation: This will shame thee from the sin, and lay more engagements on thee to forbear it. If thou tell thy friend, Now I am tempted to the sin, and now I am going to it; he will quickly stop thee: Break thy secrecy, and thou losest thy opportunity. Thou canst do this if thou be willing: If ever thy Conscience prevail so far with thee, as to resolve against thy sin, or to be willing to escape, then take the time while Conscience is awake, and go tell thy friend: And tell him who it is that is thy wicked companion, and let him know all thy haunts, that he may know the better how to help thee. Dost thou say, that this will shame thee? It will do so to him that its known to: But that is the benefit of it, and thats the reason I advise thee to it, that shame may help to save thy soul. If thou go on, the sin will both shame and damn thee: and a greater • hame than this is a gentle remedy in so foul and dangerous a disease.
§. 27. Direct. 10. Therefore, if yet all this will not serve turn, Tell it to many, yea rather tell it all the Town than not be • ured: And then the public shame will do much more: Confess it to thy Pastor, and desire him • penly to beg the prayers of the Congregation for thy pardon and recovery. Begin thus to crave the fruit of Church Discipline thyself; so far shouldst thou be from flying from it, and sp • rning against it as the desperate hardened sinners do. If thou say, This is a hard lesson, remember that the suffering of Hell is harder. Do not say that I wrong thee, by putting thee upon scandal and open shame: It is thou that puttest thyself upon it, by making it necessary, and refusing all easier remedies. I put thee on it, but on supposition that thou wilt not be easilier cured: Almost as Christ puts thee upon cutting off a right hand, or plucking out a right eye lest all the body be cast into hell: This is not the way that he commandeth thee first to take: he would have thee avoid the need of it: but he tells thee that its better do so than worse; and that this is an easy suffering in comparison of Hell. And so I advise thee, if thou love thy credit, forbear thy sin in a cheaper way; but if thou wilt not do so, take this way rather than damn thy soul. If the shame of all the Town be upon thee, and the Boys should hoot after thee in the Streets, if it would drive thee from thy sin, how easy were thy suffering in comparison of what it is like to be? Concealment is Satan's great advantage. It would be hard for thee to sin thus if it were but opened.
Tit. 2. Directions against inward filthy Lusts.
§. 1. Direct. 1. BEcause with most the temperature of the Body hath a great hand in this sin, your first care must be about the body to reduce it unto a temper less inclined to lust: And here the chief remedy is fasting and much abstinence. And this may the better be born, because for the most part it is persons so strong as to be able to endure it that are under this temptation. If your Temptation be not strong, the less abstinence from meat and drink may serve turn: (For I I would prescribe you no stronger Physic than is needful to cure your disease.) But if it be violent and lesser means will not prevail, its better your bodies be somewhat weakened, than your souls corrupted and undone. Therefore in this case, 1. Eat no Breakfast nor Suppers; but one meal a day, unless a bit or two of Bread and a sup or two of Water in the morning, and yet not too full a dinner, and nothing at night. 2. Drink no Wine or strong Drink, but Water if the stomach can bear it without sickness, (and usually in such hot bodies it is healthfuller than Beer). 3 Eat no hot Spices or strong or heating or windy meats: Eat Lettuce and such cooling Herbs. 4. If need require it, be often let blood, or purged with such purges as copiously evacuate serosity, and not only irritate. 5. And oft bath in cold Water. But the Physician should be advised with, that they may be safely done.
§. 2. If you think this course too dear a cure, and had rather cherish your flesh and lust, you are not the persons that I am now Directing; for I speak to such only as are willing to be cured, and to use the necessary means that they may be cured? If you be not brought to this, your Conscience had need of better awakening. I am sure Christ saith that when the Bridegroom was taken from them, his Disciples should fast, Mar. 2. 19, 20. And even painful Paul was in fasting often, 2 Cor. 6. 5. & 11. 27. and kept under his body and brought it into subjection, lest by any means when he had Preached to others himself should be a castaway, 1 Cor. 9. 27. And I am sure that the ancient Christians that lived in solitude and eat many of them nothing but bread and water, or meaner fare than bread, did not think this cure too dear. Yea smaller necessities than this engaged them in fasting, 1 Cor. 7. 5. This unclean Devil will scarcely be cast out but by prayer and fasting, Mar. 9. 29.
§. 3. And I must tell you that Fulness doth naturally cherish Lust, as fuel doth the fire. Fulness of bread prepared the Sodomites for their filthy lusts. Its no more wonder that a stuffed paunch hath a lustful fury, than that the water runs into the Pipes when the Cistern is full, or than it is wonder to see a dunghill bear weeds, or a Carrion to be full of crawling Magots. Plutarch speaks of a Spartan that being asked why Lycurgus made no Law against Adultery, answered, There are no Adulterers with us: But saith the other, what if there should be any? saith the Spartan, Then be is to pay an Ox so great as shall stand on this side the River Tayget and drink of the River Eurota: saith the other, that is imp • ssible: And saith the Spartan Et quo pacto Spartae existat adulter in quâ divitiae, deliciae, & corporis adscititius cultus probro habentur? & contra verecundia, modestia, ac obedientiae Magistratibus debitae observatio decori laudi{que} dantur? that is, And how can there be an Adulterer at Sparta, where Riches, delights and strange attire or ornament are a disgrace or reproach? and contrarily shamefaceness, modesty and the observance of due obedience to Magistrates is an honor and praise? And if Rich men think it their privilege to fare sumptuously and satisfy their appetites, they must take it for their privilege to feed their lust? But God giveth no man plenty for such uses; nor is it any excuse for eating and drinking much, because you have much, no more than it would be to your Cooks to put much Salt in your meat more than in poorer men's, because you have more. He that observeth the filthy and and pernicious effects of that Gluttony which is accounted Rich men's honor and felicity, will never envy them that miserable happiness, but say rather as Antisthenes, Hostium filiis contingat in deliciis vivere: Let it befall the Children of my enemies to live in delights: but that the curse is too heavy for a Christian to use to any of his enemies. But for himself he must remember that he is the Servant of a Holy God, and hath a Holy work to do, and Holy sacrifices to offer to him, and therefore must not pamper his flesh, as if he were preparing a sacrifice for Venus. For as 1 Thes. 4. 3, 4. This is the will of God, even your sanctification, that you abstain from fornication, that everyone of you should know how to possess his vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the lust of concupiscence as the Gentiles that know not God. As the Philosopher answered Antigonus when he asked him whether he should go to a merry feast that he was invited to, Thou art the Son of a King, so it is answer enough for a Christian against Temptations to voluptuousness, I am the Son of the most Holy God. If thou be invited to feasts where urgency or allurement is like to make thee break thy bounds, go not, or go back when thou feest the bait. As Epaminondas in Plutarch finding excess at a feast that he was invited to, went away when he saw it, saying, Ego te sacrificare, non lascivire putaram: so say thou, I came to dine and not to be wanton or luxurious; to support my body for duty, and not to pamper it for lust. Plutarch marvaileth at the folly of those men that detest the charms of witches lest they hurt them, and fear not but love the charms of dishes which hurt a thousand where witches hurt one. Withdraw the fuel of excess and the fire of lust will of itself go out: or at least this enemy must be besieged and starved out, when it cannot be conquered by storm.
§. 4. Direct. 2. Take heed of Idleness, and be wholly taken up in diligent business, of your lawful callings, when you are not exercised in the more immediate service of God. David in his idleness or vacancy catched those sparks of lust, which in his troubles and military life he was preserved from. Idleness is the soil, the culture, and the opportunity of Lust. The idle person goeth to School to the Devil: He sets all other employment aside, that the Devil may have time to teach him and treat with him and solicit him to evil: Do you wonder that he is thinking on lustful objects, or that he is taken up in feasting and drinking, in chambering and wantonness? why he hath nothing else to do. Whereas a laborious diligent person hath a body subdued and hardened against the mollities, the effeminateness of the wanton; and a mind employed and taken up with better things: Leave thy body and mind no leisure to think of tempting filthy objects, or to look after them. As Jerome saith, Facito aliquid operis, ut semper Diabolus inveniat te occupatum: Be still doing some work that the Devil may always find thee busy. And do not for thy fleshly ease remit thy labors and indulge thy flesh. Rise early and go late to bed, and put thyself upon a Necessity of diligence all the day: undertake and engage thyself, in as much business as thou art able to go through, that if thou wouldst, thou mayest not be able to give any indulgence to the flesh: For if thou be not still pressed by necessity, Lust will serve itself by idleness, and the flesh will lie down if it feel not the spur: Therefore are the Rich and idle more lustful and filthy than the poor laboring people. The same Bed is the place of sloth and Lust. Hear a Heathen and refuse not to imitate him. Seneca saith, [ No day passeth me in idleness: Part of the night I reserve for studies: I do not purposely set myself to sleep, but yield to it when it overcometh me: and when my eyes are wearied with watching, and are falling, I hold them to their work:—I had rather it went ill with me than delicately or tenderly. If thou be delicate or tender the mind by little and little is effeminate, and is dissolved into the similitude of the idleness and sloth in which it lieth. I sleep very little, and take but a short nap: It sufficeth me to have ceased watching: sometimes I know that I slept, sometime I do but suspect it. ] Aristotle saith, Nature made nothing to be idle: And Plato calls Idleness the Plague of Mortals. If thon be resolved to serve and please thy flesh, then never ask advice against thy lust; for its part of the▪ pleasure of it: and then no wonder if thou refuse this Physic as too bitter, and the remedy as too dear: But if thou be resolved to be cured and to be saved, stick not at the pains: give up thyself totally to thy business, and lust will die for want of food.
§. 5. Direct. 3. If thou wouldst be free from lust, keep far enough from the tempting object. If possible dwell not in the house with any person that thou feelest thyself endangered by: If that be not possible avoid their company; especially in private: Abhor all lascivious and immodest actions. Dost thou give thyself the liberty of wanton dalliance, and lustful embracements, and yet think to be free from lust? wilt thou put thy hand into the fire when thou art afraid of being burnt? either thou hast the power of thy own heart, or thou hast not: If thou hast, why dost thou not quench thy lust? If thou hast not, why dost thou cast it upon greater temptations, and put it farther out of thy power than it is? Fly from a tempting object for thy safety, as thou wouldst fly from an enemy for thy life. These Loving enemies are more dangerous than hating enemies: They get the Key of our hearts, and come in and steal our treasure with our consent, or without resistance; when an open enemy is suspected and shut out.
§ 6. Direct. 4. Command thy Eyes, and as Job 31. 1. make a Covenant with them, that thou mayest not think on tempting objects: Shut these Windows and thou preservest thy heart. Gaze not upon any alluring object. A look hath kindled that fire of Lust in many a heart, that hath ended in the fire of Hell. Its easier to stop lust at these outward doors, than drive it out when it hath tainted the heart. If thou canst not do this much, how canst thou do more? An ungoverned eye fetcheth fire to burn the soul that should have governed it.
§. 7. Direct. 5. Linger not in the pleasant snares of lust, if thou feel but the least beginnings of it: but quickly cast water on the first discerned spark, before it break out into a flame. The Amorous Poet can teach you this, Ovid. de Rem. Am. If ever delay be dangerous it is here. For delay will occasion such engagements to sin, that you must come off at a far dearer rate. If the meat be undigestible, its best not look on it: its the next best, not to touch or taste it; but if once it go down, it will cost you sickness and pain to get it up again; and if you do not, you perish by it.
§. 8. Direct. 6. Abhor lascivious immodest speech: As such words come from either vain or filthy hearts, and show the absence of the fear of God, so they tend to make the hearer like the speaker. And if thy ears grow but patient and reconcilable to such discourse, thou hast lost much of thy innocence already. Christians must abhor the mentioning of such filthy sins, in any other manner, but such as tends to bring the hearers to abhor them. Be not deceived; evil words corrupt good manners. 1 Cor. 15. 33. Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace to the hearers, and grieve not the holy spirit of God. Corrupt communication is rotten stinking communication: and none but Dogs and Crows love Carrion. But Fornication and all uncleanness and ( 〈 in non-Latin alphabet 〉 ) inordinate lust or luxury, let it not be once named among you, as becometh Saints; neither filthiness nor foolish talking nor jesting, &c.
