Ministers Spiritual Parents
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Ministers, Spiritual Parents, or Fathers in the Church of GOD. A SERMON Preach'd At the ORDINATION OF The Rev. Mr. John Lowell, At Newbury, Jan. 19. 1725, 6.
By Thomas Foxcroft, Pastor of a Church in Boston.
N. B. Several Paragraphs, and many Sentences, omitted (for brevity) in the Preaching, are here inserted.
BOSTON in N. E. Printed by B. Green for Samuel Gerrish, in Cornhill. 1726.
Ministers, Spiritual Fathers, in the Church of GOD.
II. COR. XII. 14, 15.
— I will not be burdensome to you; for I seek not yours, but you: for the Children ought not to lay up for the Parents, but the Parents for the Children. And I will very gladly spend, and be spent for you —.
_THESE are the Words (you are sensible) of blessed Paul, the great Doctor of the Gentiles, & as one calls him, the great Pattern of the Clergy. They breathe the true Spirit of a Minister of Jesus Christ ; and are very agreeable, I hope, to the Dispositions & Resolutions of our dear Brother, who is this day to be solemnly separated to the Ministry of the Gospel. As they are very fit to be his Ordination-Vow; so I am persuaded, they enter into his Soul, and tell us the secret Language of his Heart: and truly glad should I have been, if (pursuant to the Custom, which hath so long obtained among us) he could have been prevailed on to take up the Book at this time, & preach to us his own devout Thoughts & Purposes. Or otherwise, if he might justly be excused upon the Plea's usually advanced in this case, against the common Custom,— Why could not some venerable Father or elder Brother in this Neighbourhood, have taken the desk? Which, as it must needs have been acceptable to the Audience, so I am sure exceedingly more pleasing to me, who am the unfittest among the Multitude of my Brethren, to speak on so great an Occasion, and to such an Assembly. But since this part of the Day's work has been devolv'd upon me, I would ask your ready & grave Attention, while I endeavor, with all plainness of Speech and in the most familiar & useful manner I can, to represent & urge some of the Things which concern both Ministers & People. Men & Brethren, I pretend not to any new Doctrine, neither stand here to inform or dictate: but bear with me, while I stir up your Minds by way of Remembrance. For so it becomes us to exhort & admonish one another, especially on these Solemnities; and not be negligent to put each other always in mind of these Things, altho' we know them, and are established in the present Truth.
The words I have read to you, contain a rich Fund of useful & seasonable Meditations. But should I attempt a just Discourse on the several parts of the Text, I must needs transgress the usual Limits, and take up abundantly too much of the Time, which on such a day particularly is very precious. If therefore I wave the formality of dividing my Text, as well as pass over the Connection of the words, and but hint at some of the Reflections they afford, (that I may not be over tedious & burdensome) you will easily forgive me this wrong.
The Argument I have chiefly in view, and which seems a genuine & obvious Inference from the inspired passage before us, is this,—
The Apostle hints the Relation, & breathes the Spirit, in the words of our Text: and his constant Practice was full of bright & instructive Comments upon it.
The Parental Relation is the second in human Nature; next to the Conjugal. 'It is a superior Relation, and carries Authority with it: a near Relation, and bespeaks the tenderest Love, the greatest Care, and Complacence. It carries a peculiar Affection & Endearment, to sweeten & regulate the Authority and Power of it. And this may be the Reason why it is made a Pattern, & every other Relation, in which there's Superiority, is in Scripture set forth under the Parental Character. Hence the Supreme Lord of all is styled the Everlasting Father ; and when he would set out his own boundless Love & Pity to his People, He compares it to the Bowels of a Mother, and the Compassion of a Father, as the most lively and sensible Representations. — Hence also Civil Rulers are called Fathers. In several Nations, the Princes & Governors have affected this Title, as the most splendid Badge of Honor. Among the Philistines, their Princes assumed the appellative Name, Abimelech, i. e. My Father the King. The Roman Senators of old thought it their brightest Character to be Patriae Patres, Fathers of their Country; and the Orator constantly salutes them with the Style of Patres conscripti. — Job, that godly Arabian Prince, glories in it, that he was a Father to his People. The Egyptians cried after Joseph 's Chariot, Abreck, i. e. (as many carry it) Tender Father ! And in the Prophet, it is promised the Church, that Kings should be Nursing Fathers, and Queens Nursing Mothers to her.—But then this is the style of Ministers, as well as Magistrates. There are Fathers in the Church, as well as the State. And indeed this Title of Father was in old time a very common Name for the Ministers of Religion. Hence Elisha cried after the ascending Prophet, My Father, my Father! — And He had this Respect repaid him by the King of Israel, who wept over the dying Prophet, saying, O my Father, my Father! — And some good Interpreters judge, that Solomon personates the Preacher, where he says, Hear, ye Children, the Instruction of a Father, and attend to know Understanding. A manner of Address much like that so often used by the Apostle John, — My little Children, these things write I unto you, that you sin not: Little Children, let no man deceive you. He used this Compellation, as being a Father to them by Office, as well as in Years. And to add no more, Micah invited the wandering young Levite to his House, in those Terms, — Dwell with me, and be unto me a Father, and a Priest. And in the same Language was he afterwards invited away by the Children of Dan,—Go with us, and be to us a Father, and a Priest.
I come now to my Design, which mainly is to take a View of the Gospel Minister under this notion of a Spiritual Father : A Character, which though it be very naturally applicable to him, and is a Scripture-Title, and must needs be equally pleasant and profitable to meditate upon, yet perhaps but seldom has been allowed its due Consideration. 'It is not an empty Title; but is full of Duty, full of Dignity, Sweetness and Charm. This external Character, when found in conjunction with those intrinsic Excellencies, Accomplishments, & Virtues, which correspond to it, gives us the most Divine Idea of the Gospel-Minister, & makes him appear in his truest Glory.
This Character, applied to Ministers, may import the following things more especially
1. It carries in it an Idea of Power and Dignity, and speaks the Eminence of their Station in the House of GOD.
2. It hints to us the noble End of their Institution; with the Importance and Usefulness of such an Order of Men.
3. It points out the Nature and Business of their Office.
4. It suggests to us what their Qualifications and Accomplishments should be.
5 It tells us what Tempers and Deportments do become them.
Finally, It teaches us the Duty and Respect, which People owe to their Ministers.
Nothing short of these Things can be intended in this Character of Parents or Fathers ; and all of them I think, are fairly included. They are comprehensive Heads of Discourse: but I shall endeavor to sum up what is to be said upon them, in as few words as is consistent with my double Design, respecting Parents as well Natural, as Ecclesiastical.
I. Then, Ministers may be called Parents or Fathers, in regard of their Station and Authority in the Church.
The Pastor stands as 'twere in the Father's place; a Post of Dignity and Power.
Every Father ordinarily has a Family and Household of his own: and all that belong to it are Subordinate to Him, in their Domestic Capacity. He is the Head of the House, by the Law of Nature and Reason of Things. As the Head is the highest and most conspicuous Part of the Body; is placed at the Top, has a governing Power ever all the rest of the Members, & is the Glory of the Man: So the Parents are the principal and most eminent Members of the Family; but in special, the Father. The Husband is the Head of the Wife: and besure then the Father is Head over the Children.
Man is by the Capacity and Propensity of his Nature, a sociable Creature: well still'd by the Philosopher, A political Animal. We are formed for mutual Fellowship and Commerce; without which many valuable purposes of Life cannot be served. 'It is necessary to the political Well-being of Mankind, that they combine together in distinct Societies: and equally necessary it is, that in every Society there be Government and Order. Now a Family is the first Society in Nature; a kind of little Kingdom, where the Distinctions of Superior and Inferior, Governor and Governed take place, by an inevitable Necessity, and the force of natural Light. Had Mankind continued in their original State of Innocence and Happiness, it is highly probable there would have been a Distinction of Orders and Degrees among them. Doubtless at least there had been distinct Families: and Nature has in these founded an immutable Difference of Order, a Superiority & Inferiority between the Parents and the Children. Levilism here besure is contrary to the unalterable Reason of Things, and bids Defiance to the God of Nature. The Superiority and Power of Parents in their own Houses, is established upon the justest and most inviolable Claims: and the careful preservation of it makes much for the Harmony, Beauty and Strength of these little Bodies politick.
Now, when Ministers are called Parents or Fathers, it may intimate that their Station and Figure in the Church, carries a Shadow of this Paternal Eminence. JESUS CHRIST is Supreme Head of the Church: but He has deputed Ministers to preside over particular Flocks or Families of his People, as his Substitutes and Agents. We read, 1 Cor. 12.27, 28. Ye are the Body of Christ, and Members in particular: And GOD hath set some in the Church, Teachers, — Helps, Governments. So Eph. 4.11. He gave— some Pastors and Teachers, — for the work of the Ministry, till we all come, &c. — The Church is compared to a Household, (which is an orderly Society, implying a Variety of Members, in a State of Inequality and Subordination) and Ministers are placed therein as Fathers, to guide the House.