§. 9. Direct. 7. Abhor the covering of filthy lust with handsome names to make it the more acceptable. Their discourse is more dangerous that would thus dress up an ugly lust, than theirs that speak of it in n • sty language. Thus among the brutish party, it goeth under the names of Love, and having a Mistress, and Courting, and such like. But (as one saith thats cited in Stobaeus): It is doubled Lust that is commonly called Love, and doubled Love is stark madness. If filthiness will walk abroad, let it go for filthiness, and appear as it is.
§. 10. Direct. 8. Avoid the Reading of Romances and Love stories: which are the Library of Venus; or the Devils Books of the Lustful art; to cover over filthiness with cleanly names, and bewitch the fantasies of fools with fine words: To make men conceive of the ready way to Hell, under the notions and images of Excellency, Beauty, Love, Gallantry: And by representing strong and amorous passions, to stir up the same passions in the Reader. As he that will needs read a Conjuring Book, is well enough served if Devils come about his ears, so he that will needs read such Romances and other Books of the Burning art, it is just with God to suffer an unclean Devil to possess them, and to suffer them to catch the Feaver of Lust, which may not only burn up the heart, but cause that pernicious deliration in the brain, which is the ordinary symptom of it.
§. 11. Direct. 9. Avoid all wanton Stage-plays and Dancings, which either cover the odiousness of lust, or produce temptations to it. As God hath his preachers and holy assemblies and exercises, for the Communion of Saints and the stirring up of Love and holiness; so these are Satan's instruments and assemblies and exercises, for the communion of sinners, and for the stirring up of lust and filthiness. They that will go to the Devils Church deserve to be possessed with his Principles, and numbered with his Disciples. The ancient Christians were very severe against the seeing of these spectacula, shows or plays; especially in any of the Clergy.
§. 12. Direct. 10. Avoid all tempting unnecessary ornaments or attire, and the regarding or gazing on them upon others. It is a procacious lustful desire to seem comely and amiable, which is the common cause of this excess. The Folly or Lust or both, of fashionists and gaudy Gallants, is so conspicuous to all in their affected dress, that never did Pride more cross itself, than in such publications of such disgraceful folly or lust. They that take on them to be adversaries to lust, and yet are careful when they present themselves to sight, to appear in the most adorned manner, and do all that Harlots can do to make themselves a snare to fools, do put the charitable hard to it, whether to believe that it is their tongues or their backs that are the liar. As Jerome saith, Thou deservest Hell though none be the worse for thee: for thou broughtest the poison if there had been any to drink it. Let thy apparel be suited not only to thy rank but to thy disease. If thou be inclined to lust, go the more meanly clad thyself, and gaze not on the ornaments of others. Its folly indeed that will be enamored on the Tailors work: yet this is so common, that its frequently more the apparel than the person that • ntiseth first! and homely rags would have prevented the deceit: As the Poet saith [ Auferimur cultu: gemmis auro{que} teguntur Omnia: pars minima est ipsa puella sui. Ovid. de Remed. Am.
§. 13. Direct. 11. Think on thy tempting object as it is within, and as it shortly will appear without. How ordinary is it for that which you call Beauty to be the portion of a fool; and a fair skin to cover a silly childish peevish mind; and a soul that is enslaved to the Devil. And as Solomon saith, Prov 11. 22. As a jewel of Gold in a Swines snout, so is a fair woman without discretion. And will you lust after an such adorned thing? Think also what a dunghill of filth is covered with all those ornaments; that it would turn thy stomach if thou sawest what is within them. And think what a face that would be if it were but covered with the Pox? and what a face it will be when sickness or age hath consumed or wrinkled it: And think what thy admired Carkass will be when it hath lain a few days in the grave; Then thou wouldst have little mind of it? And how quickly will that be? O man, there is nothing truly amiable in the Creature, but the image of God; the wisdom and holiness and righteousness of the soul. Love this then, if thou wilt Love with wisdom, with purity and safety: For the Love of Purity is pure and safe.
§. 14. Direct. 12. Think on thy own death and how fast thou hastest to another world, Is a lustful heart a seemly temper for one that is ready to die, and ready to see God, and come into that world where there is nothing but pure and holy doth abide.
§. 15. Direct. 13. Consider well the tendency and fruits of lust, that it may still appear to your minds as ugly and terrible as it is indeed. 1. Think what a shame it is to the soul, that can no better rule the body, and that is so much defiled by its lusts. 2. Think what an unfit companion it is to lodge in the same heart with Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit; shall a member of Christ be thus polluted? shall the Temple of the Holy Ghost be thus turned into a Swine sty? Is lust fit to dwell with the Love of God? wilt thou entertain thy Lord with such odious company? what an unkindness and injury is this to God, that when he that dwelleth in the highest Heavens condescendeth to take up a dwelling in thy heart, thou shouldst bring these Toads and Snakes into the same room with him? Take heed lest he take it unkindly and be gone: He hath said he will dwell with the humble and contrite heart, but where said he, I will dwell in a lustful heart? 3. Think how unfit it makes thee for Prayer, or any holy address to God. What a shame and fear and deadness it casts upon thy spirit? 4. And think how it tends to worse. Lust tendeth to actual filthiness, and that to Hell: cherish not the Eggs if thou wouldst have none of the Brood: Its an easy step from a Lustful heart to a defiled body. and a shorter step thence to everlasting horror than you imagine: As St. James saith, [ Every man is tempted when he is drawn aside of his own lust and enticed; then when lust both conceived, it bringeth forth sin, and sin when it is finished bringeth forth death, Jam. 1. 13, 14. Gal. 6. 8. If ye sow to the flesh, of the flesh ye shall reap corruption. Remember that Lust is the spawn of sin, and sin is the way to Hell.
§. 16. Direct. 14. Be sure to keep up a holy constant Government over thy Thoughts. Suffer them not to go after tempting, filthy, sensual things. As soon as ever a thought of Lust comes into thy mind, abhor it and cast it out. Abundance of the cure and of thy safety lieth upon thy Thoughts. They that let their Thoughts run uncontrolled, and seed on filthiness, are already fornicators in the heart; and are hatching the Cockatrice Eggs; and no wonder if from Thoughts they proceed to deeds. O what a deal of uncleanness is committed by the Thoughts which people are little ashamed of because they are unseen of men! If the Thoughts of many were open to beholders, what wantonness and lust would appear in many adorned Sepulchers! Even in the time of holy Worship; when once such give the unclean spirit possession of their thoughts, how hardly is he cast out? they can scarce look a comely person in the face, without some vicious thought. If Jerome confess that in his Wilderness, his Thoughts were running among the Ladies at Rome; what may we think of them that feed such filthy Phantasies. Say not, you cannot rule your Thoughts. You can do much if you will, and more than you do: If money and honor can make an ungodly Preacher command his Thoughts to holy things, in the studies of Divinity through much of his life, you may see that your Thoughts are much in your power (but of this before).
§. 17. Direct. 15. If other means serve not, open thy case to some friend, and shame thyself to him, as I advised under the former Title. Confession and shame, and advise will help thee.
§. 18. Direct. 16. Above all go to Christ for help and beg his spirit, and give up thy Heart to better things: O if it were taken up with God and Heaven and the Holy life thats necessary thereto, these things are so Great and Holy and sweet, and of such concernment to thee, that they would leave little room for Lust within thee; and would make thee abhor it as contrary to those things which have thy heart. No such cure for any carnal Love as the Love of God; nor for fleshly lusts as a spiritual renewed Heavenly mind. Thou wouldst then tell Satan that God hath taken up all the room, and thy narrow Heart is too little for him alone; and that there is no room for lust or the thoughts that serve it. A true Conversion which turneth the heart to God, doth turn it from this with other sins, though some sparks may still be unextinguished: It was once noted that many turn from other sects to the Epicureans, but none from the Epicureans to any other sect: The reason was because nature is inclined to sensuality in all, and when it is confirmed by use and doctrine, Philosophy is too weak to master it: But Christ calleth and saveth Epicures, and Publicans and Harlots, and hath cleansed many such by his grace, which teacheth men to deny ungodliness and worldly lusts, and to live soberly righteously and godly in the world. Philostratus tells us of a sudden change upon one Isaeus, that turned him from Luxury to exceeding temperance: so that when one asked him, Is not yonder a handsome woman? he answered, The diseases of my eyes are cured: when they asked him which dish was the pleasantest, he answered, Desii curare; I have done regarding such things: and told them the reason that marvelled at his change, Because he found that he did but gather fruits out of Tantalus garden. They are deceitful lusts, Eph. 4. 22. And Satan himself will reproach thee forever, if he can deceive thee by them. As Alexander when he had taken Darius his gallant • y and sumptuous Houses and Furniture, reproaches him with it saying, Hoccine erat imperare? was this to rule? so Satan would show thee thy lusts and say, was this to be a Christian and seek salvation?
PART. VI. Directions against sinful Excess of Sleep.
§. 1. OF this something is said already, Chap. 5. Part 1. §. 51. and more afterwards in the Directions against Idleness. Therefore I shall say but little now: 1. I shall show you, when sleep is excessive: 2. Wherein the sinfulness of it consisteth: 3. What to do for the Cure of it.
§. 2. I. Sleep is given us for the necessary remission of the animal operations, and of the labor or motion of the exterior parts, by the quieting of the senses, or shutting them up; that the Natural and Vital operations may have the less disturbance. It is necessary, 1. To our Rest: 2. To Concoction: Therefore Weariness and want of Concoction are the chief indications, to tell us how much is needful for us. Sleep is sinfully excessive, 1. When it is Voluntarily more than is needful to our health. 2. When it is unseasonable, at forbidden times.
§. 3. It is not all weariness or sleepiness that maketh sleep lawful or needful: for some is contracted by laziness, and some by many diseases, and some by other constant causes which make men almost always weary. Nor is it all want of concoction that sleep is a remedy for: some may be caused by excess of eating which must be cured a better way, and many diseases may cause it which require other cure. Therefore none must indulge excess upon these pretences. Nor must a present sense of the pleasure of sleeping, or the displeasure of waking, be the judge: For sluggards may think they feel it do them good, and that early rising doth them hurt: but this good is but their pleasant ease, and this hurt is but a little trouble to their head, and eyes, and lazy flesh, just at the time. But Reason and experience must judge what Measure is best for your Health, and that you must not exceed: To some five hours is enough: To the ordinary sort of healthful persons six hours is enough: To many weak valetudinary persons seven hours is needful: To sick persons I am not to give Directions.
§. 4. 2. Sleep is excessive at that particular Time when it is unseasonable: As 1. When we are asleep when we should be doing some necessary business which calls for present dispatch. 2. Or when we should be hearing the Sermon, or praying, in public or private: In a word, when it puts by any greater duty which we should then perform. As when the Disciples slept when Christ was in his agony: Could ye not watch with me one hour? watch and pray that ye enter not into temptation: Matth. 26. 40, 41.
§. 5. It is a foppery and abuse of God and ourselves to think that the breaking of our sleep is a thing that of itself pleaseth God: or that rising to pray at midnight is more acceptable to God than at another hour: usually such rising to pray is sinful, 1. Because it is done in an erroneous conceit that God accepts it better than in the day time. 2. Because they waste time in dressing and undressing: 3. Or else hurt their health by cold in the Winter, and so lose more time than they redeem by shortening their lives. 4. And usually they are more drowsy and unfit. But to rise in the night to prayer is meet, on some extraordinary occasion that calls for it (as to pray with, or for a dying person, or such like); or when an extraordinary fervor and fitness prepareth us for it; and when we can stay up when we are up, and not lose time in going to bed again. But ordinarily that way is to be chosen that best Redeemeth time: and that is, to consider just how much sleep our health requireth, and to take it, if we can together without interruption, and to rise then and go about our duties. But those that cannot sleep in the Night, must redeem that Time as discretion shall direct them.