The many other exalted Titles and Names of Authority given them in the Scriptures, make this appear with a glaring Evidence. Thus they are called Angels ; partly no doubt with an eye to the distinguishing Elevation and Authority of those Heavenly Powers, as well as to their eminent Purity and Zeal. So, the Lights of the World; in allusion to the glorious Luminaries over our Heads; the Sun which was made to rule by Day, and the Moon and Stars, which were made to rule by Night. They are called Stars ; because they move in a Superior Orb, as well as to "signify their diffusive Light and beneficial Influences" — They are called Overseers of the Church, and are said to be over them in the Lord; to have the Rule over them. — Not for that they have Dominion over their Faith and Conscience, but are helpers of their Joy: Neither as being Lord's, to tyrannize over GODs Heritage; but as Parents, whose Yoke is naturally of all others the most easy, and their Burden light. Yet neither do We pretend to stretch the power of Ministers to the height of Parental Authority, or make it altogether of the same kind; but only ascribe to them some faint Resemblance and lower Degrees. We mean not to assume to ourselves a Civil or Temporal Superiority and Dominion: but only assert our Station in the Church, and Right of Precedence and Rule in Ecclesiastical Affairs, according to the Word of GOD, that unerring Directory. We would make This our grand Rule, in the exercise of our Pastoral Authority. And (I will add) so far as we appprehend that celebrated Summary of Church-Discipline, commonly called the Platform, is grounded on the Scriptures, we heartily concur with it, and desire to guide ourselves by it in our Pastoral Care. Agreeable to this we claim a kind of Parental Power in the Church. — Yet we confess, our Authority is not Legislative, but Executive; not of a carnal, but spiritual Nature: not coercive, but suasory and rational; not solitary, but social, to be exercised (ordinarily at least) in the presence and with the Consent of the Church.
Neither do we pretend to exercise Pastoral Government in any other than the particular Churches, which we are called to the oversight of; even as the Heads of Families extend not their parental Power beyond the Limits of their particular Charges. — Nor do we submit to any Foreign Jurisdiction, in Affairs Spiritual and Ecclesiastical. We are for Communion of Pastors, & Communion of Churches in all the Offices of Brotherly Love & Neighborly Care and Assistance,
II. When Ministers are called Parents, it points us to the excellent End of their Institution, and proclaims the Importance and Usefulness of this Order of Men.
This Character leads us to the noble Design of their being set in the Church, which is, that they may seek the Good of Jerusalem all their Days, and be singular Blessings to their Generation. For such is the wise Parent in his Family, and to the World. Vast are the Benefits, unknown the happy Fruits of Parental Care and Love, under a due Regulation, and accompanied with the Divine Benediction. A Parent has peculiar Opportunities to serve his Generation, by training up his Children in Wisdom and Virtue. Parents (as such) generally move in a Sphere very narrow; but yet of peculiar Importance to the Public: and they often become diffusive Blessings, by the good Education of their Children, and discreet Government of their private Charges. And both the Nature of their Relation, and the Intention of the GOD of Nature, render it necessary, that Parents study in this way to do signal Service to the World.
Hence this Title of Parents, given to Ministers, carries us back to the Original Design of their Office, viz. the Good of Mankind, and more especially of the People under their Charge. The Ministry surely was never instituted, merely that some Men might have the advantage to get a Living by it, or obtain a little Distinction and Power above others: But the primary Intention of it was, to be a Ministry under Christ, to the good of Souls; that such as are of this Order, might approve themselves Fathers to a People, in all Offices of Love to their Souls; and by promoting Peace, Order, Virtue and Religion among them, become great Benefactors to the Public. — This Style of Parents tells us what should be our main Inducement, in taking up this holy Calling; and what the governing Aim of our Ministry ought to be, in all the Acts and Exercises of it, whether referring to Doctrine, Worship, or Discipline. It tells us what Blessings Ministers should Study to be, and what Blessings all faithful and wise Ministers in fact are, to a People: as Lights, to guide them; as Pillars and Foundations, to support them; as Fountains, to refresh them; as Shields, to defend them. Those two Characters were very agreeably united in the Lamentation of Joash, over the Prophet on his Death bed, O my Father, my Father, the Chariots of Israel, and the Horsemen thereof. !— As to particular Families, much of their Beauty & Safety is bound up in the wise & good Fathers at the Head of them. Even so learned and faithful Ministers are very much the Strength and Glory of a People. Hence the Apostle observes, that the Office of a Bishop is a good Work, 1 Tim. 3.1.
III. This Title of Parents, give to Ministers, very much points out the Nature and Business of their Office.
'It is not an airy Title of Honor, this of Parents; but is big with solid Duty, and implies abundant Business, Care, and Labor. You that are Parents, and have Families, are doubtless so sensible of the daily Returns of Duty, Toil, & Fatigue, in the Parental Station, that you need not any Amplifications on this head, to illustrate the matter to you.
Agreeably the work of the Ministry is a great Work, and in some Places almost an immense Labor. Whatever many may think of it, 'tis no Idle or Easy Profession; but full of Services, laborious, painful, & continually revolving. To which add the Consideration of their own Infirmities, natural as well as moral, being Men of like Passions with others; together with the perverse Humours of many proud and obstinate Sinners they have to deal with; & the various Temptations that attend this Employment, from Satan, the Flesh, and World—. These Reflections conspire (agreeably to this Character of Parents given Ministers) to proclaim the Difficulty of their Calling. And this Character may serve to inform us very much in the Nature & Business of their Office. Here let me say distinctly,
1. 'It is the Business of Ministers to endeavor the Regeneration and Conversion of Sinners.
They may be called Fathers, as they are instrumental to propagate the Divine Nature, & promote the New Birth of Souls. 'It is on this Account that the Apostle stiles himself a Father to the Christians at Corinth, & calls them his beloved Sons ; for (says he) in Christ Jesus I have begotten you through the Gospel . So he says to Philemon, I beseech thee for my SON Onesimus, whom I have begotten in my bonds. — Hence the Gospel-Administration is called the Regeneration . We are all by Nature Children of Wrath, Children of the Devil, a Seed of evil Doers. But GOD in the Riches of his Grace, seeking to himself a godly Seed, sent his only begotten Son into the World, that he should taste Death for every Man, and thereby recover us unto Life, Liberty & Happiness. For it became Him, for whom are all things, and by whom are all things, in bringing many Sons unto glory, to make the Captain of their Salvation perfect thro Sufferings. And now it pleaseth GOD by the Foolishness of Preaching to save them that believe. We preach Christ crucified; and are not ashamed of the Gospel of Christ; for it is the Power of GOD unto Salvation. 'It is the grand means of begetting Souls to a spiritual Life. Jam. 1.18. Of his own Will begat He us, with the Word of Truth. So 1 Pet. 1.23. Being born again, not of corruptible Seed, but of incorruptible, by the word of God. There is a kind of propagatory Virtue in the Gospel of Christ, which is applied by the Spirit of GOD for the production of a spiritual offspring. The Word doth not produce the new Creature merely by its own natural Efficacy; but by the concurring Operation of Divine Grace on the Heart. 'It is therefore called the Ministry of the Spirit: & we are said to be born of the Spirit; yet also to be born again by the Word, and Ministers are said to beget us through the Gospel. — Hence then (in a remote and low and improper sense) the Character of Parents may be applied to Ministers, as they are Instruments in the Conversion of Sinners: and the Converts of Zion may in a subordinate sense be called their Sons & Daughters. "Aaron 's Sons (as one observes) are called the Generations of Moses, as well as Aaron (Numb. 3.1.) though none of his natural Sons are there mentioned — Aaron 's they were by natural Generation; Moses 's perhaps by a spiritual Regeneration and Instruction"
The Work of Ministers is to turn Sinners to GOD thro' the Gospel; and thereby to raise up a spiritual Seed to Christ, their Elder Brother. — Not indeed that they can do this by any Principle or Power in themselves; nor may they attempt it in their own solitary strength, but must have their absolute Dependence on Christ, who said even to his Apostles (those eminent Fathers of the Church) Without Me, Ye can do nothing. — In this matter of the New-Birth, verily a Paul is nothing; an Apollo is nothing; but all our Sufficiency is of GOD. 'It is His sole Prerogative to give the Increase. — Thus even as to natural Birth, this is not in the power of Mortals: but its GOD that frameth our Bodies in secret, and formeth the Spirit of Man within him. Hear what good Jacob said to his discontented Wife, Gen. 30.2. Jacob's anger was kindled against Rachel, and he said,
2. Their business is to provide for, nourish and feed the Children of GOD
'It is one of the duties of Parents toward their Children, to make all needful provision for their temporal Livelihood. Thus, while in their helpless Infancy, the Parents must carefully nurse & cherish their tender bodies, and endeavor to supply all their wants. And during their whole minority, they should take care that they be well provided for, suitably to their age, quality, & the like; should see 'em trained up in some good and profitable Business, by which they may afterwards be able (if need be) to provide for themselves; and should study to lay up Something to leave as an agreeable Portion to them Hence the Apostle tells us in our Text, "The Parents ought to lay up for the Children This indeed is one of the fundamental dictates of Nature, as well as Religion. So that (as he observes elsewhere) If any Man provide not for his own, especially for those of his own house, he hath denied the Faith and is worse than an Infidel: — yea is lost to all natural Affection, & become more vile than the very Brutes that have no understanding; who from an Instinct of Nature are very provident Caterers for their Young. Thus the Hen lovingly gathereth her Chickens under her Wings, and with greatest Care and Industry feeds and cherishes her tender Brood, till able to provide for themselves. (Even the Sea-Monsters draw out the breast, and give suck to their Whelps.) Only the Ostrich of the Wilderness is cruel, who leaveth her eggs in the dust, forgetting that the foot may crush them, and is hardened against her young ones as though' they were not hers. Unto which cruel Bird may he be liken'd, who provides not for his own. Surely such an one is more brutish than any Man, and has forfeited the name of Father. 'It is one essential Property of a Parent to provide as well as he can for the comfortable Subsistence of his Children. In this respect Job calls himself a Father to the Poor, and Joseph was made a Father to Pharaoh and his People. And this is alluded to, where the GOD of Israel saith, I have nourished and brought up children, &c.
Now in this respect Ministers are to act the part of Fathers toward their People, by providing & dispensing spiritual Food to them, for the strengthening and improving the Divine Life in their Souls. Their Duty is suggested in that precious Promise, Jer. 3.15. I will give you Pastors according to mine heart, which shall feed you with Knowledge and Understanding. It was prophesied of Christ, Mic. 5.4. He shall stand and feed in the strength of the Lord. — Even so Ministers are charged to do: See Act. 20.28. & 1 Pet. 5.2.
They must be nursing Fathers to the new-born Babes (Young and feeble Christians) and feed them with the sincere Milk of the Word (with easy plain Truths, first Principles of the Oracles of GOD) that they may grow thereby: for such have need of Milk, and not of strong Meat. In which we have the Apostle for an Example, who says, 1 Cor. 3.1, 2.
Ministers are Stewards of the Mysteries of GOD, and should feed the Household with Food convenient; rightly dividing the Word, and giving to everyone his proper portion, whether of Instruction, Reproof, Advice, or Comfort. And they should endeavor that all who (in a Judgment of rational Charity) have a right to the Children's bread, may be partakers of Baptism and the Lord's Supper : and by the dispensation of these Ordinances, as well as of the Word, they are to feed the Flock of GOD, & confirm the Souls of the Disciples.
They should continually be either distributing the Bread of Life to Souls, or preparing the sacred Food. They must by daily Study and Prayer be laying up in Head and Heart a Treasure of Knowledge, that they may be able with the good Householder to bring forth things both new and old. They must look well to their Preparations for the Pulpit; that they donit starve the Souls of their People, with deceitful meat, and unprofitable Trash; but nourish them up with substantial and agreeable Food (with sound Doctrine, with wholesome words) even as a Father cherisheth his Children — Moreover, as Parents know how to give good Gifts to their Children, and usually leave to them some special Tokens of their Love, for a Memorial of 'em, when they are gone: so should Ministers be ready to impart spiritual Gifts unto their People (to the end that they may be established) by Spreading Books of Piety among them, as they are able, and therein make provision for coming Generations, as well as for the present. Agreeably thus saith the Apostle, 2 Pet. 1.15. I will endeavor that you may be able after my Decease, to have these things always in remembrance. Nature, as well as Religion, teaches us to consult the Benefit of Posterity, and lay up in Store for these that shall come after us. A good Man (its said) leaves an Inheritance to his Children. The best Entail is Religion, which relates to the Soul, the better Part. The Soul is the Man: and Provision for that is the most excellent Provision, most worthy the Care of natural Parents, and in a peculiar manner of Ecclesiastical Fathers, whose special Employment is to promote the Welfair of Souls.
3. 'It is their business to instruct, inspect, & govern the Family committed to their Charge.
'It is the Duty of Parents to instruct their Household, both in the Things which concern the Life that now is, and in those which relate to the Life that is to come. They must see that their Children be taught some useful Art, Trade, or Employment, and impart to 'em as much as is proper of the Knowledge of this World. But above all, it's of indispensable obligation on Parents to teach their Children the Fear of the Lord, & instruct them in the Knowlege of Christ, whom to know is Life eternal. They must walk in their Houses according to Knowlege ; being themselves well acquainted with their Bibles, and ready to communicate their Knowlege to their Children, that everyone of them may (with Timothy ) from a Child know the Scriptures, which are able to make them wise unto Salvation, thro' Faith which is in Christ Jesus. They should in a solemn manner daily read the sacred Writings to their Families, as valuing the Word of GOD more than their necessary Food. They should also frequently Catechize their Children (instilling into them the Elements of Religion) so long as they are such as have need of Milk. They should also by Familiar Discourse from time to time (as they are able) open to them the Scriptures, while they walk by the way, or sit in the House, when they lie down, and when they rise up, giving them Line upon Line, here a little & there a little. — And as they come to riper Age, must proportion and adapt their Instructions to their growing capacity.
Even so Ministers are set in the Church to be Teachers. And they must teach their larger Families, in all the forementioned ways; giving attendence (with Timothy to Reading, to Exhortation, and Doctrine. The Priests Lips should preserve Knowlege, and dispense it. But this having been glanc'd at under a former Head, I shall only observe here, that on this account Ministers may be called Fathers, and their People their Children. We are apt to venerate them as our Fathers, that have the Tuition and Instruction of us. The Term seems to be applied in this sense, to the Young Levite, Be thou a Father (i. e. a Teacher) and a Priest unto us. For 'twas the business of the Levites, to teach the good Knowlege of the Lord. In Gen. 4.21.22. Father and Instructour are used as equivalent Term. So Mat. 23.9. Call no man your Father upon Earth ; Yield not an implicit Faith to the most learned Do •• ur in the World; submit to no man as an infallible Guide. Father seems there to be put for Master or Instructor. Hence that phrase, The Sons of the Prophets, i. e. their Disciples or Scholars.
But further, Parents have also an Inspection and Government over their Children, to keep peace and 〈◊〉 to restrain, reprove, correct, advise & charge: 〈◊〉 must not only keep up Family Instruction▪ but likewise Family-Government & Discipline must be duly maintained. It was utterly a Fault in Eli, that when his Sons made themselves vile, he restrained them not. And alike negligent was David, of his Son Adonijah, concerning whom we read, His Father had not displeased him at any time, in saying, Why hast thou done so? — No wonder then that he exalted himself in the manner he did, to supersede & dethrone his indulgent Father. Most of the Confusions & Miscarriages in Families are owing to the Parents faulty Negligence, & Imprudence, & Unfaithfulness. No Society can well subsist without Government & Order; and as the best way to maintain Authority in Families, is to advance & keep up Religion in it: so Parents should apply their Authority to promote Religion in their Houses by all possible methods of Wisdom. The Light of Nature teaches us, that every Man should bear Rule in his own House: and Religion teaches us, that there is no power but of God. They therefore who are Heads of Families, should employ their Authority according to the will of God, and be a Terror not to good works, but to evil. They should countenance Virtue, and discourage Vice, as much as possible, in their Families; resolving everyone with Joshua, As for me and my House, we will serve the Lord. They should (with Abraham ) command their Household to keep the way of the Lord: and when Correction may be needful, they must resolutely apply this wholesome Remedy, and not spare the Rod Behold, this is to bring up their Children in the Nurture & Admonition of the Lord. 'It is but agreeable to the Conduct of God towards his Children. 2 Sam. 7.14. I will be his Father, and he shall be my Son: if he commit iniquity, I will chasten him with the rod of Men, and with the stripes of the Children of Men.
And even so Ministers, who are said to be Rulers over the Household, should study to approve themselves Fathers to their People, by a due exercise of their Pastoral Authority, in all proper acts of Government & Discipline, agreeable to their Divine Commission.
Thus they must invite & admit into the visible Family of Christ, by Baptism, and unto the Table of the Lord, such as are meet & proper Subjects of these holy Ordinances, and only such; careful to keep out of his House ill Servants, left the Children should learn their ways, and get a snare to their Souls.
They must watch over them that are committed to their Charge; take heed unto themselves, and to all the Flock; watching for their Souls, as those that must give an Account.
They must exercise their power and show all good fidelity in reproving Sin; rebuking (where there is occasion for it) with all Authority, as a Father doth his Children, when he sees them do amiss.
They are also to warn and admonish. I Cor. 4.14. As my beloved sons, I warn you. Private Christians may, yea, should (and I wish they did more faithfully) reprove & warn one another: But then They do it merely in a war of Charity & Brotherly Kindness. Whereas Ministers act herein as public Officers, and their Reproofs & Admonitions carry something of a Paternal Authority with them. Thes. 5.12. Which are over you in the Lord, and admonish you.
They are also to command & charge. So their Instructions run,— These Things command & teach; — Charge them that are rich in this world ;— Put them in remembrance, charging them before the Lord. Indeed when they command or charge, it must be only in the Name & Cause of CHRIST, our common Head and Master. They are to be obeyed only (as Children are required to obey their Parents) in the Lord : and therefore they must keep close to the Word, as their Directory, & take all their Charges & Injunctions out of that, & give them forth as the Commands of Christ.