§. 6. It is the Voluntariness of the excess that the sinfulness principally consisteth in: And therefore the more voluntary the more sinful. In a Lethargy or Caros it is no sin: And when long watching, or some bodily weakness or distemper make it almost unavoidable, the sin is the smaller: Therefore in case of long watching and heaviness, Christ partly excused his Disciples, saying, The Spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak: Matth. 26. 41. But when it cometh from a flesh-pleasing sloth, or from a disregard of any holy exercise that you are about, it is a grievous sin. And though it be involuntary just at the time, and you say, I would fain forbear sleeping now if I could, yet if it be Voluntary remotely and in its Causes, it is your sin: You would now forbear sleeping; but you would not forbear that pampering your body, and stuffing your Guts which causeth it: you would not deny the flesh its ease to avoid it.
§. 7. II. The sinfulness of excess of sleep lieth in these particulars: 1. That it is a sinful wasting of every minute of that time which is consumed in it. And this is a very grievous thing, to a heart that is sensible of the preciousness of time: when we think how short our lives are, and how great our work is, it should tell us how great a sin it is, to cast away any of this little time, in needless sleep. And yet what abundance of it with many is thus spent. Almost half their whole lives is spent in bed, by many drones, that think they may sleep because they are Rich, and have not a necessity of laboring to supply their wants. I was never tempted, (that I remember) so much to grudge at God's natural ordering of man, in anything, as that we are fain to waste so much of our little time in sleep: nor was I ever tempted to grudge at my weakness so much on any account as this, that it deprived me of so much precious time, which else might have been used in some profitable work. The preciousness of Time makes excessive sleeping to be a great sin, according to the measure of the excess.
§. 8. 2. It is a neglect of all our powers and parts which should all that time be exercised. Reason is idle and buried all that while: All your wisdom and knowledge is of no use to you: All the learning of the greatest Scholar in the world, is of no more service than if he were illiterate; nor all the prudence and policy of the wisest, than if they were mere Idiots: All the strength and health or the strongest is of no more service than if they were sick; nor the skill of the greatest artist, than if he had never learnt his art: nor any of your limbs or senses, than if you were lame, or blind, of deaf, or senseless. And I leave it to any man's consideration and judgment, whether if Drunkenness be so odious a sin, because it depriveth a man voluntarily of the use of his Reason and parts, it must not be a very great sin to do the same by sleeping, by frequent, voluntary, excessive sleeping. For no man I think is Drunk so often as the sluggard is dead in sleep: Sluggards quite kill their Reason when most Drunkards do but maim it, or make it sick. Sluggards bury their wits and parts, usually ten times as long in the year, as the filthiest drunkards do. And hath God given you Reason, and parts, and strength for no better use, than to bury it for so considerable a part of your lives?
§. 9. 3. Excess of sleep is guilty of all the omissions of those Duties, which should all that time have been performed: Of the omission of every holy thought, and word, and deed which should have been then exercised: And of the omission of all the duties of your Callings: Of the omission of every prayer you should have then prayed, and every Chapter you should have read; and all the good which you should have got to yourselves, or done to others; to Wife, Husband, Children, Parents, Servants, Neighbors. And you know that omissions are one half and the greater half of the sins of the world; And that God will condemn the wicked at last for their omissions, Matth. 25. for not feeding the poor, not clothing them, not visiting: and that he requireth the improvement of all his talents; and that it is his terrible sentence, Matth. 25. 26, 30. Thou wicked and slothful servant, &c. Cast ye the unprofitable servant into outer darkness; there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth. What then shall we think of the willful omission, not of one duty, but of all duty whatsoever, not now and then, but constantly for an hour or two or three once in four and twenty hours! No Love of God, no desires towards him, no good is exercised all that time.
§. 10. Quest. Can the Love of sleep alone be the mortal reigning sin in any one? The reason of the doubt is, because that the mortal sin is a sin of mistaken interest, that is, such as hath a man's chiefest Love, and is preferred before God, which it seems so small a thing as sleep or ease cannot be, but it seems a mere neglect or remissness in the way of duty, and not to be chosen as any man's felicity.
Answ. The sin that is set up against the Love of God as a man's ultimate end and happiness, is flesh-pleasing in the General, or Carnal self-love: And he that is guilty of this can hardly be imagined to exercise his sensual desire only in the way of sloth and sleep. It is certain that he preferreth the greatest Pleasure of his flesh which he can attain before the less: and therefore as to the Habit or Inclination he is as much addicted to Covetousness, Gluttony, Ambition, or other ways of sensuality: And if they are within his reach, that he can hope, to attain them, he will actually desire such greater pleasures, more than this: For there is no man that is an unregenerate sensualist that hath mortified Covetousness, Luxury and Pride, and yet is captivated only by sleep or sloth: The same grace which truly mortifieth the Greater would mortify the less. But it is possible that a Beggar or some such person that hath no other sensual pleasure but Idleness in view or hope, may exercise his sensuality principally this way! Not but that radically he preferreth riches and honor before his beggarly sloth and ease; but those desires having no matter to work upon, do not stir in him; because he hath no hope of reaching such a thing. The sum is, 1. Carnal self-love is the great opposite to the Love of God. 2 This self-love worketh towards carnal pleasure, and to the greatest most. 3. Habitually therefore the Love of Riches, honor and voluptuousness is stronger than the Love of ease. 4. Actually the love of ease may be the strongest in some. 5. But if those persons were as capable of the higher fleshly pleasures they would love them actually more. 6. It is not the omitting of some particular duties through the love of ease, which proveth such a sensual unsanctified state of soul; but the preferring of men's ease before a Holy life in the main: As when men so far love their ease, that they will not make it the chief of their desires and employments to seek the Kingdom of God and his righteousness: Matth. 6. 33.
The overcoming of excessive sleep is easy, if you be but thoroughly willing.
§. 11. Direct. 1. The first thing to be done, is to correct that sluggish flegmatick temper of body which inclineth you to it, which is chiefly to be done by such an abstinence or temperate diet, as I gave directions for before. A full belly is fit for nothing else but sleep or lust. Reduce your diet to that measure which is needful to your health, and eat not anymore to please your appetites. And let fasting cure you when you have exceeded.
§. 12. Direct. 2. Labor hard in your Callings that your sleep may be sweet while you are in it; or else you will lie in bed on pretence of necessity, because you cannot sleep well when you are there. Then you will say, you must take it out in the morning, because you sleep not in the night. But see that this be not caused by Idleness: Weary your bodies in your daily labors: For the sleep of the laboring man is sweet, Eccles. 5. 12.
§. 13. Direct. 3. See that thou have a Calling which will find thee employment for all thy time which God's immediate service spareth. Yea, which somewhat urgeth thee to diligence: Otherwise thou wilt lie in bed, and say, thou hast time to spare, or nothing to do: You can rise when you have, a journey to be gone, or a business of pressing necessity to be done: Keep yourselves under some constant necessity, or urgency of business at the least.
§. 14. Direct. 4. Take pleasure in your Callings, and in the service of God. Sluggards themselves can rise to that which they take much pleasure in: As to go to a Merriment, or Feast, or Play, or Game, or to a good bargain, or anything which they delight in. If thou hadst a Delight in thy Calling, and in reading the Scripture, and praying, and doing good, thou couldst not lie contentedly in bed, but wouldst long to be up and doing, as Children to their play: The wicked can rise early to do wickedness, because their hearts are set upon it: They can be drunk, or steal, or wh • re, or plot their ambitious and covetous designs, when they should sleep: And if thy heart were set as much on good, as theirs is on evil, wouldst not thou be as wakeful and as readily up?
§. 15. Direct. 5. Remember the grand importance of the business of your souls which always lieth on your hands, that the greatness of your work may rouse you up. What, lie slugging in bed, when you are so far behind hand in knowledge, and grace, and assurance of salvation; and have so much of the Scripture and other Books to read and understand? Hast thou not grace to beg for a needy soul? Is not Prayer better work than excess of sleeping. Great business in the world can make you rise, and why not Greater?
§. 16. Direct. 6. Remember that thou must answer in judgment for thy time: And what comfort wilt thou have, to say I slug'd away so many hours in a morning? And what comfort at death when time is gone, to review so much cast away in sleep?
§. 17. Direct. 7. Remember that God beholdeth thee, and is calling thee up to work. If thou understoodst his Word and Providence, thou wouldst hear him as it were, saying as the Mariners to Jonah, What meanest thou, O sleeper? Arise, call upon thy God. Wilt thou lie sleeping inordinately when God stands over thee, and calls thee up? If the King, or any great person, or friend, did but knock at thy door, thou wouldst rise presently to wait upon them. Why God would speak with thee by his Word, or hear thee speak to him by prayer; and wilt thou lie still and despise his Call?
§. 18. Direct. 8. Remember how many are attending thee while thou sleepest. If it be Summer, the Sun is up before thee that hath gone so many thousand miles while thou wast asleep: It hath given a days light to the other half of the world since thou laist down, and is come again to light thee to thy work, and wilt thou let it shine in vain? All the creatures are ready in their places to assist thee, and art thou asleep?
§. 19. Direct. 9. Consider whether thou wilt allow thy servants to do the like: They must be up and at work, or you will be offended, and tell them that they are no servants for you, and that you hire them not to sleep. And do you not owe God more service than they owe you? Doth God hire you to sleep? Is it any lawfuller for you than them to sleep one minute more than is needful to your health? No, not a minute: If you are sicklier than they, thats another matter; (But see that fullness and idleness cause it not). But otherwise your Riches are no excuse to you: Will you loiter more than they, because you receive more? and do less service, because you have more pay? Or is it your privilege to be so miserable, as to lose that time which poor men save?
§. 20. Direct. 10. Remember that your morning hours are the choicest part of all the day for any holy exercise or special employment of the mind. The mind is fresh and clear, and there is less interruption by worldly business; whereas when others are up and about their business you will have interpellations. Those that have tried it can say by experience, that the morning hours are the flower of their time, for prayer or studies: and that early rising is a great part of the art of Redeeming Time.
§. 21. Direct. 11. Remember how many are condemning you by their diligence, while you are slugging away your time: How many holy persons are then at prayer in secret, wrestling fervently with God for their salvation: or reading and meditating in his word? What do they get while you are sleeping! The blessed man doth delight in the Law of the Lord, and meditate in it day and night: and you love your ease, and are sleeping day and night: Will not all these be witnesses against you? So will the diligent in their Callings; and so will the worldlings and wicked that rise early to their sin! How many thousand are hard at work while you are sleeping? Have you not work to do as well as they?
§. 22. Direct. 12. Remember that sensuality or flesh-pleasing is the great condemning sin that turns the heart from God: And if it be odious in a drunkard or fornicator, why is it not so in you? Mortify the flesh, and learn to deny it its inordinate desires, and your sin is almost cured.
§. 23. Direct. 13. For then the executive part is easy when you are willing: It is but agreeing with someone to awaken you, and a little cold water will wash away your drowsiness if you consent.
PART VII. Directions against sinful Dreams.
§. 1. DReams are neither good nor sinful simply in themselves, because they are not rational and voluntary, nor in our power: But they are often made sinful by some other voluntary Act: They may be sinful by participation and consequently. And the acts that make them sinful, are either such as go before, or such as follow after.
§. 2. 1. The antecedent causes are any sinful act which distempereth the body, or any sin which inclineth the fantasie and mind thereto; or the omission of what was necessary to prevent them. 2. The causes which afterwards make them objectively sinful, are, the ill uses that men make of them: As when they take their dreams to be Divine Revelations, and trust to them, or are affrighted by them as ominous, or as prophetical; and make them the ground of their actions, and seduce themselves by the phantasms of their own brains.
§. 3. Direct. 1. Avoid those bodily distempers as much you can which cause sinful dreams, especially fullness of diet: A full stomach causeth troublesome dreams, and lustful dreams: and hath its ill effects by night and by day.
§. 4. Direct. 2. Endeavor the cure of those sinful distempers of the mind which cause sinful dreams. The cure of a worldly mind is the best way to cure worldly covetous dreams: And the cure of a lustful heart is the best way to cure lustful dreams: and so of the rest: Cleanse the fountain, and the waters will be the sweeter day and night.