Moreover, They are to excommunicate impenitent scandalous Offenders. Them that so sin, they are to rebuke before all, that others also may fear; & after the first & second Admonition, reject. The Apostle directs the Church at Corinth to put away from among themselves a wicked Person that had defiled their Communion. They were to do it by their Elders ; unto whom it belongs by Office to exercise that Power, with the Concurrence of the Brethren. By their hand the Keys are to be turned, both in opening and shutting the Doors of GOD's House.
Again, They are to restore him that is lapsed, upon his Repentance; take off the Sentence & Punishment which was inflicted of many, & forgive and comfort him, as tender Parents welcome home a returning Prodigal.
In a word, They are both to exhort and convince Gainsayers, and stop the Mouths of unruly and vain Talkers & Deceivers, who resist the Truth, & subvert Souls. Some they must rebuke sharply, that they may be sound in the Faith, or at least may proceed no further: while on others they must have Compassion, in Meekness instructing them. They must endeavor by sound doctrine to recover such as are fallen into Error, to establish the wavering, to support the feebleminded, & build them up on their most holy Faith. — But I conclude this head with that of the Apostle, 1 Thes. 2.11. You know how we exhoried and comforted and charged everyone of you, as a father doth his Children.
4. Ministers are to bless their People, and to pray with and for them : and in this perform the part of Parents toward them.
Parents, and in special the Fathers, are to go before their houses in Divine Worship, & be their mouth to GOD in Family-Prayer, as well as his Mouth to them in Family-Instruction. These are Duties taught us by the Light of natural Reason, & enforced by the Laws of revealed Religion. And in the order of Nature it belongs to the Parents to lead in religious Exercises. They whose province it is to guide the House, & preside in the secular Affairs of it, should also go before the Family in the things of GOD. Every Master is as well a Priest to his house, as a little King & Prophet. The Father in old time, before the Institution of distinct Orders among Men, sustained this threefold character, & offered Sacrifices, as well as bare Rule, & taught within his own walls. And in Acts of natural Religion (such as Prayer) he so far still remains a Priest unto GOD, that he must lead his family in the spiritual Sacrifices of Prayer & Praise; which should, as the continual burnt offering, be presented daily morning & evening. We find the Patriarch Abraham, wherever he pitched his Tent, building an Altar (a Family-Altar) & serving at it, in his own person. We read also of Job 's sanctifying his Children, by burnt-offerings according to the number of them all. Thus (its said) did Job continually. — It is spoken of David, as what was his Custom, after the Translation of the Ark, that he returned to bless his Household. — And it is required of Masters, as they would give to their Servants that which is just & equal, that (knowing they themselves also have a Master in heaven) they continue in Prayer, praying TOGETHER
In like manner, Churches being a kind of larger Households, in which Ministers are spiritual Fathers, they are to bless these their Ecclesiastical Families in the Name of the Lord; to pray for them in their Closets, and to pray with them in private on special occasions as they are called (see Jam. 5.14.) but more especially in the public Congregation. Of old the Lord separated the Tribe of Levi to stand before him & to bless in his Name. And this makes a part of the Office of Gospel-Ministers also. Tho' we donit (that I at present remember) expressly read anywhere of the Apostles or first Ministers of the Gospel leading in the prayers of any public Assembly: yet doubtless it was their Practice, & seems to be intimated in several places. — The Apostles do insert Benedictions, in their Letters to the Churches: and undoubtedly wherever they preached a Sermon, they prayed with the Assembly, & pronounced a Blessing on the Worthy. Even so should every Minister. They must lead in the Devotions of GOD's House; solemnly bless their People upon all proper Occasions, whether in public or private, as well as make mention of them always in all their secret Prayers. They are obliged by their Office to give themselves to Prayer, equally as to the Ministry of the Word. And this is but what becomes the Character of Fathers, which they sustain. Thus the young Levite was a Father & a Priest to the Tribe of Dan.
But to proceed,
5. Ministers are obliged to be Examples of Religion before their People.
Parents partake of the same Nature, which they propagate unto their Children: So Ministers should see to it that they themselves be real Instances of that viral Sanctity, which 'tis the grand business of their Office to promote & spread in the World.
The Example of Parents carries a peculiar Force and Impression with it; which Reflection should make them ever solicitous to be exemplary in all their language & demeanour before their Househould. And of the like Influence is the Example of Ministers. They therefore should study to teach Religion by their Practice as well as Doctrine; that the former adding Weight & Efficacy to the latter, such as have not been wrought on by their Word, may be won by their good Conversation in Christ.
It is not only a moral duty of common obligation on Ministers with other Christian Professors; but seems given them in charge even as a part of their sacred Office, and an instituted Medium for the carrying on their Work to better advantage, That they be careful to set a good Example; which is the most Divine & excellent, the most familiar, compendious and engaging method of Instruction — Hence if Ministers set a bad Example they are doubly guilty before GOD.
Ministers are (as Parents in the Family) in a somewhat elevated and conspicuous Station; they are as a City set on a Hill, which cannot be hid. They lie very open to Observation, & many Eyes are upon them. It is of no small Consequence therefore, that they walk circumspectly, & be holy in all manner of Conversation; So, they will shine as Lights in the World, & diffuse benign Beams & Influences; will adorn their Doctrine, & make Religion appear with an attractive beauty & luster. Whereas, on the contrary, if they are vicious & dissolute, their ill Example has a direct Tendency to stain the honor of the Gospel, to give a Reputation to Vice; to harden the Wicked, & wound the Righteous Souls among their People.
I shall only add here; Persons are sometimes denominated the Children of others, from their Resemblance & Imitation of them. For this reason in part are Believers called the Children of Abraham, because they walk in his steps: & he is called the Father of us all, as being an eminent Example of Faith to all Generations.
Hence then, Ministers are obliged by this character of Fathers, to show themselves Patterns of good works. It is therefore expressly required of them, in the Scriptures, — That they be blameless, and of good behavior ; Lovers of hospitality; Lovers of good men; sober, just, holy, temperate; not given to Wine; not greedy of filthy Lucre; no Brawlers, no Strikers, not soon angry, not self-willed, neither carrying it as Lord's, but being Ensamples to the Flock: Ensamples in Word, in Conversation, in Charity, in Spirit, in Faith, in Purity: fleeing all youthful Lusts; from which if a Man purge himself, he shall be a Vessel unto honor, sanctified, & meet for the Master's use, & prepared unto every good work. In particular no small stress is laid upon Ministers being Patterns for Family-Government & Discipline: that they rule well their own Houses, having their Children in subjection with all gravity; for (saith Paul to Timothy ) if a Man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the Church of GOD?
These are Apostolic Canons, of a Divine Original, unquestionably authentic; and do loudly bespeak entertainment with all that would approve themselves genuine Ministers of Christ, & truly Fathers to their People.
Finally, For all these ends, they must personally reside among their People, as Parents dwell with their Children & Family. The Apostle would have Mothers to love their Children, to be discreet, keepers at home, guiding the House. And Fathers are obliged to reside as constantly with their Families as possible. In allusion to this the names of Father & Mother are sometimes made use of to signify intimate Communion & Familiarity; as in Job 17.14 & 2 Cor. 6.16. — 18. Even so Ministers should live among their People, that they may get acquainted with them, and know the state of their Flocks, in some measure as Parents know the state of their Families, & have an intimate acquaintance with their Children. In populous places indeed, & large Congregations, it is difficult to attain a personal knowledge of every Individual. Yet the ends of the Ministry require that a Pastor be at least acquainted with the general state of his People▪ and he should seek after a particular Acquaintance, as far as he can, by careful inquiries, by pastoral Visits, by asking & receiving Visits from them, &c. that he may know their Soul-wants, & be able to suit his spiritual Provisions to their various Appetites & Capacities. Ministers must reside with their particular Charges; to the end they may watch for Souls; may inspect the Conversations of their People; may shine before them by the light of an holy Example, &c. For these ends (I say) personal Residence is their duty; & seems necessary, as they would approve themselves worthy the Title of Fathers. It looks unnatural, & a foul Incongruity in them, to be long or often needlessly absent from their Charges; much more to dwell stately at a remote distance; or finally leave them but upon the most justifiable & important Reasons. The Reprimand may be applied in such Cases, that was given the Prophet, when he was out of his place, What doest thou here, Elijah?
But thus much for the third thing, The nature and business of their Office. I come now to another general head.
IV. This title of Parents or Fathers, suggests to us some of the Qualifications, Gifts and Accomplishments, that are requisite for the work of the Ministry.
Men have sometimes this Title applied to them, in regard to their Age, their Knowlege, their Wisdom, Experience, &c.
Seniority gives this Denomination. Hence the Apostle begins his Apology (Act. 22.1.) with those distinct Compellations, Men, Brethren, and Fathers. Now, in this application of the word, Some in the Ministry are emphatically Fathers, & have a distinguishing right to the Name, by reason of their venerable Hoary Head. And though' these are not the only Persons intitled to that Character, & though' advanced Age is not requisite to the Ministry; yet let me take occasion to say here, It seems the highest Propriety, that Persons be able to write Man, and be arrived to years of Maturity & Solidity, before they assume this Office & Character.
Under the Levitical Dispensation, only middle-ag'd Men of the Tribe of Levi were employed in the Service of the Tabernacle. The Limits were from 30 years old to 50. — I shall offer an Account of this matter, in the words of Mr Henry, (in his Exposition upon Numb. 4.)
The Ministry is an Office of Authority: & natural Decency requires, that such as execute it, be Men both in years, & parts. Besides otherwise there will be danger of two things: (1) of their being bloated with Self-Conceit, with young Nadab & Abihu, to their Ruin. Hence the Apostle inserts it in his Character of a Bishop. 1 Tim. 3.6. Not a Novice ; lest being lifted up with Pride, he fall into the Condemnation of the Devil. And then (2) there will be danger of their falling into Contempt, as being but of Yesterday, & knowing nothing.
The Ministry is a hard & critical Work, & of a superior nature; & such a work had need have a wise Head & dextrous Hand to manage it. Verily it requires the best Furniture of Science, Prudence, Fortitude, & Resolution, to supply all its occasions, and wade thro' its Difficulties. They hadnit need be very young, & tender, & unexperienc'd, that undertake such a Work; which will many times exercise all the Strength, Skill, & Courage of a Paul, a Cephas and an Apollos united. Sure I am, the whole time of Youth is little enough to be spent in preparatory Study, Prayer, & Observation. — Let me pause here a little, and having first laid my hand on my own breast, permit me to say, — Many of us have reason to reflect with Shame upon our Rushing into the Pulpit so young, so undisciplin'd, & unfurnish'd: and all of us have too sad occasion to lament our Ignorance, Inexpertness, & manifold Deficiencies.
I go on, —
Ministers had need be Men of good natural Powers; and these well cultivated by a liberal Education. It is requisite they be acquainted with the Tongues, Arts & Sciences; & have those measures of acquired Literature, which may advance them above the common Level, & distinguish them from the Generality of their People, as much as Parents usually excel their Children in Knowlege. They had need be Men in Understanding; and especially should they be mighty in the Scriptures; that they may be apt to teach, & able both to exhort & convince. Else they little deserve the name of Fathers. For saith the Apostle, Everyone that is unskillful in the Word, is a Babe. — They should be ready Scribes, well instructed to the Kingdom of GOD. They are called the Lights of the World. A Star without light, is not a greater solecism than a Minister without some good portion of Theological Learning.
Further, Another very important Requisite is Wisdom. — Luk. 12.42. Who then is that faithful and wise Steward —! These Ecclesiastical Fathers had need be persons of Wisdom as well as Fidelity: come to a virile Consistence & Perfection in their Reason and Judgment; having a just Government of their Thoughts, Appetites, & Passions; & well verst in the Art of Business; knowing in Things as well as Words, & having read Men as well as Books; equally skilled in Manners & Principles; acquainted with the variety of critical & perplexed Cases that occur in the Ministry; & understanding in the Times: that they may be able to manage their Affairs with Discretion; may know how to behave themselves in the house of GOD & among his People; to apply properly to Persons of all Characters, of all Tempers and Conditions, & to speak a word in Season upon all occasions. In these things wisdom is profitable to direct.
Moreover, (it deserves a special Remark) the Ministry is a holy & spiritual Work, & therefore calls for gracious Qualifications; requires no little Strength in Grace, & Experience in vital Christianity. [An unexperienc'd Pilot is not a greater Absurdity than an unexperienc'd Minister.] Surely Ministers ought to be such as deserve the Name of Fathers, (in the Sense wherein 'tis used by the Apostle, 1 Job. 2.13.) in distinction from Young Men & little Children, or more imperfect Beginners in Religion. — The Minister ought to be a Father, in regard of his manly Attainments in Grace; at least of full age, & among those who by reason of Use have their Senses exercised to discern both Good & Evil: — Not a Novice, a Weakling or Babe in Christ, of short Standing and little Proficiency in the School of Heaven; much less a Child of this World, an unsanctify'd Sinner, initiated only in the form of Godliness Sure I am, such an one must often necessarily be very aukward in his managements, & scarce know how to deal with Souls in many cases; must needs be frequently put to a Stand▪ & sometimes to the Blush, from a consciousness of his own Ignorance & Inexperience in Divine Things. — If the Minister be not an experienced Christian, certainly he must make but a poor Casuist ; an unsafe Guide, very uncapable to lead the Blind; an unsafe Physician, uncapable to apply to the Wounded in Spirit, with that skill, & tenderness & fidelity, which their condition requires. — The Minister had need be strong in Faith; rooted in Love; filled with spiritual Wisdom; under the governing power of Divine Principles, & improved in all the Graces of the active & pasive Life. — Otherwise he will 〈…〉 Compassion, a natural Care for Souls. Otherwise 〈◊〉 never have a due Jealousy for the Name of Christ, or a just Vigour in his Cause: Otherwise all his Zeal will be a false fire, at least a weak blaze, of short duration & little service; and many times will prove a smoky & impure flame, full of noxious vapors, poison & malignity: Otherwise he will be soon shaken in mind, apt to sink under difficulties, & faint in his Work; or else be tempted to Unfaithfulness, & securely sit down idle, doing the work of the Lord negligently, & handling the Word of GOD deceitfully▪ — Otherwise (in fine) he will know nothing as he ought to know it; will think nothing, will speak nothing, will do nothing, in his Ministry, as he ought. There will not be that Spirituality, that Humility, that Life & Affection, in his Prayers, his Sermons, & other Performances, which becomes a spiritual Father.
It is a Reflection, pertinent to our purpose, which we have from one of the greatest Masters of Thought in the last age, — That the Heart has its Arguments & Motives, with which the Reason is not acquainted. We feel this (says he) in a thousand instances. It is the Heart, & not the Reason, which has properly the Perception of GOD —. The Judgment & Understanding have their proper Method: which is by Principles and Demonstrations. The Heart & Affections have a Method altogether different. A Man would expose himself very remarkably, who should go about to engage our Love, by laying down, in a Philosophical Order, the Springs and Causes of that Passion." (Thus he) And agreeable is that Remark, from another Masterly Hand "It is not composing a Sermon with exquisite Art, & the delivering of it like an Orator, that makes a Minister accepted with GOD: and usually such Sermons are without Profit to the Hearers. The sound of words only reaches the Ear: 'tis the Mind convinces the Mind, & the Heart persuades the Heart. He that is burning in his own breast, will inflame others: but if there be no Celestial Fire in the Minister's breast, he speaks of Divine Truths without a deep Concernment; and a Cold Preacher makes a cold Hearer: So the Sermon is lost in the Air between the lips of the one & the ears of the other. — Indeed (as we have the Remark from a like excellent Hand ) "GOD may feed his People, as He did Elijah, by a Raven; and make a cold Breath kindle the sparks of Grace in the Hearts of others. But yet such an one as speaks from the Heart, is most like to speak unto it. And it is commonly observed, That they are the Labors of such, that GOD most usually owns & crowns with Success."
Thus you see that Ministers had need be truly Men of God, endowed with superior measures both of Gifts & Graces, & have that Wisdom, Weight, and Experience▪ which may justly entitle them Spiritual Fathers.
I pass now to another general Head.
V. This title of Parents tells us what the Tempers and Deportments are which do become Ministers ; that they should express a Fatherly Spirit in their Ministry, and imitate the Conduct of wise, tender, and religious Parents.
The Name inscrib'd upon them must give Law to all their Powers, & direct their Tempers & Managements; that as they are Parents by Office & Title, they may be such by Analogy & in Fact. Now a wide Prospect opens before me here; and might I be permitted to expatiate, a great deal could be said to profitable purpose. But I shall study to bring my Thoughts into a narrow Compass; & the rather because I have somewhat prevented myself, by many incidental Hints I have mingled in the foregoing part of this Discourse. Yet I should hardly be just to my Text, if I did not allow the head we are now upon, a distinct Consideration. Suffer me then to say here.
(1) Ministers should bear all suitable Parental Affections toward their People.
They should be Fathers to their People in Affection. Love is the first & most essential passion in a Parent. Our Children being so many parts of ourselves (without a figure) we love 'em by a natural and almost invincible Instinct. And as it seems a property of Love to descend with the greatest force; so the Love of Parents is perhaps of all others the strongest, & usually flows down in a resistless Torrent of Benevolence, Zeal & Solicitude. Hence if Ministers would show themselves in truth Fathers to their People, their Breasts must be filled with Love, and flame with paternal Passions.
They must see to it that their Love be real & unfeigned, as that of Parents; not a painted blaze, but a living Reality. For it's possible there may be glittering Dissemblers (like Judas ) who have not the least spark of sacred fire in their bosoms; but their hearts cold & dead as a Stone, while yet sometimes all without may be flame & heat.