§. 5. Direct. 3. Suffer not your Thoughts, or tongue, or actions to run sinfully upon that in the day, which you would not dream sinfully of in the night. Common experience telleth us, that our dreams are apt to follow our foregoing thoughts, and words, and deeds. If you think most frequently and affectionately of that which is good, you will dream of that which is good. If you think of lustful filthy objects, or speak of them▪ or meddle with them, you will dream of them: and so of covetous and ambitious dreams. And they that make no conscience to sin waking, are not like much to scruple sinning in their sleep.
§. 6. Direct. 4. Commend yourselves to God by prayer before you take your rest, and beseech him to set a guard upon your fantasie when you cannot guard it. Cast the cure upon him, and fly to him for help by faith and prayer in the sense of your insufficiency.
§. 7. Direct. 5. Let your last Thoughts still before your sleep be holy, and yet quieting and consolatory thoughts. The dreams are apt to follow our last Thoughts. If you betake yourselves to sleep with worldliness or vanity in your minds, you cannot expect to be wiser or better when you are asleep, than when you are awake. But if you shut up your days thoughts with God, and sleep find them upon any Holy subject, it is like to use them as it finds them. Yet if it be distrustful, unbelieving, fearful thoughts which you conclude with, your dreams may savor of the same distemper. Frightful and often sinful dreams do follow sinful doubts and fears. But if you sweeten your last Thoughts with the Love of Christ, and the remembrance of your former mercies, or the foresight of eternal joys, or can confidently cast them and yourselves upon some promise, it will tend to the quietness of your sleep, and to the savoriness of your dreams: And if you should die before morning will it not be most desirable that your last thoughts be holy?
§. 8. Direct. 6. When you have found any corruption appearing in your dreams, make use of them for the renewing of your repentance, and exciting your endeavors to mortify that corruption. A corruption may be perceived in dreams, 1. When such dreams as discover it are frequent: 2. When they are earnest and violent: 3. When they are pleasing and delightful to your fantasies: Not that any certain knowledge can be fetched from them, but some conjecture as added to other signs. As if you should frequently, earnestly and delightfully dream of preferments and honors, or the favor of great men, suspect ambition, and do the more to discover and mortify it: If it be of riches, and gain, and money, suspect a covetous mind. If it be of revenge or hurt to any man that you distaste, suspect some malice and quickly mortify it: So if it be of lust, or feasting, or drinking, or vain recreations, sports and games, do the like.
§. 9. Direct. 7. Lay no greater stress upon your dreams, than there is just cause. As 1. When you have searched, and find no such sin prevailing in you as your dreams seem to intimate, do not conclude that you have more than your waking evidence discovers. Prefer not your sleeping signs before your waking signs and search. 2. When you are conscious that you indulge no corruption to occasion such a dream, suppose it not to be faulty of itself, and lay not the blame of your bodily temperament, or unknown causes, upon your soul, with too heavy and unjust a charge. 3. Abhor the presumptuous folly of those that use to prognosticate by their dreams, and measure their expectations by them, and cast themselves into hopes or fears by them. Saith Diogenes, What f • lly is it to be careless of your waking thoughts and actions, and inquisitive about your dreams? A man's happiness or misery lieth upon what he doth when he is awake, and not upon what he suffereth in his sleep.
PART I. General Directions for the Government of the Senses (by a Life of Faith).
§. 1. THE most wise and gracious God, having been pleased to constitute us of soul and body, that our nobler part in its preparation and passage to a nobler state, might have a companion and instrument suited to the lower place and employment, through which it is to pass, hath appointed our senses not only for the exercise, and helps of life, and the management of our inferior actions, and the communication of his inferior mercies, but also to be the common passage to the fantasie, and so to the mind, to be serviceable to our Rational powers, and help in our service of our Maker, and communion with him in his higher gifts. To these ends all our senses should be used; as being capable of being sanctified and serviceable to God. But sin made its entrance by them, and by sin they are now corrupted and vitiated with the body, and are grown inordinate, violent and unruly in their appetite; and the rational powers having lost and forsaken God, their proper End and chiefest Object, have hired or captivated themselves to the sensitive appepetite, to serve its Ends. And so the sensitive appetite is become the ruling faculty in the unsanctified, and the senses the common entrance of sin, and instruments of Satan: And though the work of Grace be primarily in the Rational powers, yet secondarily the lower powers themselves also are sanctified, and brought under the Government of a renewed Mind and Will, and so restored to their proper use. And though I cannot say that Grace immediately maketh any alteration on the senses, yet mediately it doth, by altering the mind, and so the Will, and then the imagination, and so the sensitive appetite, and so in exercise, the sense itself. We see that Temperance and Chastity do not only restrain, but take down the appetite from the rage and violence which before it had: Not the natural appetite, but the sensitive, so far as it is sinful.
§. 2. The Sanctifying and Government of the senses and their appetite, lieth in two parts: First, In guarding them against the entrance of sin: and Secondly, In using them to be the entrance of good into the soul. But this latter is so high a work that too few are skilled in it: and few can well perform the other.
§. 3. Direct. 1. The principal part of the work is about the superior faculties, to get a well informed judgment, and a holy and confirmed will; and not about the sense itself. Reason is dethroned by sin: and the will is left unguided and unguarded to the rapes of sensual violence. Reason must be restored, before sense will be well governed; for what else must be their immediate Governor? It is no sin in Brutes to live by sense, because they have not Reason to rule it: And in man it is ruled more or less, as reason is more or less restored: When Reason is only cleared about things temporal (as in men of worldly wisdom) there sense will be mastered and ruled as to such temporal ends, as far as they require it. But where Reason is sanctified, there sense is ruled to the ends of sanctification, according to the measure of grace.
§. 4. Direct. 2. It is only the high eternal things of God and our salvation, objectively settled in the mind and will, and become as it were connatural to them, and made our Ruling End and interest that can suffice to a true and holy Government of the senses. Lower things may muzzle them, and make men seem temperate and sober as far as their honor, and wealth, and health, and life require it: But this is but stopping a gap, while most of the hedge lieth open, and an engaging the sense to serve the Flesh, the World, and the Devil in a hansome, calm and less dishonored way, and not so filthily and furiously as others.
§. 5. Direct. 3. The main part of this Government in the exercise, is in taking special care that no sensitive good be made the ultimate End of our desire, nor sought for itself, nor rested in, nor delighted in too much; but to see that the soul (having first habitually fixed on its proper higher end and happiness) d • direct all the actions of every sense (so far as it falls under deliberation and choice, to serve it remotely to those holy ends. For the sense is not sanctified, if it be not used to a holy end, and its object is not sanctified to us, if it be not made serviceable to more holy objects. A mere negative restraint of sense for common ends, is but such as those ends are for which its done. When the eyes, and ears, and taste, and feeling are all taught by reason to serve God to his glory and our salvation, then and never till then they are well governed.
§. 6. Direct. 4. To this End the constant use of a lively belief of the Word of God and the things unseen of the other world, must be the first and principal means by which our Reason must govern every sense, b • th a • to their restraint and their right employment: And therefore living by sight, and living by faith are opposed in Scripture, 2 Cor. 5. 7. For we walk by faith, not by sight: that is, sight and sense is not our principal guiding faculty, but subservient to faith; nor the objects of sight the things which we principally or ultimately seek or set by, but the objects of faith: As it is before expounded, 2 Cor. 4. 18. While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: For the things which are seen are temporal, but the things which are not seen are eternal. Therefore Faith is described to be the substance of things hoped for, and the evidence of things not seen, Heb. 12. 1. Believing is to a Christian instead of seeing; because he knoweth by God's testimony, that the things believed are true, though they are unseen. And you know that the objects of sense are all but trifles, to the great astonishing objects of faith. Therefore if faith be lively, it must needs prevail and over-rule the senses, because its objects utterly cloud and make nothing of the transitory objects of sense. Therefore the Apostle John saith, 1 John 5. 4. Whatsoever is b • rn of God overcometh the world: and this is the victory that overcometh the world, even our faith. And Moses by seeing him that is invisible, overcame the desires of Aegypts treasures, and the fear of the wrath of the King, Heb. 11. 26, 27. having respect to the recompense of reward. Stephen easily bore his cruel death, when he saw Heaven opened, and Christ standing at the right hand of God, Acts 7. 56. I dare appeal to that man that is most sensual, and saith, I am n • t able to deny my appetite, or rule my senses, whether he would not be able if he did but see at the same time whats done in the other world? If he saw Heaven, and Hell, the glorified and the damned, and saw the Majesty of that God who commandeth him to forbear, would he not then be able to let alone the Cup, the Dish, the Harlot, the Sport, which is now so powerful with him? I would not thank the most beastly sensualist among you, to live as temperately (as to the act) as the strictest Saint alive, if he did but see the worlds which departed souls now see. It is not possible but it would overpower his sensual desires: yea, and call off those senses to serve him in some enquiry what he should do to be saved. Therefore if Believing the unseen world, be instead of seeing it with our eyes, its most certain that the means to overcome sensuality is faith, and lively Belief must rule our senses.
§. 7. Direct. 5. The more this Belief of God and glory doth kindle Love to them, the more effectual in will be in the Government of the senses. Our common Proverb saith, Where the Love is, there is the Fye. How readily doth it follow the heart. Love will not alter the sense itself, but it commandeth the Use of all the senses. It will not clear a dim decayed sight; but it will command it what to look upon. As the stronger love of one dish, or one sport, or one company, will carry you from another which you love more faintly; so the Love of God, and Heaven, and Holiness, will carry you from the captivity of all sensual things.
§. 8. Direct. 6. It must be well considered how powerful and dangerous things sensible are, and how high and hard a work it is in this our depraved earthly state to live by faith upon things unseen, and to rule the sense and be carried above it: that so the soul may be awakened to a sufficient fear and watchfulness, and may fly to Christ for assistance to his faith. It is no small thing for a man in flesh, to live above flesh: The way of the souls reception and operation, is so much by the senses here, that its apt to grow too familiar with things sensible, and to be strange to things which it never saw. Its a great work to make a man in flesh, to deny the pleasures which he seeth, and tasteth, and feeleth for such pleasures as he only heareth of; and heareth of as never to be enjoyed till after death, in a world which sense hath no acquaintance with. O what a glory it is to faith that it can perform such a work as this! How hard is it to a weak believer! And the strongest find it work enough. Consider this that it may awake you, to set upon this work with that care, that the greatness of it requireth, and you may live by faith, above a life of sight and sense: For it is this that your Happiness or misery lieth on.
§. 9. Direct. 7. Sense must not only be kept out of the Throne, but from any participation in the Government, and we must take heed of receiving it into our counsels, or treating with it, or hearing it plead its cause, and we must see that it get nothing by striving, importunity, or violence, but that it be governed despotically and absolutely, as the Horse is governed by the Rider. For if the Government once be halved between sense and reason, your lives will be half bestial: And when Reason ruleth not, Faith and Grace ruleth not: For faith is to reason, as sight is to the eye: There are no such Beasts in human shape, who lay by all the use of Reason, and are governed by sense alone (unless it be idcots or madmen ): But sense should have no part of the Government at all: And where it is chief in power, the Devil is there the unseen Governor. You cannot here excuse yourselves by any plea of necessity or corstcaint: For though the sense be violent as well as enticing, yet God hath made the Reason and Will the absolute Governors under him; and by all its rebellion and violence, sense cannot depose them, nor force them to one sin, but doth all the mischief by procuring their consent. Which is done sometime by affecting the fantas • e and passions too deeply with the pleasure and alluring sweetness of their objects, that so the higher faculties may be drawn into consent; and sometime by wearying out the resisting mind and will, and causing them to remit their opposition, and relax the reins, and by a sinful privati • n of restraint, to permit the sense to take its course: A head-strong Horse is not so easily ruled, as one of a tender mouth, that hath been well ridden: And therefore though it be in the power of the Rider to rule him, yet sometime for his own case he will loose the reins; and a Horse that is used thus by a slothful or unskillful Rider, to have his will when ever he striveth, will strive when ever he is crossed of his will; and so will be the Master. As ill-bred Children that are used to have everything given them which they cry for, will be sure to cry before they will be crossed of their desire. So is it with our sensitive appetite; If you use to satisfy it when it is eager or importunate you shall be mastered by its eagerness and importunity: And if you use but to regard it over much, and delay your commands till sense is heard and taken into counsel, its two to one but it will prevail; or ar least will be very troublesome to you, and prove a traitor in your bosom, and its temptations keep you in continual danger. Therefore be sure that you never loose the reins, but keep sense under a constant government, if you love either your safety or your ease.