Again, Their Love must be pure, & without the the mixture of corrupt Aims; a free & generous Passion, like that in Parents,; & a spiritual Affection, kindled by motives of a heavenly extract, & regulated by Divine Principles & Designs. Not a general Philanthropy only, nor a Party-Friendship; not a mercenary & sensitive Affection; a mere human Love, terminating in carnal Considerations; such as theirs, Gal. 4.17. They zealously affect you, but not well ; that is, not sincerely, or upon true & genuine Views. All worldly Considerations are heterogenous Springs. Where Self only or mainly is concerned & intended, the Love is of a false Original. We must be animated by the same Spirit with the holy Apostle, who says in our Text, I seek not yours but you: & I will gladly spend & be spent for your Souls though' more abundantly I love you, the less I be loved. — It must be a Love to Souls, a Love to Christ in his People, & a Love to them for Christ's sake. This is to love the Brethren with a pure heart.
Again, Their Love must be impartial▪ as the love of parents generally is or should be. It must extend to all their People, without exception, & without respect of Persons. Indeed it cannot be exercised toward all exactly in the same manner & degree without any distinction: this is neither possible, nor a duty. Yet it must be universal in its goodwill at least, & not limited by any sinister Considerations. Suppose we have received Affronts & Abuses; or suppose personal Defects in this & the other; Deformity of Body, or (which is worse) a Crookedness of Temper; or Poverty, Meanness of Condition; or a prevailing Unprofitableness under our Ministry, &c. Yet in none of these Cases is Love to be dispensed with. It is a dangerous thing for Ministers or Parents to want a hearty Affection to their Children or People, or to any of them. Corrupt Partiality has been the Bane & Ruin of many Families & Churches Unity & Peace.
Again, Their Love must he fervent, like that of tender Parents. We are to love our Neighbors as ourselves; & yet are allowed to love our Children in an uncommon degree. So Ministers should love all Men; but the People of their Charge, in a peculiar manner. Not contenting themselves with some little faint spark of Affection, they should endeavor to get their Hearts inspired with a burning Zeal, with Parental Ardours.
Moreover, It should be constant & persevering. The Love of Parents is a natural Affection: & what's natural, is fixed & durable. So Ministers should have a kind of natural Affection for their People; an habitual Love, an unperishing flame, which many waters cannot quench.
In fine, It must be a very active Principle; reigning over all the Powers of their Souls▪ & producing all agreeable inward Motions, Desires & Resentments. What is it that a loving & gracious Parent feels within? O the tender Sympathy & Concern that fills his breast! The ardency of Desire! The vigor of active Pity! The painful Sensations, upon his Children's Afflictions or Miscarriages! His Heart aches, his Soul melts & bleeds out in Tears of Grief for them. — But O! the Joy & Ravishment, upon their Prosperity & good Conduct! A wise Son maketh a glad Father: but a foolish Son is the Heaviness of his Mother.
Even thus should Ministers be affected towards their People. They should mourn over carnal Sinners with parental bowels; anxious for them, as Kish for his son Saul, when he left the Care of the Asses, & sorrowed for him, saying, What shall I do for my Son? — Where any appear obstinate & dead in Trespasses & Sins; they should be grieved for the hardness of their Heart, & mourn for them as David for his Absalom. Their Souls should weep in secret places for them. — And where any are under Awaknings & preparatory spiritual Dolours; these spiritual Parents should groan earnestly for their Deliverance, & as 'twere travel in birth, until Christ be formed in them. They should be inflamed with an holy impatient Thirst for the Convirsion of Souls; longing after them all in the bowels of Jesus Christ; that of Zion it may be said, This and that Man was born in her, under their Ministry. — And they should rejoice in the Conversion of Sinners. The News of this should be to them, as Tidings to a Father, of the birth of a Child, filling his Heart with gladness. — Moreover, they should maintain a peculiar Esteem for the precious Sons of Zion, & Daughters of Jerusalem, accounting them the Excellent in the Earth, and calling them their own Bowels, as Paul speaks of his Son Onesimus. They should be full of peculiar Benevolence to such. So the Apostle, to the Corinthians,
In a word, He should be •• ssess'd with a Parental Care for his People. Can a Woman forget her sucking Child! Or can the Tenderness & Vigilance of an affectionate Father be equaled! He has his loved Children ever on his Mind, & all his Powers upon the wing, to seek their Good. And when natural Affection is sanctified by the grace of GOD, all the Springs of pious Concern are opened, & he is solicitous for their Souls, Day & Night. Even thus should the Spiritual Parent bear his People upon his Heart, and grave them upon the palms of his Hands. Verily a careless Minister is a prodigious Solecism. The Apostle tells Timothy, A Bishop must be vigilant, & take care of the Church of GOD. And he gives that Charge to the Bishops of Ephesus, Take heed unto yourselves, and to all the Flock. — Watch & remember that by the space of three years I ceased not to warn everyone night & day with Tears. — The Bishop or spiritual Father must watch in all things, as one that really has the Care of Souls, at heart. There must be a Care to know the State of his Flock; a Care to find out proper Methods for the promoting their spiritual Safety & Prosperity; & a Care to make a wise & successful Application of the Means: An earnest Care (such as GOD put into the heart of Titus for the Church at Corinth) a Care to serve Christ and save Souls; this, this is the true Pastoral Care: & must be found in all that would approve themselves indeed spiritual Fathers to their People.
Thus we have been looking into the hidden Man of the Heart, & viewing the inward Frames of Spirit, which agree to that sweet & instructive Title of Parents, which Ministers are characterized by.
I go on now to say, —
(2) They must study to illustrate the Beauty and Propriety of their Name, by all suitable Parental Conduct, & outward Management, in their Office, and towards the People of their Charge.
Thus, they must assert their Character, by a diligent Discharge of their Trust, in all the parts of it. Parental Love is a buisy restless Passion. What is it that the affectionate Parent will not do for his Children! O the ardent Zeal that flows in his breast! The Vigour of Endeavor! The unweary'd Offices of Benignity! He'l gladly sit up late, & rise early, to serve them, & think nothing in his power too much to do for 'em. — Now, even thus should Ministers be active & diligent in their Work, to show before the Churches the proof of their Love, & that their Care for 'em in the sight of GOD may appear to them. They must labor to do their whole work, the duty of the day in its day, according as every day requires. So far as the Ministerial Trust is neglected, they put off the Character of Fathers. — True Parental Love will (in proportion to the degree of its strength) put Life & Activity into all their executive Powers, and make them ready to every good work; hating Sloth; impatient of Delays & Hindrances, & careful to redeem the Time. — And indeed their Work is such as calls for all their Vigour, Weight & Application. They had need to study hard, to read much, and think more, & stick close to Business, the proper Business of their Post; attending continually on this very thing; giving themselves wholly to it, as was required of Timothy. And suffer me to say here, For this end, they should endeavor the greatest Abstraction from the World, & sit as loose to its concerns as may be. Indeed the Apostles (we know) sometimes wrought with their own hands : but then it was only to supply their present Wants, in a time of pressing necessity; which perhaps is almost the only case, wherein 'tis lawful for Ministers to employ themselves in worldly business; especially to that degree as to take them off much from their divide Employment. This is elegantly & very justly compared to a Warfare : And the Apostle remarks to his Son Timothy ; No Man that warreth, entangles himself with the Affairs of this Life, that he may please his Captain, that is, may be at leisure to attend, & have skill & will to execute his Orders, upon whatsoever Service he pleases to call him out. Now, to this end, it much more behooves the Minister, to banish all ensnaring Earthly Cares and Anxieties out of his Mind, as much as possible. Hence the Apostles renounced the Deacons Office (a Ministration about Temporals) That they might give themselves continually to Prayer, and the Ministry of the Word: as finding by experience they must necessarily in too great & unreasonable a measure leave the Word, if they continued to serve Tables. (See, Act. 6.) — Few in the World are Men of that Capacity, Application, and Strength of Genius, as to be able to carry on a variety of Callings together. The Ministry before is ordinarily enough for any Man, to take up his whole Time, and exercise all his Powers. And then it being a spiritual Work, that calls for the most heavenly & divine Tempers, it seems (in its nature) to be not a little inconsistent with the tumultuous Cares of a Secular or Civil Employment. There is danger of our drinking in a Demas-like Spirit, the Spirit of the World; if we needlessly immerse ourselves in the Affairs of this present life. Ministers being Men subject to like Passions had need as well as others to beware of Covetousness; left the love of money, which is the root of all Evil, once insinuating itself into their breasts, this should gradually extinguish every Spark of Love to Souls; & so the temporary Suspensions of their Ministry (in pursuit of the World) unhappily lead to a final Desertion of it; in Heart, if not in Practice. — But enough upon this particular.
Further, Ministers should endeavor to show themselves Fathers, — by the exercise of all fatherly and manly Gifts & Powers in the performing of their Office. They should study to show themselves approved unto GOD, Workmen, that need not to be ashamed. — I have said before, what their Gifts should be: I am now saying, they should suitably exercise them. Let no man despise thee: Neglect not the Gift that is in thee ; was part of the Charge given Timothy. Thus, they should study to exhibit their Knowlege (sacred Knowlege) unto Edification, in all their Ministerial Performances; showing themselves Men, & Men of GOD, thôrôly furnished: or at least managing so, that their Profiting may appear to all. Again, They should study to exercise & manifest Prudence, Skill, & spiritual Wisdom: showing themselves not only Men of Zeal, but Men of Thought, directed by rational Views, & governed by wise Principles; not indeed by the maxims of carnal policy, the wisdom of this world, but of the wisdom which is from above. This must sit Chief, & choose out their way for them; otherwise "Good Passions may sometimes carry them into bad Actions, or the best Actions be spoiled by an irregular Management." Indiscreet luxuriant Fervour generally begins in mistake, proceeds in confusion▪ & ends in mischief; or at best in disappointment. They had need exercise all their Sagacity, Caution, Penetration, & Judgment; to distinguish aright concerning Persons, Things, & Times; to methodize their Affairs well; to improve the fittest Seasons; to choose out the best Means, & apply them with dexterity. — Thus, in their PRAYERS, they should use their best prudence; that these may be adapted to the common Edification; carry light, & heat, & order in them; be clothed with humble easy language; be accommodated to the occasion, & the state of things, whether in public or private; not in a doctrinal or historical Strain, but devotional; & the Utterance duly proportioned and adjusted to the place, matter of the prayer, &c. So, in their SERMONS, they should study for seasonable Subjects; most frequently inculcate the first and great Truths of the Gospel; not read Lectures of mere Ethics, or deal in Politicks, or lay out their Labors on jejune Speculations, in barren Controversy, or Arguments more nice & subtle, than wise, or profitable, especially to popular Audiences. It's a just Remark of a celebrated Writer; "'It is but a mean Character of a Man, that he says a great many fine Things." If a Son should ask Food of any of you that is a Father, will you feed him with Wind? If he ask Bread, will you give him a Stone? or if he ask a Fish, will you give him a Serpent? — If Ministers would not deal as unkindly & unjustly with their People, they must preach the Word, the Truth as it is in Jesus; & this in a manner adapted to the general capacity & relish of their Audience, as much as may be. That's the best Preaching, which has in it most of the genius & spirit of the Christian Religion; exhibiting it in its glorious principles, precepts, promises, &c. Here's the bread of Life, to nourish Souls. Lord, evermore give us this Bread! — But further, Ministers must use the greatest prudence in managing the affairs of Discipline & Church-Government; that all be done
But I must not prevent myself from saying in the next place, —
They must show themselves Fathers, by the conspicuous exercise of all those Graces & Virtues, which may adorn their Character & Relation. These must shine out, & display themselves, in their whole Ministry & Converse.
Thus, They must express a Spirit of Seriousness & Solidity. All kind of Levity is childish; very unseemly in Parents (who should study to make their presence venerable to their Children) but more so in Ministers. The Apostle rejects the thought of it with abhorrence, 2 Cor. 1.17. Did I use Lightness ! They must be grave in the Pulpit, & out of it; in their Garb, Mein, & Language; in Doctrine showing uncorruptness, Gravity, Sincerity; in Conversation using sound Speech, which cannot be condemned; not indulging 〈…〉 on Allusions, or frothy trifling Witticisms & foolish Jestings, which are not convenient: & "in Manners, above the trivial puerile Customs & loose Practices of a vain World"; not only keeping at the widest distance from grosser Immoralities & Impurities, but also in some cases abridging themselves even of lawful Freedoms, that the Ministry be not blamed, & that they may set the brightest Example of a shining Gravity. — I use this Epithet, because true Gravity is a very distinct thing from cloudy sullen Reservedness, & morose Dejection.
Again, There must be a spirit of Meekness, Patience, Humility & Self-denial, appearing in their Conduct. 'It is a Law upon Parents, Col. 3.21. Provoke not your Children, lest they be discourages. Extravagant Rigours towards Children are generally of pernicious Consequence; on the one band, breaking the hearts of the meek & tender spirited & making them lie down in sullen despair & neglect of duty: on the other hand, inflaming the more rough and passionate, & tempting them to run into greater Outrages. Hence then Parents should see to it that they temper their Government with the meekness of Wisdom. And indeed it is the general Disposition of Parents to be indulgent, rather than severe. Hence it is drawn into comparison, Mal. 3.17. I will spare them, as a Father spareth his own Son that serveth him. So in those words of Moses, Numb. 11.12. Have I conceived all this People? Have I begotten them? that Thou shouldest say unto, me, Carry them in thy bosom, as a nursing Father bereath the sucking Child! We that are Parents know what this means. Now Ministers should learn of tender Parents, to maintain & express a Spirit of Candour & Forbearance towards their People. Thus the Apostle, 1 Thes. 2.7. We were gentle among you, even as a Nurse cherisheth her Children. They should endeavor to show all Patience under the Difficulties they meet with, from the Humors of Men, from the Infirmities of the Weak, the troublesome Follies of the Froward, and the base Requitals of the unthankful; puting the best Construction's, & making all possible Allowances. They must be ready to deny themselves, & comply with mean & hard things sometimes, like Parents for their Children sake: as the Hebrew Servant, Exod. 21.5. I love my Children; I will not go out free. They must labor to exercise the true Spirit of Peacemakers, studying to prevent & compose all Differences among their People; as Parents among their Children. They must endeavor to be clothed with Humility; easy of access, affable, courteous, willing to condescend to men of low degree, & stoop to the meanest Offices, proper for their Station; as Parents for their Children. They should smile on and countenance good Beginnings, & not despise the day of small things, or disdain to speak to Babes. Nor affect to command, where Entreaties will suffice. Thus the Apostle to Philemon, says, Thô I might be much bold in Christ, to enjoin thee that which is convenient: yet for Love's sake I rather beseech thee. And in dispensing Rebukes, they should endeavor that their Zeal may be regulated by Prudence, & be such as consists with the Spirit of Meckness, considering themselves, lest they also be tempted. They should be willing to see & own all that's good and commendable in everyone; sometimes discreetly mixing deserved Praises, with their Reproofs and Warning [See an Instance of this in 1 Cor 1.4,—11.] I shall conclude this Head with a short Extract out of the Character given of a late eminently good and useful Minister from whence we may form several wise Rules to ourselves in the Conduct of our Ministry. Of him its said;
Again, They should labor for a fervent Spirit, & discover all the lively passions of tender Fathers, in Prayer & Preaching, & private dealing with Souls. Parental Love often puts all the Springs & Powers of Nature in motion, and makes us even agonize sometimes in our Addresses to the Throne of Grace for our dear Children: we donit always content ourselves with a transient cold Petition or two; we cannot rest in one perpetual lifeless Round of words; but, Nature helping Grace, our hearts sometimes grow hot within us, & we pour out many & very importunate Requests to GOD. Now in this, Ministers should strive to imitate natural Parents. Like Elias they should Pray earnestly: Like Epaphras, they should always labor fervently in Prayer, with a deep Solemnity, Warmth & Vigour of Spirit — So in Preaching, a Zeal for Souls should carry them out in pathetic Strains, animate their Utterance, & inflame their Language. Both in the Study & Pulpit, they should even strive for something of Ezekiel 's Heat of Spirit, when the hand of the Lord was strong upon him. They should speak as those that feel in themselves the heart of a Father, & the bowels of a Mother; which often give most affecting Accents to parental Counsels & Instructions.
Moreover, They should be of good Courage, faithful, resolute & indefatigable in their Work. They must be faithful in personal Applications to Souls, and in public Dispensations of the Word, deliver the whole Counsel of GOD, and keep back nothing that is profitable. The Apostle observes to the Corinthians, — Great is my boldness of Speech toward you—; I speak as to my Children. Parents donit use to mince the matter, & balk duty, for fear of their Children; but deal plainly, & speak home, & do what they apprehend is best & most expedient, however their Children resent it: Tho' indeed to maintain their Government, and restrain them from Disorders, they are sometimes obliged to put on all their Resolution, & use the utmost Prudence. Knowing that the Rod & Reproof give Wisdom, pious Parents will not easily suffer themselves to be bribed by their own Affections, to forbear administering them upon just occasions. Nor will they be soon weary of well doing, &c. Now even thus should Ministers, being animated & governd by an unbias'd A • m at the Good of Souls, preach the Word, reprove, & exhort with all Longsuffering & Doctrine; warning every Man with all fidelity, whether they will hear, or whether they will forbear. Tho' they dwell with Scorpions, impudent Children & rebellious; yet must not be afraid of their Words, nor dismayed at their Looks. (Ezek. 2.4, 6.) Whatever Opposition they meet with in their Work; whatever Difficulties lie in their way, they must still go on, with an unchill'd Zeal, masculine Vigour, & incorruptible Integrity; above the Influence of worldly Fears or Hopes. Frowns or Charms; steadfast & immovable, & always abounding in the work of the Lord. True Zeal is of a sanguine Complexion, bold in the pursuit of duty, and firm to it's point. It mocks at Fear, & smiles in the face of Terror, as well as despises Flattery, and scorns all Discouragements. The Apostle speaks in the Language of Heroic Zeal, Acts 20.24. None of these things move me, neither count I my Life dear to myself, so that I may finish my Course with Joy —
Thus we have seen something of the Duty of Ministers towards their People, resulting from the Character of Fathers applied to them. I have been much longer here than I designed. I shall hasten now to the last general Head of Discourse; after I shall have added this one Hint, That these spiritual Fathers should study to maintain Brotherly Love & Correspondence among themselves, by mutually exchanging all the Offices of good Neighborhood.