§. 10. Direct. 8. You may know whether Sense, or Faith and Reason be the chief in Government, by knowing which of their objects is made your chiefest End, and accounted your Best, and loved, and delighted in, and sought accordingly: If the objects of sense be thus taken for your Best and End, then certainly sense is the chief in Government: But if the objects of faith and Reason, even God and life eternal be taken for your Best and End, then faith and reason are the ruling power. Though you should use never so great understanding and policy for sensual things, (as Riches, and honor, and worldly greatness, or fleshly delights) this doth not prove that Reason is the ruling power; but proveth the more strongly that sense is the Conqueror, and that Reason is depraved and captivated by it, and truckleth under it, and serveth it as a voluntary slave: And the greater is your learning, wit and parts, and the nobler your education, the greater is the victory and dominion of sense, that can subdue, and rule, and serve itself by parts so noble.
§. 11. Direct. 9. Though sense must be thus absolutely ruled, its proper power must neither be disabled, prohibited, nor denied. You must keep your Horse strong and able for his works, though not headstrong and unruly! And you must not keep him from the use of his strength, though you grant him not the Government. Nor will you deny but that he may be stronger than the Rider, though the Rider have the ruling power: He hath more of the power called 〈 in non-Latin alphabet 〉 , natural power, though the 〈 in non-Latin alphabet 〉 be yours. So is it here, 1. No man must destroy his bodily sense: The quickest sense is the best servant to the soul, if it be not headstrong and too impetuous. The Body must be stricken so far as to be kept under and brought into subjection, 1 Cor. 9. 27. but not be disabled from its service to the soul: 2. Nor must we forbid or forbear the exercise of the senses, in subordination to the exercise of the interior senses, Heb. 4. 14. It is indeed a smaller loss to part with a right hand or a right eye, than with our salvation: But that proveth not that we are put to such straits, as to be necessitated to either (unless persecution put us to it): 3. Nor must we deny the certainty of the sensitive apprehension, when it keepeth its place; as the Papists do that affirm it necessary to salvation to believe that the sight, and taste, and smell, and feeling of all men in the world, that take the Sacrament are certainly deceived, in taking that to be Bread and Wine which is not so: For if all the senses of all men though never so sound and rational, be certainly deceived in this, we know not when they are not deceived, and there can be no certainty of faith or knowledge: For if you say that the Church telleth us that sense is deceived in this, and only in this: I answer, If it be not first granted that sense (as so stated) is certain in its apprehension, there is no certainty then that there is a Church, or a man, or a world, or what the Church ever said, or any member of it: And if sense be so fallible, the Church may be deceived, who by the means of sense doth come to all her knowledge. To deny faith is the property of an Infidel: To deny Reason is to deny Humanity, and is fittest for a mad man, or a Beast (if without reason, reason could be denied): But to deny the certainty of sense itself, and of all the senses of all sound men, and that about the proper objects of sense, this showeth that ambition can make a Religion, which shall bring man quite below the Beasts, and make him a Mushrome, that Rome may have subjects capable of her Government, and all this under pretence of honoring faith, and saving souls: Making God the destroyer of nature in order to its perfection, and the deceiver of nature in order to its edification.
§. 12. Direct 10. Sense must not be made the Judge of matters that are above it, as the proper objects of faith and reason: nor must we argue negatively from our senses in such cases, which God in nature never brought into their Court. We cannot say, that there is no God, no Heaven, no Hell, no Angels, no souls of men, because we see them not: We cannot say, I see not the Antipodes, nor other Kingdoms of the world; and therefore there is no such place: so we say as well as the Papists, that sense is no Judge whether the spiritual body of Christ be present in the Sacrament, no more than whether an Angel be here present: But sense with reason is the Judge whether bread and Wine be there present, or else human understanding can judge of nothing. Christ would have had Thomas to have believed without seeing, and feeling, and blesseth those that neither see him, nor feel, and yet believe; but he never blesseth men for believing contrary to the sight, and feeling, and taste of all that have sound senses and understandings in the world. Their instance of the Virgins conception of Christ, is nothing contrary to this: For it belongeth not to sense to judge whether a Virgin may conceive: Nor will any wise man's Reason judge, that the Creator who in making the world of nothing was the only cause, cannot supply the place of a partial second cause in Generation: They might more plausibly argue with Aristotle against the Creation itself, that ex nihilo nihil fit: but as it is past doubt, that the infallibility of sense is nothing at all concerned in this, so it is sufficiently proved by Christians, that God can create without any pre-existent matter. Reason can see much further than sense, by the help of sense; and yet much further by the help of Divine Revelation by faith. To argue Negatively against the conclusions of Reason or Divine Revelation, from the mere negation of sensitive apprehension is to make a Beast of man. We must not be so irrational or impious, as to say, that there is nothing but what we have seen, or felt, or tasted, &c. If we will believe others who have seen them, that there are other parts of the world, we have full Reason to believe the sealed testimony of God himself, that there are such superior worlds and powers as he hath told us: We have the use of sense in hearing, or seeing God's revelation; and we have no more in receiving man's report of those Countries which we never saw.
§. 13. If they will make it the Question, whether the sense may not be deceived; I answer, we doubt not by distance of the objects, or distempers, or disproportions of itself or the Media, it may: But if the sense itself, and all the means and objects have their natural soundness, aptitude and disposition it is a contradiction so say it is deceived: for that is to say, it is not the sense which we suppose it is: If God deceive it thus, he maketh it another thing. It is no more the same, nor will admit the same definition. But however, it is most evident, that the senses being the first entrance or inlet of knowledge, the first certainty must be there, which is presupposed to the certain judgment of the intellect: But if these err, all following certainty which supposeth the certainty of the senses is destroyed: And this error in the first reception (like an error in the first concoction ) is not rectified by the second. And if God should thus leave all men under a fallibility of sense, he should leave no certainty in the world; and I desire those that know the definition of a lie, to consider whether this be not to feign God to lie in the very frame of nature, and by constant lies to rule the world, when yet it is impossible for God to lie. And if this Blasphemy were granted them, yet it would be man's duty still to judge by such senses as he hath about the objects of sense: For if God have made them fallible, we cannot make them better: Nor can we create a Reason in ourselves which shall not presuppose the judgment of sense, or which shall-supply its ordinary natural defects. So that the Roman faith of Transubstantiation, denying the reality of Bread and Wine, doth not only unman the world, but bring man lower than a Beast, and make sense to be no sense, and the world to be governed by natural deceit or lies, and banish all certainty of faith and reason from the Earth: and after all, (with such wonderful enmity to charity, as maketh man liker the Devil, than else could easily be believed) they sentence all to Hell that believe not this; and decree to burn them first on earth, and to depose Temporal Lord's from their dominions, that favor them, or that will not exterminate them from their Lands, and so absolve their Subjects from their Allegiance, and give their Dominions to others. All this you may read in the third Canon of the Lateran General Council under Innocent 3.
§. 14. Direct. 11. Look not upon any object of sense with sense alone, nor stop not in it, but let reason begin where sense doth end, and always see by faith or reason the part which is invisible, as well as the sensible part by sense. By that which is seen collect and rise up to that which is unseen. It God had given us an eye, or ear, or taste, or feeling, and not a mind, then we should have exercised no other faculty but what we had. But sure he that hath given us the higher faculty requireth that we use it as well as the lower. And remember that they are not mere co-ordinate faculties, but the sensitive faculty is subordinate to the Intellectual: And accordingly that which the sensible creature objectively revealeth through the sense unto the Intellect, is something to which things sensible are subordinate. Therefore if you stop in sensible things, and see not the Principle which animateth them, the Power which ordereth and ruleth them, and the End which they are made for, and must be used for, you play the Beasts; you see nothing but a dead carcass without the soul, and nothing but a useless senseless thing. You know nothing indeed to any purpose: no not the creature itself; while you know not the use and meaning of the creature, but separate it from its Life, and Guide, and End.
§. 15. Direct. 12. First therefore see that you ever look upon all things sensible as the products of the will of the invisible God, depending on him more than the Sunshine doth upon the Sun; and never see or ta •• e a creature separatedly from God. Will you know what a plant is, and not know that it is the earth that beareth and nourisheth it? Will you know what a Fish is, and yet be ignorant that he liveth in the water? Will you know what a branch or fruit is, and yet not know that it groweth on the Tree? The nature of things cannot be known without the knowledge of their causes, and respective parts: It is as no knowledge to know incoherent scraps and parcels: To know a hand as no part of the body, or an eye or nose without knowing a head; or a body without knowing its life or soul, is not to know it; for you make it another thing. It is the difference between a wise man and a fool, that Sapiens respicit ad plura, insipi • ns ad pauciora: A wise man looketh comprehensively to things as they are conjunct, and takes all together, and leaveth out nothing that is useful to his end; but a fool seeth one thing and overseeth another which is necessary to the true knowledge or use of that which he seeth: see God as the Cause and Life of everything you see: As a carcass is but a ghastly sight without the soul, and quickly corrupteth and stinketh when it is separated; so the Creature without God is an unlovely sight, and quickly corrupteth and becomes a snare or annoyance to you: God is the beauty of all thats beautiful, and the strength of all thats strong, and the glory of the Sun, and all that is glorious, and the wisdom of all thats wise, and the goodness of all thats good, as being the only original total cause of all. You play the Brutes when you see the creature, and overlook its Maker, from whom it is, whatsoever it is. Will you see the Diall, and overlook the Sun. Remember it is the use of every Creature to show you God, and therefore it is the use of every sense to promote the knowledge of him.
§. 16. Direct. 13. See God as the Conductor, orderer and disposer of all the creatures, according to their natures, as moved necessarily or freely: and behold not any of the motions or events of the world, without observing the interest, and over-ruling hand of God. Sense reacheth but to the effects and events, but Reason and faith can see the first cause and disposer of all. Again, I tell you, that if you look but on the particles of things by sense, and see not God that setteth all together, and doth his work by those that never dream of it, you see but the several wheels and parcels of a Clock, or Watch, and know not him that made and keepeth it, that setteth on the Poise, and winds it up, to fit his ends. Joseph could say, God sent me hither when his Brethren sold him into Egypt; And David felt his Fathers Rod in Shimei's curse.
§. 17. Direct. 14. See God the End of every creature; how all things, are ordered for his service; and be sure you stop not in any creature, without referring it to a higher end: Else as I have oft told you, you will be but like a Child or illiterate person, who openeth a Book, and admireth the workmanship of the Printer, and the order and well forming of the Letters, but never mindeth or understandeth the subject, sense or end. Or like one that looketh on a comely picture, and never mindeth either him that made it, or him that is represented by it. Or like one that gazeth on the Sign at an Inn-door, and praiseth the workmanship, but knoweth not, that it is set there to direct him to entertainment and necessaries within. And this folly and sin is the greater, because it is the very end of God in all his works of Creation and Providence, to reveal himself by them to the intellectual world: And must God show his Power, and Wisdom, and Goodness so wonderfully in the frame of the creation, and in his daily general and particular providence? and shall man that daily seeth all this, overlook the intended use and end? and so make all this glorious work as nothing, or as lost to him? Sense knoweth no End but its own Delight, and the natural felicity of the sensitive creature, such as things sensible afford: But Reason must take up the work where sense doth end its stage, and carry all home to him that is the End of all. For OF Him, and THROUGH Him, and TO Him are all things, to whom be Glory forever, Amen, Rom. 11. 36.
§. 18. Direct. 15. Besides the General Use and Ultimate End of every creature, labor for a clear acquaintance with the particular Use and nearer End of everything which you have to do with, by which it is serviceable to your Ultimate End: And suppose still you saw that special use as subserving your highest End, as the Title written upon each creature. As suppose upon your Bible it were written, The Word of the Living God to acquaint me with himself and his will that I may please, and glorify, and enjoy him forever. And upon your godly friend suppose you saw this Title written, A Servant of God that beareth his Image, and appointed to accompany and assist me in his service unto life everlasting. Upon your meat suppose you saw this Title written, The provisions of my Father sent me as from my Savior's hands not to gratify my sensuality, and serve my inordinate desires, but to refresh and strengthen my body for his service in my passage to everlasting life. So upon your Clothes, your Servants, your Goods, your Cattle, your Houses and everything you have, inscribe thus the proper use and end.