It remains now to observe in the last place.
VI. The Apostle in our Text compares the People to Children ; which is a very natural Consideration of them, if Ministers bear the Character of Parents. And from hence they may learn much of the Duty they owe to their Ministers.
But here I shall do little more than hint at things: for I perceive the Time runs out faster than my Subject.
This tells People that they should honor their spiritual Fathers. A Son honoreth his Father. And agreeably it is required, that faithful Elders be counted worthy of double honor (1 Tim. 5.17.) treated with a kind of filial Respect, especially by the People of their Charge, who are commanded to obey them in the Lord, ( Heb. 13.17.) in as express words as the fifth Commandment. It's an Apostolic Canon (at least applicable) in this Case — Rebuke not, that is (according to the notation of the original word) donit satyrically lash an Elder, but entreat him as a Father. — However mean their Persons & outward Condition, yet 'tis a venerable Character & Commission they bear; & this surely should screen them from all Insult, Contempt, — Outrage. It was a mournful Complaint, of old, The Son dishonoreth the Father, & a Man's Enemies are the Men of his own House. — But let it not be so in the House of GOD. We have had Fathers of our Flesh, & we gave them Reverence: shall we not also be in Subjection to those who under GOD are our spiritual Fathers! They should be respected as such, whether they be younger or older. Let no Man despise their Youth, especially if adorned with Wisdom and Gravity: Much less throw Contempt on the Hoary Head, though grown weak & infirm. Thou shalt honor the face of the old Man, & not despise thy Father, when he is old. — During the whole Time of their Continuance in the Pastoral Relation, their People ought to honor them particularly by a just Requital of their Labors, in a suitable Maintenance. It is required of Children (1 Tim. 5.4.) that they learn to show Piety at home, & to requite their Parents : for this is good & acceptable before GOD; & is due by all the Laws of Gratitude & Equity. Even so hath the Lord ordained, ( Gal. 6.6.) that they who are taught in the word should communicate unto Him that teacheth in all good things. Who planteth a Vineyard (saith the inspired Apostle 1 Cor. 9.7,—11.) & eateth not of the Fruit thereof? And if we have sown unto you spiritual Things, is it a great matter if we shall reap of your carnal things ? Besure if we reap but sparingly (as 'twere the young Levite's Portion, which he had of Micah ( Judge. 17.10.) who seems to have intended to make up in honorary Titles, what he fell short in Wages) it ought not to be grudge'd to us. They that reap bountifully, receive but a just Reward. And after all, give me leave to say, the best Salary is no proportional & adequate Recompence for the Benefit received by a faithful Ministry. Yet the Bounties & Kindnesses of our People to us, we would accept always, 〈◊〉 with all Thankfulness: Albeit we do not say how they owe unto us even their OWN SELVES besides. ( Philem. 19.) But these are very tender Points; therefore I pass to say, —
That People should bear a filial Benevolence, and express a suitable Affection to their spiritual Fathers. And indeed we value a real Interest in your Hearts, above all the external Honors you can do us We are ready to bespeak you, in the words of the Apostle (2 Cor. 6.11, 12, 13.)
Now, if Christians would show their Love; Then,
In the first place, Let 'em prize the Society of their Ministers. Love is a Social Passion. Be not shy of your spiritual Fathers. Receive them in the Lord. So will they thank GOD, & take Courage.
Again, Let People learn to value & ask the Prayers and Blessings of their spiritual Fathers. So Elisha begged Elijah 's Blessing: & the same afterwards did King Joash of him. Even a profane Esau sought his Father's Blessing with Tears. People should be ready upon all Occasions to ask the Prayers of their Ministers. In particular it is directed, Jam. 5.14. Is any sick among you? Let him call for the Elders of the Church, and let them pray over him. Truly Brethren, we look upon it as a Slight & Coldness towards us, if you will not send for us in such a Case.
Further, Shew your Love by a due Care not to grieve them by Contentions or other Scandals. Thus says the Apostle to his Galatians, My little Children,— let us not be desirous of vain glory, provoking one another, envying one another. Let them have this Joy, to behold your stedfastness & Order; to see you walkin the Truth, & dwelling together in Unity.
Further, Shew your Love in faithfully asserting & defending their good Names It is an express Command; Phil. 2.29. Hold such in Reputation. If they be slander'd, you must vindicate them with a prudent Zeal. If they be evil spoken of, you must not receive the Accusation, but before two or three witnesses. So the Rule is express, 1 Tim. 5.19. —If you know them to be overtaken with a Fault, think of the Duty you expect from your Children in such a Case: and this will be a sufficient Directory. Or think of Shem & Japheth ; and take care you donit play an ungodly Ham 's part, in exposing & laughing at involuntary Stumbles, or accidental Falls. Love will teach you to cover such Things in Silence: and where any appear to indulge grosser Follies, Love will also teach you to observe it to them, with a respectful Sorrow, still entreating them as Fathers. (1 Tim. 5.1.)
Moreover, Filial Love will teach you to follow their good Example. 1 Cor. 4.15, 16. In Christ Jesus I have begotten you thro' the Gospel: Wherefore I beseech you, be ye Followers of me.
Again, True Love will teach People a due Confidence in their spiritual Fathers faithful Care & Conduct: and a Contentment with the wholesome Food with which they entertain them in the House of GOD; altho' perhaps it be not dressed up in all the forms & splendors that some others are treated with. True Love will teach People to adhere to their Ministry, and not desert it, upon every little Temptation.
Moreover, It will teach them to be constant & affectionate in Prayer for them; generous in Requitals of them, &c.
Finally, love will teach People to mourn their Death, when GOD takes them from their head. These spiritual Fathers are mortal as well as other Parents. Your Fathers, where are they? and the Prophets do they live forever? Christians should often think of this, while they are living; get all the Benefit they can by them, while they enjoy their Presence & Help; & get prepared for the parting time: Honor 'em at their Death, by suitable Lamentations; & (may I not say?) also by a decent Burial. Even a mocking Ishmael could join with his Brother Isaac in burying their Father Abraham. We read of Jehoiada the Priest, 2 Chro. 24.16. They buried him in the City of David, among the Kings, because he had done Good in Israel, both towards God, & towards his House —.In a word, True Love will teach them to pay all becoming Respects to their Memory. It is expressly required, Heb. 13.7. Remember them which have spoken unto you the word of God. "It is ungrateful & unkind (as one observes)
But I draw now to a Close:
Let us reflect on the whole, — and then taking a View of our own Conduct, let us compare Things: see whether we have been acting up to our respective Characters; the People, as Children, & Ministers as Parents. And may we be humble before GOD for all our Failings & Miscarriages towards each other! And let us all be concerned to study the exactest Conformity to our several Characters, in our Deportment towards each other, both Ministers & People, as Remembering that we must give an Account unto GOD.
What has been said might be applied, by way of Caution & Direction to the Candidates for the Ministry — And also to the Churches, to regulate them in the great Affair of choosing a Minister. Covet earnestly the best Gifts: And yet I show unto you a more excellent way. Tho' one speak with the Tongues of Men & Angels, & have not the Love of GOD in him, & a Love to Souls (the Heart of a true spiritual Father) verily he is as a sounding Brass, or a tinkling Cymbal.
But now to conclude in a short Hint to You, Brethren, who are the Occasion of our Convening here at this Time. I need not apply myself particularly to my Brother, who is this Day consecrating himself to the Ministry. The Things which are presently to be given him in Charge by another & the proper Hand, will be sufficient. As he will give a humble Entertainment to the Honors & Respects, which I have been claiming for him in the name of Christ and from his holy Oracles; So I hope, a kind Reception to the Words of Council & Admonition, that have been delivered. May He ever bear in mind this Character of a Spiritual Father! May he study to be indeed such an one in the Church of GOD! And may he have a numerous spiritual Offspring for his Crown and Joy in the day of the Lord!
And I hope you, my Friends, who having built this House to the Name of GOD, have lately been incorporated into a distinct Family (as 'twere) & chosen this Servant of GOD to be a Father unto you, will always remember the Character of Children, which the Apostle in our Text puts upon you, & study to adorn it by a becoming Reverence & Love to Him. Receive him (as we trust you do this day) with all Gladness. See that he may be with you without Fear: for he worketh the Work of the Lord. Intreat him always as a Father: let no Man despise his Youth. The Pastoral Power (accompanied with a good Degree of Knowlege, Prudence, Seriousness, and Zeal for Souls) gives Age & Seniority, to such as are but young in Years. Submit to him therefore as it is fit in the Lord. Do all you can to encourage his Heart, & strengthen his Hands in his Work. Be at Peace among yourselves. Strive together with him in Prayers to GOD for him. And let your Profiting by his Ministry appear.
So will you make him a glad Father: and in the the great day he will give up his Account with Joy; will have Confidence before the Son of Man at his Appearing, & shall present you to GOD, in such Language as that, Lo! Here am I, and the Children which Thou hast given me!