§. 19. Direct. 16. Know both the final and the mediate danger, of everything that you have to do with: and suppose you still see them written upon everything you see. The final danger is Hell; The mediate danger in general is sin: But you must find what sin it is that this creature will be made a Temptation to by the Devil and the Flesh. As suppose you saw written upon money and riches, The bait of Covetousness and all evil to pierce me through with many sorrows and then to damn me: And suppose you saw written upon great buildings, and estates, and honors, and attendance, The great price which the Devil would give for souls; and the baits to tempt men, to the inordinate Love of fleshly pleasures, and to draw their hearts from God and Heaven to their damnation: Suppose you still saw written upon Beauty and and tempting actions and attire, The bait of lust, by which the Devil corrupteth the minds of men to their damnation. Suppose you saw written on the Play-house door, The Stage of the Mountebanck of Hell, who here cheateth men of their precious time, and enticeth them to vanity, luxury and damnation, under pretence of instructing them by a nearer and more pleasant way than Preachers do: The like I say of Gaming, Recreations, company: See the particular snare in all.
§. 20. Direct. 17. To this end be well acquainted with your own particular inclinations and distempers; that you may know what creature is like to prove most dangerous to you, that there you may keep the strictest watch. If you be subject to pride, keep most from the baits of Pride, and watch most cautelously against them. If you be subject to Covetousness, watch most against the baits of Covetousness; If you are inclined to lust, away from the sight of alluring objects. The knowledge of your temper and disease, must direct you both in your diet and your Physic.
§. 21. Direct. 18. Live as in a constant course of obedience; and suppose you saw the Law of God also written upon everything you see. As when you look on any tempting beauty; suppose you saw this written on the forehead, [ Thou shalt not lust: Whoremongers and Adulterers God will judge: They shall not enter into the Kingdom of God: ] See upon the forbidden dish or cup the prohibition of God, [ Thou shalt not eat, or drink this ]: See upon money and riches this written, [ Thou shalt not cove • ]: See upon the face of all the world, [ Love not the world, nor the things that are in the world: If any man love the world, the Love of the Father is not in him. ] Thus see the Will of God on all things.
§. 22. Direct 19. Make not the objects of sense over tempting and dangerous to yourselves; but take special care as much as in you lieth, to order all so, that you may have as much of the benefit, and as little of the snare of the creature as is possible. Would you not be gluttonous pleasers of your appetite? Choose not then too full a Table, nor over-pleasant tempting drinks or dishes, and yet choose those that are most useful to your health. Would you not over-love the world▪ nor your present house, or lands, or station? Be not too instrumental yourselves in gilding or dulcifying your bait! If you put in the sugar, the Devil and the flesh will put in the poison. Will you make all as pleasant and lovely as you can, when you believe that the overloving them is the greatest danger to your salvation? Will you be the greatest tempters to yourselves, and then desire God not to lead you into temptation.
§. 23. Direct. 20. Let not the tempting object be too near your sense: For nearness enrageth the sensitive appetite and giveth you an opportunity of sinning. Come not too near the fire if you would not be burnt (And yet use prudence in keeping the usefulness of it for warmth, though you avoid the burning: ) Distance from the snares of pride, and lust, and passion and other sins, is a most approved remedy: and Nearness is their strength.
§. 24. Direct. 21. Accustom your souls to frequent and familiar exercise about their invisible objects, as well as your senses about theirs: And as you are daily and hourly in seeing, and tasting, and hearing the creature, so be not rarely in the humble adoration of him that appeareth to you in them. Otherwise use will make the creature so familiar to you, and disuse will make God so strange, that by degrees you will wear yourselves out of his acquaintance, and become like carnal sensual men, and live all by sense, and forget the holy exercise of the life of faith.
§. 25. Direct. 22. Lose not your humble sense of the badness of your hearts, how ready they are as tinder, to take the fire of every temptation: and never grow fool-bardy and confident of yourselves. For your holy fear is necessary to your watchfulness, and your watchfulness is necessary to your escape and safety: Peters self-confidence betrayed him to deny his Lord. Had Noah and Lot and David been more afraid of the sin, they had been like to have escaped it. It is a part of the character of the beastly Heretics that Jude declaimeth against, that they were spots in their feasts of charity, when they feasted with the Church, feeding themselves without fear. verse. 12. When the knowledge or sense of your weakness and sinful inclination is gone, then fear is gone, and then safety is gone, and your fall is near.
PART. II. Particular Directions for the Government of the Eyes.
§. 1. Direct. 1. KNow the uses that your sight is given you for: As, 1. To see the works of God, that thereby your Minds may see God himself. 2. To read the word of God, that therein you may perceive his mind. 3. To see the servants of God whom you must Love; and the poor whom you must relieve or pity, and all the visible objects of your duty: To conduct your body in the discharge of its office about all the matters of the world: And in special often to look up towards Heaven, the place where your blessed Lord is Glorified, and whence he shall come to take you to his glory.
§. 2. Direct. 2. Remember the sins which the eye is most in danger of, that you may be watchful and escape. 1. You must take heed of a Proud, and Lofty, and Scornful eye: which looketh on your selves with admiration, and delight, as the Peacock is said to do on his tail; and on others as below you with slighting and disdain. 2. You must take heed of a lustful wanton eye, which secretly carrieth out your heart to a befooling piece of dirty flesh, and stealeth from beauty and ornaments a spark to kindle that fire which prepareth for everlasting fire. 3. Take heed of a greedy covetous eye, which with Achan and Gehazi looketh on the bait to tempt you to unlawful love and desire, and to bring you by their sin unto their ruin. 4. Take heed of a Luxurious, Gluttonous and Drunken eye; which is looking on the forbidden fruit, and on the tempting dish, and the delicious cup, till it have provoked the appetite of that greedy worm, which must be pleased, though at the rate of thy damnation. 5. Take heed of a gazing wandering eye, which like a vagrant hath no home, nor work nor master but gaddeth about to seek after death, and find out matter for temptation: Prov. 17. 24. Wisdom is before him that hath understanding, but the eyes of a fool are in the ends of the earth. 6. Take heed of an envious eye, which looketh with dislike and discontent at the prosperity of others, especially such as stand cross to your own interest: Matth. 20. 15. Is thine eye evil because I am good? It is the envious eye, that in Scripture most usually is called by the name of an evil eye, 〈 in non-Latin alphabet 〉 : It is an eye that would see evil rather than good upon another: as Deut. 15. 9. Lest thy eye be evil against thy poor brother, &c. Prov. 23. 6. it is an eye that grudgeth another anything that is ours. So Prov. 28. 22. Mar. 7. 22. 7. Take heed of a passionate cruel eye that kindleth the hurting or reviling fire in thy breast, or is kindled by it: that fetcheth matter of rage or malice from all that displeaseth thee in another. 8. Take heed of a self-conceited and censorious eye, that looketh on all the actions of another with quarrelling, undervaluing, censure or reproach. 9. Take heed of a fond and fanciful eye, that falls in Love too much with Houses, or Friend, or Child, or Goods or whatsoever pleaseth it. 10. Take heed of a sleepy sluggish eye, that is shut to good, and had rather sleep than watch, and read, and pray, and labor. 11. Abhor a malignant eye, which looketh with hatred on a godly man, and upon the holy assemblies and communion of Saints, and upon holy actions; and can scarce see a man of exemplary zeal and holiness, but the heart riseth against him, and could wish all such expelled or cut off from the earth. This is the heart that hath the Image of the Devil in most lively colors; he being the Father of such, as Christ calleth him, John 8. 44. 12. Abhor an Hypocritical eye, which is lifted up to Heaven, when the heart is on earth, on lusts, on honors, on sports or pleasure, or plotting mischief against the just. Know the evil and danger of all these diseases of the eye.
§. 3. Direct. 3. Remember that the eye being the noblest, and yet the most dangerous sense, must have the strictest watch. Sight is often put in Scripture for all the senses: And living by sight is opposed to living or walking by faith. 2 Cor. 5. 7. We walk by faith, not by sight. And a sensual life is called, a walking in the ways of our heart and in the sight of the eyes, Eccles. 11. 9. An ungoverned eye doth show the power of the ungoverned senses. Abundance of good or evil entereth by these doors: All lieth open if you guard not these.
§ 4. Direct. 4. Remember that as your sin or duty, so your sorrow or joy do depend much on the government of your eyes: And their present pleasure is the common way to after sorrow. What a flood of grief did David let in to his heart by one unlawful look?
§. 5. Direct. 5. Remember that your eye is much of your honor or dishonor, because it is the index of your minds: You see that which is next the mind itself, or the most immediate beam of the invisible soul, when you see the eye. How easily doth a wandering eye, a wanton eye, a proud eye, a luxurious eye, a malicious eye, a passionate eye, bewray the treasure of sin which is in the heart? Your soul lieth opener to the view of others in your eye, than in any other part: your very reputation therefore should make you watch.
§. 6. Direct. 6. Remember that your eye is of all the senses most subject to the will, and therefore there is the more of duty or sin in it: For Voluntariness is the requisite to Morality, both good and evil. Your will cannot so easily command your feeling, tasting, hearing or smelling, as it can your sight; so easily can it open or shut the eye in a moment, that you are the more inexcusable if it be not governed: For all its faults will be proved the more voluntary. Cham was cursed for not turning away his eyes from his Fathers shame, and Shem and Japheth blessed for doing it. The righteous is thus described, Isa. 33. 15. He that stoppeth his ears from hearing of blood, and shutteth his eyes from seeing evil; he shall dwell on high: &c. Men's Idols which they are commanded to cast away are called, The abomination of their eyes, Ezek. 20. 7. Covetousness is called, The lust of the eyes, 1 John 2. 16. It's said of the unclean, that they have eyes full of adultery, 2 Pet. 2. 14. And as sin so punishment is placed on the eye: Isa. 5. 15. The eyes of the lofty shall be humbled: Yea the whole bodies of the daughters of Zion are threatened to be dishonored with nakedness, scabs, and stink, and shame, because they walked with wanton eyes, haughtily, and mincing as they go, &c. Isa. 3. 16.
§. 7. Direct. 7. Therefore let believing reason and a holy resolved fixed will, keep a continual Law upon your eyes, and let them be used as under a constant government: This Job calleth, the making a covenant with them, Job 31. 1. Leave them not at liberty: as if a look had nothing in it of duty or sin; or as if you might look on what you would. Will you go to foolish tempting plays, and gaze on vain alluring objects, and think there is no harm in all this? Do you think your eye cannot sin as well as your tongue? undoubtedly it's much sin that is both committed by it, and entereth at it: Keep away therefore from the bait, or command your eye to turn away.
§. 8. Direct. 8. Remember still how much more easy and safe it is to stop sin here at the gates and out-works, than to beat it out again when it is once got in: If it have but tainted your very fantasie or memory (as tempting sights will almost unavoidably do) it hath there spawned the matter for a swarm of vain and sinful thoughts: It is almost impossible to rule the Thoughts without ruling the eye: And then the passions are presently tainted; and the cittadel of the Heart is taken before you are aware. You little know when a lustful look or a covetous look beginneth the game, to how sad a period it tendeth. Many a horrid adultery, and murder, and robbery, and wickedness, hath begun but with a Look: A Look hath begun that, which hath brought many a thousand to the gallows, and many millions to Hell?
§. 9. Direct. 9. Keep both eye and mind employed in continual duty, and let them not be idle, and have leisure to wander upon vanity. Idleness and neglect of spiritual and corporal duty is the beginner and the nurse of much sensuality. Let your spiritual work and your lawful bodily-labors take up your time and thoughts, and command and keep your senses in their services.
§. 10. Direct. 10. Beg daily of God the preserving assistance of his Grace and providence: Of his inward grace to confirm you and assist you in your resolutions and watch; and of his providence and gracious disposals of you and objects, to keep the Temptations from before your eyes: And when others will run and go on purpose, to gaze on vain or tempting shows, or to admire like children the vanities of the playful pompous world, do you go to God with David's prayer, Psalm 119. 37. Turn away mine eyes from beholding vanity: and quicken me in thy way: And imitate him verse. 148. Mine eyes prevent the night watches, that I might meditate in thy word. And make every look a passage to thy mind, to carry it up to God, and pray, Psal. 119. 18. Open thou mine eyes that I may behold wondrous things out of thy Law. Observe these, with the General Directions fore named.
PART. III. Directions for the Government of the Ear.
§. 1. Direct. 1. IMploy your ears in the duties which they were made for: and to that end understand those duties: Which are as followeth. 1. To be the organe of reception of such communications from others, as is necessary for our converse in the world, and the duties of our several relations and vocations. 2. To hear the word of God delivered publicly by his appointed Teachers of the Church. 3. To hear the counsel of those that privately advize us for our good: and the reproofs of those that tell us of our sin and danger. 4. To hear the Praises of God set forth by his Church in public, and particular servants in private: 5. To hear from our ancestors and the learned in history, what hath been done in the times before us. 6. To hear the complaints and petitions of the poor and needy and distressed, that we may compassionate them and endeavor their relief. 7. To be the passage for grief and hatred to our hearts, by the sinful words which we hear unwillingly.
§. 2. Direct. 2. Know which are the sins of the ear that you may avoid them. And they are such as follow. 1. A careless ear, which heareth the word of God, and the private exhortations of his servants, as if it heard them not. 2. A sottish sleepy ear that heareth the word of God but as a confused sound, and understandeth not, nor feeleth what is heard. 3. A scornful ear, which despiseth the message of God, and the reproofs and counsel of men, and scorneth to be reproved or taught. 4. An obstinate stubborn ear, which regardeth not advice or will not yield. 5. A profane and impious ear, which loveth to hear oaths, and curses, and profane, and blasphemous expressions. 6. A carnal ear which loveth to hear of fleshly things, but savoreth not the words which favor of holiness. 7. An airy hypocritical ear, which loveth more the music and melody, than the sense and spiritual elevation of the soul to God; and regardeth more the numbers and composure and tone, than the matter of preaching, prayer or other such duties; and serveth God with the ear, when the heart is far from him: 8. A curious ear, which nauseateth the most profitable sermons, prayers or discourses, if they be not accurately ordered and expressed; and slighteth or loseth the offered benefit, for a (modal) imperfection in the offer, or the instrument! and casteth away all the gold because a piece or two did catch a little rust: And perhaps quarrelleth with the style of the sacred Scriptures, as not exact or fine enough for its expectations. 9. An itching ear, which runs after novelties, and a heap of Teachers, and liketh something extraordinary better than things necessary. 10. A selfish ear, which loveth to hear all that tends to the confirmation of its own conceits, and to be flattered or smoothed up by others, and can endure nothing that is cross to its opinions. 11. A proud ear which loveth its own applause, and is much pleased with its own praises, and hateth all that speak of him with mean undervaluing words. 12. A peevish impatient ear which is nettled with almost all it heareth; and can endure none but silken words, which are oiled and sugared and fitted by flattery or the lowest submission, to their froward minds: and is so hard to be pleased that none but graduates in the art of pleasing can perform it. 13. A bold presumptuous ear, which will hear false Teachers and deceivers in a proud conceit and confidence of their own abilities to discern what is true and what is false. 14. An ungodly ear, that can easily hear the reproach of holiness, and scorns at the servants and ways of Christ. 15. A neutral indifferent ear, that heareth either good or evil, without much love or hatred, but with a dull and cold indifferency. 16. A dissembling temporizing ear, which can complyingly hear one side speak for holiness, and the other speak against it, and suit itself to the company and discourse it meets with. 17. An uncharitable ear, which can willingly hear the censures, backbitings, slanders, revilings, that are used against others, yea against the best. 18. An unnatural ear, which can easily and willingly hear the dishonor of their parents, or other near relations, if any carnal interest do but engage them against their honor. 19. A rebellious disobedient ear, which hearkeneth not to the just commands of Magistrates, Parents, Masters and other Governors, but hearkeneth with more pleasure to the words of seditious persons that dishonor them. 20. A filthy, unclean, adulterous ear, which loveth to hear filthy ribbald speeches, and Love-songs, and Romances, and lascivious plays, and the talk of wanton lust and dalliance. 21. A self-provoking ear, that hearkeneth after all that others say against them, which may kindle hatred or dislike or passion in them. 22. A busy meddling ear, which loveth to hear of other men's faults or matters which concern them not, and to hearken to twatlers and carry-tales, and make-bates, and to have to do with evil reports. 23. A timorous, cowardly unbelieving ear, which trembleth at every threatening of man, though in a cause which is God's, and he hath promised to justify. 24. An idle ear, which can hearken to idle timewasting talk, and make the sins of twatlers your own. All these ways (and more) you are in danger of sinning by the ear, and becoming partakers in the sins of all whose sinful words you hear, and of turning into sin the words of God and his servants which are spoken for your good.
§. 3. Direct. 3. Know when the hearing of evil, and not hearing good is your sin: that is, 1. When it is not out of any imposed necessity, but of your voluntary choice: and when you might avoid it upon lawful terms, without a greater hurt, and will not. 2. When you hate not the evil, which you are necessitated to hear, and love not the good which through necessity you cannot hear; but your hearts comply with your necessities. 3. When you show not so much disowning and dislike of the evil which you hear, as you might do without an inconvenience greater than the benefit; but make it your own by sinful silence or compliance. 4. When you are presumptuous and fearless of your danger.
§. 4. Direct. 4. Know wherein the danger of such sinful hearing lieth. As 1. In displeasing God, who loveth not to see his children hearkening to those that are abusing him; nor to see them playing too boldly about fire or water, nor to touch any stinking or defiling thing; but calls to them, Come out from among them, and be ye separate saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing, and I will receive you. 2 Cor. 6. 16, 17, 18. 2. It is dangerous to your fantasie and memory; which quickly receiveth hurtful impressions by what you hear. If you should hear provoking words, even against your wills, yet it's hard to escape the receiving of some hurtful impression by them: And if you hear lascivious filthy words against your wills (much more if willingly ) it's two to one but they leave some thoughts in your minds which may gender unto further sin. And it is dangerous to your passions and affections, lest they catch fire before you are aware. And it is dangerous to your understandings lest they be perverted and seduced: and to your wills lest they be turned after evil, and turned away from good; and alas, how quickly is all this done? 3. It is dangerous to the speaker, lest your voluntary hearing encourage him in his sin, and hinder his repentance. 4. And it is dishonorable to God and Godliness.
§. 5. Direct. 5. Do your best to live in such company where you shall hear that which is good and edifying, and to escape that company whose conference is hurtful and corrupt. Run not yourselves into this temptation: Be sure you have a call, and your call must be discerned, 1. By your office or place; whether any duty of your office or relation bind you to be there. 2. By your ends: whether you be there as a Physician to do them good (as Christ went among sinners) or to do the work of your proper calling: or whether you are there out of a carnal, man-pleasing or temporizing humor? 3. By the measure of your abilities to attain those ends. 4. By the measure of your danger to receive the infection. 5. By the quality of your company, and the probability of Good or Evil in the event.
§. 6. Direct. 6. When you are called into ill company go fortified with defensive and offensive arms, as foreseeing what danger or duty you are like to be cast upon. Foresee what discourse you are like to hear, and accordingly prepare yourselves: Let your first preparation be to preserve yourselves from the hurt, and your next preparation to confute the evil, and convince the sinful speaker, or at least to preserve the endangered hearers, if you have ability, and opportunity. If you are to hear a seducing heretical Teacher, there is one kind of preparation to be made: If you are to hear a beastly filthy talker, there is another kind of preparation to be made. If you are to hear a cunning Pharisee, or malignant enemy of Godliness reproach or cavil or wrangle against the Scriptures or the ways of God, there is another kind of preparation to be made: If you are to hear but the senseless scorns or railings and bawlings of ignorant profane and sensual sots, there is another kind of preparation to be made: To give you particular Directions for your preparations against every such danger would make my work too tedious. But remember how much lieth upon your own preparations or unpreparedness.
§. 7. Direct. 7. Be not sinfully wanting in good discourse yourselves, if you would not be ensuared by bad discourse from others. Your good discourse may prevent, or divert, or shame, or disappoint their evil discourse. Turn the stream another way: And do it wisely, that you expose not your selves and your cause to scorn and laughter: And do it with such zeal as the cause requireth that you be not born down by their greater zeal in evil. And where it is unfit for you to speak, if it may be let your countenance or departure signify your dislike and sorrow.
§. 8. Direct. 8. Specially labor to mortify those sins, which the unavoidable discourse of your company doth most tempt you to: that where the Devil doth most to hurt you, you may there do most in your own defense. Doth the talk which you hear tend most to Heresy, Seduction, or to turn you from the truth? Study the more to be established in the truth: Read more books for it; and hear more that is said by wise and godly men against the error which you are tempted to. Is it to profaneness or dislike of a holy life, that your company tempt you? Address yourselves the more to God, and give up yourselves to holiness, and let your study and practice be such as tendeth to keep your souls in relish with holiness, and hatred of sin. Is it Pride that their applauding discourse doth tempt you to? Study the more the doctrine of Humiliation. Is it lust that they provoke you to, or is it drunkenness, gluttony, sinful recreations or excesses? Labor the more in the work of mortification, and keep the strictest guard where they assault you.
§. 9. Direct. 9. Be not unacquainted with the particular weaknesses and dangers of your own hearts, or any of your sinful inclinations: That when you know where the wall is weakest you may there make the best defense. That wanton word will set a wanton heart on fire, which a sober mind doth hear with pity as a bedlam kind of speech. A peevish passionate heart is presently disturbed and kindled, with those words which are scarce observed by a well-composed soul.
§. 10. Direct. 10. Hear every sinful word as dictated by the Devil; and suppose you saw him, all the while at the speakers elbow, putting each word into his mouth, and telling him what to say. For it is as verily the Devil that doth suggest them all, as if you saw him: Suppose you saw him behind the railer hissing him on as boys do dogs in fighting, and bidding him, Call him thus or thus: Suppose you saw him at the malignants ear, bidding him, Revile a holy life, and speak evil of the ways and servants of the Lord: Suppose you saw him behind the wanton, bidding him use such ribbald talk, or on the stage suggesting it to the actors; or at the ear of those that would provoke you to passion, to tell them what to say against you: This just supposition would much preserve you.
〈1 page duplicate〉 〈1 page duplicate〉§. 11. Direct. 11. Suppose you heard the end annexed to every speech: As when you hear one tempting you to lust, suppose he said, come, let us take our pleasure a while and be damned forever: So also in every word that tempteth you to any other sin; if the Tempter put in the sin, do you put in God's wrath and Hell, and separate not that which God hath adjoined, but with the serpent see the sting.
§. 12. Direct. 12. Observe when the infection first seizeth on you, and presently take an antidote to expel it, if y • u love your souls. The signs of infection are, 1. When your zeal abateth, and you grow more indifferent what you hear. 2. Next you will feel some little inclination to it. 3. Next you will a little venture upon an imitation. 4. And lastly you will come to full consent, and so to ruin. If you feel but a remitting of your dislike and hatred, or any filth or tincture left on your thoughts and fantasie, go presently and shake them off; Bewail it to God in true Repentance, and wash your souls in the blood of Christ, and cast up the poison by holy resolutions, and sweat out the remnant by the servant exercises of Love and Holiness.
PART. IV. Directions for Governing the Taste and Appetite.
Tit. 1. Directions against Gluttony.
§. 1. THE most that is necessary to be said to acquaint you with the Nature and Evil of this sin, is said before in Chap. 4. Part 7. against Flesh-pleasing: But something more particularly must be said, 1. To show you what is and what is not the sin of Gluttony, 2. To show you the Causes of it. 3. The odiousness of it, and 4. To acquaint you with the more particular Helps and Means against it.
§ 2. I. Gluttony is a Voluntary excess in eating, for the pleasing of the Appetite or some other carnal end. Here note, 1. The Matter, 2. The end or effect of this excess. 1. It is sometime an excess in quantity: when more is eaten, than is meet. 2. Or else it may be an excess in the Delicious quality, when more regard is had of the Delight and sweetness than is meet. 3. Or it may be an excess in the frequency and ordinary unseasonableness of eating: When men eat too oft and sit at it too long. 4. It may be an excess in the costliness or price, when men feed themselves at too high rates. 5. Or it may be an excess of curiosity in the dressing, and saw • ing and ordering of all. 2. And it is usually for some carnal end: whether it may be properly called Glttony if a man should think that at a Sacrifice or thanksgiving he were bound to eat inordinately, and so made the service of God his end, we need not inquire; (though I see not but it may have that name) For thats a case that is more rare; and it is undoubtedly a sin: And it is Gluttony if it be done for the pleasing of others that are importunate with you. But the common Gluttony is when it is done for the pleasing of the Appetite, with such a pleasure, as is no help to Health or Duty, but usually a hurt to Body or Soul, the Body being hurt by the excess, the soul is hurt by the inordinate Pleasure.
§. 3. Yea it is a kind of Gluttony and excess, when men will not fast or abstain when they are required, from that which at other times they may use with abstinence and without blame. If a man use not to eat excessively nor deliciously, yet if he will not abstain from his temperate diet, either at a public fast, or when his lust requireth him to take down his body, or when his Physician would diet him for his health, and his disease else would be increased by what he eateth, this is an inordinate eating and excess, to that person, at that time. Or if the Delight that the appetite hath in one sort of meat, which is hurtful to the body, prevail against reason and health so with the person, that he will not forbear it, it is a degree of Gulosity or Gluttony, though for quantity and quality it be in itself but mean and ordinary.
§. 4. By this you may see, 1. That it is not the same quantity which is an excess in one, which is in another. A laboring man may eat somewhat more than one that doth not labor, and a strong, and healthful body more than the weak and sick: It must be an excess in quantity, as to that particular person at that time, which is, when to please his appetite he eateth more than is profitable to his health or duty. 2. So also the frequency must be considered with the quality of the person: For one person may rationally eat a little and often for his health, and another may luxuriously eat ofter than is profitable to health: Eccles. 10. 16, 17. Woe to thee O land when thy King is a child, and thy Princes eat in the morning. Blessed art thou O land, when thy King is the son of Nobles, and thy Princes eat in due season, for strength and not for drunkenness. 3. And in point of costliness, the same measure is not to be set to a Prince and to a plow-man: that is, luxurious excess in one, which may be temperance and frugality in another: But yet, unprofitable cost, which all things considered would do more good another way, is excess in whomsoever: 4. And in curiosity of diet, a difference must be allowed: The happier healthful man need not be so curious as the sick: And the happy Plowman need not be so curious, as state and expectation somewhat require the Noble and the Rich to be. 5. And for length of time, though unnecessary sitting out time at meat, be a sin in any, yet the happy poor man is not obliged to spend all out so much this way, as the Rich may do. 6. And it is not all delight in meat, or pleasing the appetite that is a sin: But only that which is made men's end, and not referred to a higher end; even when the Delight itself doth not tend to health nor all • crity in duty, nor is used to that end, but to please the flesh and tempt unto excess. 7. And it is not necessary that we measure the profitableness of quantity or quality by the present and immediate benefits; but by the more remote sometimes; so merciful is God, that he alloweth us that which is truly for our good, and forbiddeth us but that which doth us hurt, or at least, no good. 8. All sin in eating is not Gluttony; but only such as are here described.
§. 5. II. The causes of Gluttony are these: 1. The chiefest is an inordinate appetite together with a fleshly mind and will, which is set upon Flesh-pleasing as its felicity: They that are after the flesh do mind the things of the flesh, Rom. 8. 6, 7. This Gulosity which Clemens Alexandrinus calleth The Throat-Devil, and the Belly-Devil is the first cause.
§. 6. 2. The next cause is, The want of strong Reason, faith and a spiritual appetite and mind which should call off the Glutton, and take him up with higher pleasures; even such as are more manly, and in which his real Happiness doth consist. They that are after the spirit do mind the things of the spirit, Rom. 8. 6. Reason alone may do something to call up a man from this felicity of a beast, (as appeareth by the Philosophers assaults upon the Epicures:) but faith and love which feast the soul with sweeter delicates, must do the cure.
§. 7. 3. Gluttony is much increased by Use: when the Appetite is used to be satisfied, it will be the more importunate and impetuous: whereas a custom of Temperance maketh it easy, and makes excess a matter of no delight but burden. I remember myself, that when I first set upon the use of Cornario 's and Lessius diet (as it is called) (which I did for a time for some special reasons,) it seemed a little hard for two or three days; but within a week it became a pleasure, and another sort or more was not desirable. And I think almost all that use one dish only and a small quantity do find that more is a trouble and not a temptation to them: so great a matter is use (unless it be with very strong and laboring persons.)
§. 8. 4. Idleness and want of diligence in a calling is a great cause of Luxury and Gluttony: Though labor cause a healthful appetite, yet it cureth a beastly sensual mind: An idle person hath leisure to think of his guts, what to eat and what to drink, and to be longing after this and that: whereas a man that is wholly taken up in lawful business, especially such as findeth employment for the mind, as well as for the body, hath no leisure for such thoughts: He that is close at his studies, or other calling hath somewhat else to think on than his appetite.
§. 9. 5. Another incentive of Gluttony is the Pride of Rich men, who to be accounted good Housekeepers, and to live at such rates as are agreeable to their Grandeur, do make their houses shops of sin, and as bad as Ale-houses, making their Tables a snare both to themselves and others, by fullness, variety, deliciousness, costliness, and curiosity of Fare: It is the honor of their Houses that a man may drink excessively in their Cellars when he please: and that their Tables have excellent provisions for gluttony, and put all that sit at them upon the trial of their Temperance, whether a bait so near them and so studiously fitted, can tempt them to break the bounds and measure which God hath set them. It is a lamentable thing when such as have the rule of others, and influence on the common people, shall think their honor lieth upon their sin; yea upon such a constant course of sinning? and shall think it a dishonor to them to live in sweet and wholesome Temperance, and to see that those about them do the like? And all this is, either because they over-value the esteem and talk of fleshly Epicures, and cannot bear the Censure of a Swine, or else because they are themselves of the same mind, and are such as Glory in their shame. Phil. 3. 18, 19.
§. 10. 6. Another incentive is the custom of urging and importuning others to eat still more and more; as if it were a necessary act of friendship. People are grown so uncharitable and selfish, that they suspect one another, and think they are not welcome, if they be not urged thus to eat: And those that invite them think they must do it to avoid the suspicion of such a sordid mind: And I deny not but it is fit to urge any to that which it is fit for them to do: and if we see that modesty maketh them eat less than is best for them, we may persuade them to eat more. But now without any due respect to what is best for them, men think it a necessary complement to provoke others more and more to eat, till they peremptorily refuse it: But amongst the familiarest friends there is scarce any that will admonish one another against excess, and advise them to stop when they have enough; and tell them how easy it is to step beyond our bounds, and how much more prone we are to exceed, than to come short: And so custom and complement is preferred before temperance and honest fidelity. You'll say, what will men think of us if we should not persuade them to eat, much more if we should desire them to eat no more? I answer, 1. Regard your duty more than what men think of you: Prefer virtue before the thoughts or breath of men. 2. But yet if you do it wisely, the wise and good will think much the better of you. You may easily let them see that you do it not in fordid sparing, but in love of Temperance and of them; if you speak but when there is need either for eating more or less; and if your discourse be first in general for Temperance, and apply it not till you see that they need help in the application. 3. It is undeniable that healthful persons are much more prone to excess, than to the defect in eating, and that nature is very much bent to Luxury and Gluttony, I think as much as to any one sin; and its as sure that it is a beastly breeding odious sin: And if this be so, is it not clear that we should do a great deal more to help one another against such Luxury than to provoke them to it? Had we not a greater regard to men's favor and fancies and reports than to God and the good of their souls, the case were soon decided.
§. 11. 7. Another cause of Gluttony is, that Rich men are not acquainted with the true Use of Riches, nor think of the account which they must make to God of all they have: They think that their Riches are their own, and that they may use them as they please; or that they are given them as plentiful provisions for their flesh, and they may use them for themselves to satisfy their own desires, as long as they drop some crumbs or scraps, or small matters to the poor: They think they may be saved just in the same way that the Rich man in Luk. 16. was damned; and he that would have warned his five Brethren that they come not to that place of torment, is yet himself no warning to his followers: They are clothed in purple and fine linen or silk, and fare sumptuously or deliciously every day, and have their good things in this life and perhaps think they merit by giving the scraps to Lazarus (which its like that Rich man also did). But God will one day make them know, that the Richest were but his Stewards, and should have made a better distribution of his provisions, and a better improvement of his Talents; and that they had nothing of all their Riches given them for any hurtful, or unprofitable pleasing of their Appetites, nor had no more allowance for Luxury than the poor. If they knew the Right use of Riches, it would reform them.
§. 12. 8. Another cause of Gluttony is their unacquaintedness with those Rational and Spiritual Exercises in which the delightful fruits of Abstinence do most appear. A man that is but a painful serious Student, in any noble study whatsoever, doth find a great deal of • erenity and aptitude come by Temperance, and a great deal of cloudy mistiness on his mind, and dullness on his invention, come by fullness and excess: And a man that is used to holy contemplations, meditation, reading, prayer, self-examination or any spiritual converse above, or with his heart, doth easily find a very great difference; how abstinence helpeth, and Luxury and fullness hinder him. Now these Epicures have no acquaintance with any such Holy or Manly works; nor any mind of them, and are therefore unacquainted with the sweetness and benefit of abstinence; and having no taste or trial of its benefits, they cannot value it. They have nothing to do when they rise from eating but a little talk about their worldly business, or complement and talk with company which expect them, or go to their sports to empty their paunches for another meele, and quicken their appetites lest Luxury should decay: as the Israelites worshipped the Golden Calf, (and as the Heathens their God Bacchus ) Exod. 32. 5. They sat down to eat and drink, and rose up to play: Their diet is fitted to their work! Their idle or worldly lives agree with gluttony: But were they accustomed to better work, they would find a necessity of a better dy •• .
§. 13. 9. Another great cause of Gluttony is men's beastly ignorance of what is hurtful or helpful to their very health: They make their Appetites their Rule for the quantity and quality of their food. And they think that nature teacheth them so to do, because it giveth them such an Appetite, and because it is the measure to a beast. And to prove themselves Beasts, they therefore take it for their measure: As if their natures were not Rational but only sensitive; or nature had not given them Reason to be the superior and Governor of sense? As if they knew not that God giveth the Bruits an appetite more bounded because they have not Reason to bound it; and giveth them not the temptation of your delicate varieties; or giveth them a concoction answerable to their appetites; and yet giveth man to be the Rational Governor of those of them that are for his special service and apt to exceed: And if his Swine, his Horses, and his Cattle were all left to their Appetites, they would live but a little while. If promiscuous generating be not lawful in mankind, which is lawful in bruits, why should they not confess the same of the Appetite. Men have so much love of life and fear of death, that if they did but know how much their Gluttony doth hasten their death, it would do more to restrain it with the most, than the fear of death eternal doth. But they judge of their digestion by their present feeling: If they feel not their stomachs sick, or disposed to vomit, or if no present pain correct them, they think their Gluttony doth not hurt them, and think they have eaten no more than doth them good. But of this more anon in the Directions.
§. 14. 10. Another great cause of Gluttony is that it is grown the common custom, and being not known, is in no disgrace, unless men eat till they spew, or to some extraordinary measure. And so the measure which every man seeth another use, he thinketh is moderation and is fit for him: whereas the ignorance of Physic and matters of their own health, hath made Gluttony almost as common as eating, with those that are not restrained by want or sickness: And so every man is an example of evil to another, and encourage one another in the sin: If Gluttony were but in as much disgrace as whoredom, yea or as